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writes:i have planned an trip with my boyfriend for three days without my parents knowledge now how do i make them believe tat i am gonna go with girls .my mom is telling tat she wil come to the station to drop me but if she cums she wil know the truth tat am going with my boyfriend pls help me pls tell me some ideas so that my mom shouldnt cum to station to drop me .and she should allow me for the training. Reply to this Question
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reader, straight to the truth  +, writes (2 May 2012):
I get the impression you might not be as old as you say and if this is the case then you really need to respect your parent wishes. If this isn't the case and your 18 or over then is there maybe a reason why your parents wouldn't want you to go?If your adamant that your going to go then your still best to come clean as these things will always come out in the end plus i am sure they will ask to see pics of the holiday anyway.If your mum is happy for you to go on holiday with friends then she should be happy with you to go for a boyfriend but if she has a valid reason like " they are concerned for your safety" then listen to their reasonsand if they have a valid point then respect it but if not and it is simply that they dont agree with you going away with a boyfriend or sleeping together before marriage then just reassure them that you are a grown lady now and can make your own decisions. Just try to be a grown up and discuss it with them, dont shout, throw a tantrum or act immature because it wont help the situation, with parents it works best if you keep your cool no matter how hard it is or how much the shout, the calmer you are the more mature you will come across and they should realise you a grown up now.
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reader, Latti  +, writes (2 May 2012):
Sorry Sweetie, to many things can happen and somebody needs to know your whereabouts. I totally understand your situation, but most of us have been there and done that and it did not pan out well!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 May 2012):
 if you lie you will get caught... if not that weekend then later one... it will undermine any trust your parents have with you.
I get the problem... you live with them... their rules apply... they are old fashioned and don't want you going away with your boyfriend....
why don't they approve of this? I know my parents didn't approve of my sleeping at my boyfriends when I was 19 but it was 1979 then too..,,
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2012): Why do you need to lie to them? You're a grown adult, you can do what you like. There's no need to lie.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 May 2012):
 Don't lie. Your parents need to know where you are and who you go with.
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