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writes:My friend told this guy I like him.Ever since then, he's been staring at me, flirting with me, calling me pet names. Usually, this is the type of thing that would make a girl think that a guy is into her. But last I heard, he was still hung up on his ex. He told me he's moved on, but he still can't let go of her, he's still so concerned about the things she does. Before he found out I liked him, he even told me that the reason he hates her so much is cause he doesn't want to like her again. I really like this guy, and I was just wondering if he's just messing with me or if this is leading up to something. Sometimes, when we talk, I feel like he's implying some stuff. Usually he implies us being together, but then he almost immediately takes it back by saying I'm being stupid, weak or that he doesn't want to hurt me. What's wrong with this guy!? Why does he keep being hot and then cold? He's not the type to play games, he's a sweet guy! But I'm confused as to what to do know. Especially with his staring and flirting.
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reader, tykeavenger24  +, writes (1 December 2012):
I think he would like something to happen but he might be worried about hurting you if he still likes his ex. i think you should just have a talk to him about why he is doing this and try and find out. he has just got out of a relationship so he might be a bit shy around girls as well.
just talk to him in a nice way and see where you can go from there
hope i helped good luck
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reader, SFaist  +, writes (1 December 2012):
 Hi! I think I'm going through the same thing as you. What I'm learning from my experience is that my guy is sooo emotionally unavailable. All I can say to you is do not read into anything this guy is saying that you might think it will lead into something. He's probably not over his ex even though he wants to be. There is nothing wrong with being his friend for now but don't get sucked into words. Go out with friends and date other guys.
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