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writes:I have recently become friends with this guy. We clicked instantly. It was great! But then he started becoming a real flirt. So I figured ok whatever he'll get the message that I'm not interested. Then he started becoming really touchy feely and I figured, well I've never really had friends like this. I've recently became friends with his group of friends as well - a group of about 4 guys and 5 gals - before and they're all like this with each other so don't make a big deal. Now, I've become really good friends with all of them and I LOVE this guy but only as a friend. We get along really well and such but I can't see him more than just a friend. NOT TO MENTION, this girl in the group of friends really likes him... I would never betray her trust like that. Now, a few nights ago we were talking over the net and he said that "we were perfect for each other". My response went something along the lines that we get along well, because we're good FRIENDS. I'm not sure what to do because I do love him like a friend and I'm afraid I will lose him if I don't reciprocate his feelings. He's a great catch, but just not for me. :(
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (12 November 2012):
 Did you ever study math in that scheme which uses "sets"?
I think that "lovers" is a subset of "friends".... so - based on that - what's wrong with just leaving "friends" as the subset in which you and this guy stay.... and IF you and he go in to the set of "lovers" in the future, so be it....
Good luck....
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