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Was she just being polite, or is she interested?

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Question - (27 November 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2012)
A male Canada age 36-40, *uestionquestion writes:

Hi

I have a question guys or girls. I asked a girl I like for her number. We talked briefly once before. We are both working in the hospital. I am a student on my last year and she is working as an undergrad nurse. I was finishing my night shift (11pm-7am) and she is starting her day shift (7am). I asked her number while she is preparing for her day. There was about 2 second silence. She said ok and then the topic got a little off and then it went back to the "getting the number part", although I ended up giving my number first which she wrote on her small booklet. We got distracted by the other nurses so I was not able to give her my number when she ask "do you want me to text you my number?". I ended up not giving her my number cuz she was already working and I am done with the shift.

I didnt get any text from her. btw, I only see her every tuesday morning. and so next tuesday morning, I asked her "hi you didnt text me your number" and she replied "oh I am a scatter brain. lots of things going on. here is my number ####.

do you think she was just being polite? or am I over-thinking this? I mean, there was so much time like weekends to text her number. she is working as an undergrad every tuesday day shift and has class lecture for nursing. she is also a 4th year student but I am 1 semester ahead.

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A male reader, questionquestion Canada +, writes (2 December 2012):

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I did text her this Sunday. we only had a very brief exhange of text messages, the usual "hi hows it going" text. After about 4-5 reply, she said "I'm about to hop in the car. I'll talk to you later. Enjoy your rest"

does this mean anything (being polite, busy)? when should I text her or should I wait for her to text me?

Thanks. Please reply anyone!

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A male reader, questionquestion Canada +, writes (28 November 2012):

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thanks! I guess I have nothing to lose by texting her. if she does not reply well then that's the answer.

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A male reader, MikeFlarity United States +, writes (28 November 2012):

MikeFlarity agony auntTwo Things

1. Welcome to the new world order of dating, happy texting!

2. What have you got to lose by just asking her directly if she dates or if she is interested in dating you or anything else you might want to know right off the bat?

I would recommend those types of questions in one of your first 10 texts. :) good luck and congradulations on becoming an RN.

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A male reader, questionquestion Canada +, writes (27 November 2012):

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one thing that bothered me was that I had to talk to her to get her number. she did talk to me a little (during the 2nd tuesday) saying "oh hey your almost done with clinical. are you going to celebrate somewhere?" but never mentioned about the number. maybe it is because there were other nurses at that time beside me?...

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