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anonymous
writes:My exboyfriend first cheated on me with a stripper, then lied to me saying that he longer had connections with her. Within 3 months the stripper is suppose to be pregnant with his child, and now it has been 5 months and she claims they are married. He denies a marriage, but says that he is trying to stay with her for the sake of the child, but claimed that he is still in love with me. What are some opinions, and do you think that their relationship will work? He and I had been in an almost 3 year relationship, was talking marriage, and was getting ready to plan a baby of our own. The stripper is 21 and he is getting ready to be 27.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2012): I wouldn't like it if they went to a stripper let alone slept with them!!
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (1 December 2012):
 Some opinions....alright here's mine.
I think that if you insist on holding out any kind of hope for a happy future with someone who has behaved badly, someone who apparently lacks impulse control, sound judgment, a sense of decency and regard for others, then you'll be forever unsure and unhappy.
You're a grown woman not a teenage girl. Time to make some grown up decisions and be more discrimminating in the company you keep.
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reader, DuchessDucky +, writes (1 December 2012):
There are 7 billion people on the planet. When someone screws you over so incredibly THEN MOVE ON.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (30 November 2012):
 WHY are you still talking to this scumbag?
If he really loved you he wouldn't have cheated on you. Whether their relationship will work or not is moot - he is with her now.
Stop talking to him, stop texting and chatting. Erase him from your life. All he is doing with you is keeping you around as back up in case the other girl don't work out long time.
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reader, Serpico +, writes (30 November 2012):
Ok - let me get this straight -
1. He cheated on you, with a stripper.
2. He lied to you about her
3. He got said stripper pregnant
4. The stripper claims they are now married
For one, you can find out in a NY minute if they are in fact married because its public record.
That said, if you are chasing this guy at in, in the least, in any way, shape or form, you are a complete fool. The guy has already shown you the type of person he is, and here you are worrying if he's going to stay with her.
Move on immediately, and pray to your personal God thanking that you are no longer in a relationship with such a person.
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