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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hey , i'm a girl ,and i'm 21 years old. I've been with my bf for 8 months but we broke up cuz he said he was confused between me and his ex gf that was in contact with him so i ended my relationship with him cuz i wanted to be his only one but we keep talking to each other when he has a problem with his gf (his ex )i felt like he used me, but we still hung out and chatted for a year.After a while in this month, we get back together, at first he was kind and showed me that he cares, but now he's changed, he talks to a lot of girls when i'm talking to him and he ignores me. What should i do? so plz help =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2012): "at first he was kind and showed me that he cares,"
He was lying but you didn't care that he previously didn't care (and still didn't care) because he was telling you everything you wanted to hear even though he had previously used you so you should have known he was capable of using you again.
"but now he's changed, he talks to a lot of girls when i'm talking to him and he ignores me."
He hasn't changed, he's still the same scumbag who played you off his ex, just showing his true colors now that he's lured you in.
"What should i do? so plz help =)"
What should I do? = How do I make him perfect like I want him to be because he tells me everything I want to hear?
You are asking the impossible. What you SHOULD REALLY do, but probably won't, is dump him and STOP hanging out and chatting with him because he is a scumbag who doesn't care about you and never has. Guys can only take advantage of girls who let them, guys can only disrespect girls who don't respect themselves.
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