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*unshine8508
writes:What can I do to help my relationship with my boyfriend get better? We have been dating almost a year and I really love and care for him, but lately things have not been goin so well.I want to do something or him to show him I really care for him but I dont know what to do. I have not spent the night with him in a long time, and am starting to wonder if I ever will again. He told me that I'm not happy enoough for him all the time, and I told him I want to do things with just him and not his dog all the time cause when we bring the dog then everything is rushed. Why cant him and I just do things together once and a while. I want to have a future with him, and I think after a year you should be at least talking about things like living together. What can I do to make things better? Reply to this Question
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reader, Furiousity  +, writes (4 May 2012):
Make a date. Of you dont spend time with him then find time to just get him alone
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): Hello there, i hope ur having a good day and that my answer will help u, so the thing with long term relationship is that it has phases the first phase is the magic and love and being with each other all the time and stuff this usually lasts up to 9 months (in rare cases more) and after that theres the relationship wake up call phase thats when u remember u have lives and frnds and stuff this is the ugliest phase its full of fighting and stuff but if u get through this phase ur relationship is safe. Now that the magic is gone people tends to think that they are doing something wrong thats why they fight you need to be a bit more relaxed u are not doing anything wrong try not to fight too much, loose some arguments from time to time even if u know ur right try to show him that u care and that those fights and even his dog are making u closer and are making ur relationship better, i know its hard but try its worth it. As for the dog try to show him that u love his pet 2 and u care abt him but u wanna have some alone time with him (invite him to a dinner in a restaurant, take him to places where dogs arnt allowed) but still get a gift for the dog from time to time pet or take him for a walk try to show him that u care abt the rhings he loves. Other than that goodluck hope that i helped you. Have a nice day and take care
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