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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello,I have got out of a 4 year relation ship about a year ago and trying to get back out in the dating field or at least the meeting women field but I seem to have the hardest time getting a girl to dance with me at a club or talk to one at a bar I was wondering if you had any advice to help push away my quietness and shyness. And not attract girls just cause i'm going to be a doctor and they are looking for that future paycheck.
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reader, franny1297  +, writes (26 November 2012):
 hey, im a girl. if your at a public place, look around for a girl how seems nice, fun, gorgeous, and an optomistic person but not slutty. look at them (not stare), once they look at you hold eye contact for two seconds only then smile in a cute way and look away, if they don't smile then try again, if they don't respond to your signals again, then forget that girl. us girls love when you smile, it gives us the impression that you like us, keep doing this between every 5 minutes. after a few times of doing this, get up (yes get up!) go to her, start conversation ex/ "hi" "would you like to dance" "can i get you a drink" or something like that, don't do some next cheesy pick up line. if you get rejected but in a polite way then respect that, just say, "it's cool, i just thought you looked pretty tonight", don't say it in a way that you want to have sex. if she says "no" rudely, then just say ok, and walk off to the toilet to chill and not feel embaressed, trust me, sounds wierd but it makes you feel better.please don't go round having sex with girls and getting drunk, it's not fair. Is she says yes then you might want to give her your number if you liked her, and might even be able to start a relationship with her. if you're shy, stop being shy. (if you don't know how to make eye contact there's things on the internet),
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