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writes:There's this guy who said he wanted to be friends with benefits with me at first, but i didn't want that, so he said he would just be my friend. I have a boyfriend now though, and he knows this, as he spoke to us both once when we bumped into him in town.He came up to us out of nowhere, so he must have seen us and then sneaked up on us. He asked us if we were a couple, and how long we had been together. He went up to my boyfriend in town once, when i wasn't there too. My boyfriend was stood talking to his friends then. This guy said " I guess the best man won " and shook hands with my boyfriend. What did that mean?. Does this guy have more feelings for me, and isn't letting me know about it ?. He has sent me text messages sometimes saying that he misses me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2012): He's just being a complete creep still trying to get into your knickers.
I mean come on what's to miss? He wanted your ass, you said no and he somehow "misses" you? Awh, poor guy :(
He's lucky I'm not your boyfriend OP because I would have knocked him on his has for that blatant Machiavellian cock waving. What kind of slimy self-centred douche says shit like that to a girls boyfriend and shakes his hand? The type who's still trying to stick it in to her that's who and mess with her head too.
"What did that mean?" It meant he was trying to mark his territory like a dog OP and he's still chasing your tail.
Think I'm wrong? Then ask yourself what kind of kind sends "I miss you" texts to a girl who has a boyfriend? What kind of guy plays all these games after being refused a fuck buddy? And kind of manipulative sneaky little dick would shake a guys hand in front his girlfriend and say some sneaky shit like the best man won?
My girlfriends ex tried that one, I didn't let go of his hand until I made him explain exactly why he said that and why he thought I was the kind of guy who was going to let him so blatantly pull that sly, manipulation with me. You see he was trying boss me in that situation and show my girlfriend he was the bigger man by "conceding defeat" and trying to mess with her at the same time by showing interest. Exactly what is happening to you now right? He's left you confused, well that's idea of that handshake, it's the same as the "take care of her man, you've got a really good woman here, you better treat her right" trick by an ex or a guy you rejected. It's a veiled way of showing a girl you want her disguised as a guy being honourable and "nice" to her new boyfriend. You see that trick is played by gutless, sly douches.
How do I know he's only interested in boning you? All he wanted was FWB's and if he actually liked you he wouldn't be trying to get into your head with the texts and games. OP is this guy even acting like a good friend? Get rid of him, he's head wrecking game player and he's just trying to mess with your head to get into your knickers.
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reader, desiboy  +, writes (2 May 2012):
Been therefelt it...
He had feelings for u and probably still has some left..
he might have backed off earlier due to some other problems..
That guy will never be telling you about his feelings..That one secret is probably going to the grave with him..
Either u confront him and ask him or just give up on him...
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