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writes:ive been with my boyfriend over a year and we have a 2month baby together his lived with me and my parents for 7 months but he is really unhappy living here and it puts him in a bad mood which he always takes out on me and it causes arguments and tears we are looking for our own place which is taking time , what shall i do before we find our own place ?? Reply to this Question
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reader, kitah +, writes (28 November 2012):
kitah is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2012): Well you could tell him to just keep an enthusiastic attitude about it, maybe look a bit harder and just look forward to when you DO get your own new place together. Also remind him its NOT easy for you either especially when he keeps stressing at you and its NOT your fault.
Getting all stressed out about it isn't going to help matters, and honestly, I could see you both splitting up before you get chance to move out if the situation carries on...
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reader, lanister +, writes (27 November 2012):
I would talk to him honestly. Say you don't mind if he moves back in with his parents or whatever whilst you look for your own place. It might not just be the living situation - it might be the new baby too! A new baby can be stressful, his bad moods might be a reaction to the responsibility he's suddenly had to take on. It might have been real to you whilst you were carrying the baby for 9 months, but it won't have seemed real until the baby was born.
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