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anonymous
writes:I have this amazing boyfriend. He cares and respect me a lot. We are amazing in bed and tried fantasizing together as we are in LDR for over 6 months. To keep the spark alive we try lot of different stuff and are vocal about it.Few days back I was drunk with my gal, he was horny hearing me drunk and my friend too. As he was very aroused yesterday I asked him how it would be like f****** her while I watched -(they haven't seen each other).It was a steamy session so next time I asked now lets try one of your friends f****** me (in fantasy of course)But he denied outright saying he is not comfortable with it.I respect his decision but can't help feeling disgusted with myself. Now at one side I have feeling guilty I screwed my friendship and on second cheated with my guys attitude.How Do I come gracefully out of this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2012): The difference is, he wasn't fantasying.. He was in the minute for real and would probably. Be quite happy to try this kind of action for real..
Be careful what you talk about it can bite you in the ass..
I'd raise the topic and say when you spoke to him about it, you were drunk and it was pure fantasy.. Just like how he should be quite happy to repay the fantasy for you.. So why can't he...
Then I'd say you feel it's a topic that should never be spoken of as it not something you won't do out with just the talking its a NO NO
Hopeful that will clear the air and get you both back on track..
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