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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Honeypie
I definitely have found an actual tutor. My only question is why would he do all of that? It kind of confused me. The only reason my friends said he likes me because he's done some other stuff, so when he gave me his number that confirmed it for them. But I think all the answers are right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Daisy_Daisy
He most likely stalled to just say hi to me. I asked him for the notebook a while ago--about a month ago.(I even spoke to him and he said he was heading home so he'd look for it for me..I still don't have it.) I happened to see him coming from my school's cafeteria,(I was leaving he was coming in) but I pretended I didn't notice him as I spoke to my friends. He went inside and came out I noticed him glance in my direction as he passed me.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (14 October 2012):
He stalled to say hi to you (or possibly give you the note book) and you purposely ignored him? What's all that about? Even if he did like you (doubtful) I'm sure he's changed his mind by now.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 October 2012):
I agree he has ZERO interest in you. Neither in helping or getting to know you.
Find someone else to help you out with the class, he is useless for that.
And go with your gut not your friends.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (14 October 2012):
This guy isn't interested in 1) helping you; 2) being your friend; 3) any kind of healthy relationship. He might be interested in one thing but you probably aren't looking for that.
Player is a good description of him. Move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2012): He's definitely not interested. Stop listening to your friends. His acts say it all.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (14 October 2012):
he's not interested and your friends are either delusional or trying to set you up to look foolish... hmmm... why would your friends say he likes you.
unless you really need his help in the class (and I would suggest finding someone else to help you) I'd just forget about him... he sounds like a game player.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (14 October 2012):
Unless everyone around you are clairvoyant or have magically crystal balls don't listen to them.
This guy sounds unreliable, if you need help with a class find somebody else to give you that help.
If you are discussing his actions at length with 'everyone around you' and then avoiding eye contact and not wanting to talk to him ... GUESS WHAT ... he probably thinks you are weird!
If you want his help with class, stop playing around, ask for the help you need, if you don't get the help you need forget him and look for it elsewhere.
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