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It seemed like he liked me. But then nothing? How can I shake off these feelings I developed for him?

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Question - (28 February 2013) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 March 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I really don't know how to explain my situation.

Okay, this guy and I have been friends about three months and I went down there to see my sister and this guy and I hooked up at the party she threw.

He had spent the night with me and one thing led to another, we didn't have sex though.

The next day, we woke up to each other and every thing was just great. I was very happy because I guess its because I like him. Well, I went to church but he went to the mall with his boys which is also his gang members and they got high.

I didn't see him until later on that night like for thirty minutes before I left to go back home.

Even though he was over there we barely talked to each other. He gave me a hug and said good bye when I left but I was expecting more you know?

I told him I would text him and I did but I really haven't heard from him since that night I left.

I just don't know what to do anymore. I just want to shake it off but I developed feelings for him. I just don't know what to do. Can someone please help me?

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A female reader, Red591 United States +, writes (20 March 2013):

Red591 agony auntgang members? got high? sorry but I can't even see why you would like him at all. He is a loser. Why do losers break so many hearts?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2013):

Having a relationship with a gang member can get you hurt or killed. One way or another, things will probably end with heartbreak. Count your blessings.

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A female reader, NORA B Ireland +, writes (1 March 2013):

There is no point in stressing over this boy if he was interested he would have got in contact with you. Just delete these feeling and enjoy lifeand hopefully you will meet some nice guy. Best Luck Nora B.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2013):

Its is simple he is not that into you. Move on and be glad you did not have sex with him as he would have used you and you be feeling a lot worst.

Harsh but a reality. You will get over him and meet someone that treats you better.

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