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writes:Hey,i have dated for 8 months and i've got along with him pretty well. The only thing that bothered me was that i had always call him or text him if we should meet. He always answered, but never called or texted me first. I asked him about that and he said that he's used to that. That all his friends call him and he never call them. And the same was with his ex girlfiends. So i've got used to call him first but the last time when i texted him if we should meet, he did not answer me. That was one month ago.After that i stop calling him and we haven't met for the month and half. In this last month, i almost forget him and i've told myself he's just not the right guy for me. But 2 days ago i was on one concert and he was there too. I catch him staring at me a lot of times and he was alaways "somewhere around" almost all party. But he did not come to say hello to me. Even his friends (which are mine friends - but not very close friends - too) said hello to me. And now it looks like all month without him came after me and i miss him so much it hurts. But i'm way too proud to call him. He doesn't have new girlfriend or anything like that. So what's wrong? Why he never call anybody first? What's the best thing to do? Swallow my pride and call him? Let him go? Or wait for him to call me?Sorry for my english. It's my second language
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reader, Lucky786  +, writes (2 May 2012):
 Definitely wait for him to call you.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (2 May 2012):
 Wait for him to call you. The ball is in his court now.
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reader, Latti +, writes (2 May 2012):
I think that you are doing the right thing! Let him learn to call you. If you are always the one chasing...he will NEVER learn. In the long run....no he is probably not the right guy, but he needs to learn to be a man!
I say no, don't call even though it hurts you, because if you do...then you will always be the one trying to make things work out between you. When he is really interested in someone...he will call & initiate things with them, but if your always doing it for him....he never learns what he. Needs to do.
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (2 May 2012):
 Well I think this guy likes the attention..!and he also got used to you calling him all the time so he never made an effort to make the first move since he knew you would eventually text..I know a girl who is exactly like this,and she told me that she likes a guy very much but she's loving the fact that he is running after her and making an effort and all she has to do is watch him..so I think this guy is just like that loves attention,loves being persuaded..it gets annoying at times I can understand..if you text him now then you have to go through the whole thing with him again of texting him first,asking him to meet you,are u ready for that!?don't you want a boyfriend who pampers you,who gives u attention,who makes an effort to meet you..I think its no point running after someone who dint even bother getting back to you!after seeing u at the concert he cld have apologised for not replying to you but he dint,so it speaks a lot about him,there are plenty other guys hun who will treat you like a princess,don't waste your time on this 'attention seeker'..All the best x
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