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writes: what makes someone decide if they are gf/bg material? I ask because the person of the person i am interested in, and have been for a few months. We are friends, and talk a few times a week, (We live about an hr apart) i've been there with an ear to listen through his last to breakups, and his always telling me im hit and attractive, and way to good to him(for being there all the time with advice or just to listen.)Anyway, he seems to think we could bever be more then friends, so i wondered what makes a person decide that , if they both get along well, have similar interests and find each other attractive. ? Thanks for the advice( BTW, im 25 and his 27) Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Staceily +, writes (10 November 2012):
What makes boyfriend/girlfriend material is a sexual attraction and compatibility where you like them as more than a friend. When a guy or girl says they can't see you as anything more than a friend it means there is no sexual chemistry there or possibly a personality they feel they would not mesh well with as a partner. Although someone can say you are attractive it doesn't mean you are sexually attractive to them and their type.
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