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writes:Alright, im not sure where to begin, I've been with my boyfrined for 2 years, in these 2 years alot has happend trust issues cheating blah blah blah, weve overcame it, but lately, and this has nothing to do with his chetaing, but my sex drive with him has gone done, its like were an old married couple, and were both young! i mean weve gotten boring, we dont flirt, its the same sex routine, and its all e same so i never get.. well horny enough for us to have sex comfortably, until we get into it, then it hurts becaus i wasnt "lubracated" enough... ive been having some doubts, because i am young (17) and i lvoe him, but i feel im to young to be tied down, but i think thats mostly because theres nothing diffrernt, hes one of those guys that thinks hes always right, ive tried to introuduce phone sex, more flirting, role playing, and he just doesnt want to take part in any of it.. ive tried talking to him about it, but he just brushes it off like its no big deal?? i need help in all of these aspects... how can i spice it up? how can i get us to connect more? how can i make it stop thinking hes number 1? please help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2012): And the reason you dont want to hear it is because its the truth! why waste valuable time with someone who quite clearly does not give a DAMN about you? if you have any self respect left dump his arse. You shouldn't have to try and spice up your sex life at 17!!!! thats what some will be thinking in their late 30's 40's etc. so instead of taking your advice as a dig take it for what it is the truth hun. you deserve to be treated like a princess not a pauper.
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reader, kaiti30 +, writes (7 May 2012):
kaiti30 is verified as being by the original poster of the question See, you are missing the point, i dont want to hear about dropping him, thats not what im asking advice about, if i wanted to break ot pff, i would have, hes a great guy!
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reader, dude27  +, writes (6 May 2012):
he sounds like a guy who wont treat a lady right.... I'd say let him go... you are 17 go out have fun and when you least expect it you will find a guy who will treat you like a princess and trust me the sex will automatically be great..... cut him loose if he dosent give a damn about you!!!! good luck :) hope all goes well but remember plenty more fish in the sea :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2012): Hunnie if your asking these questions already then you need to let this one go. you resent him still for his past cheating ( I know you think you dont but you do ) and I really dont think at his age he is interested in anything like phone sex, most boys would think you are cheap and nasty for wanting to do that, they expect easy girls to do that, if things are going down hill im guessing that is one of the reasons why. ( im not saying YOUR cheap and nasty) just letting you know most boys/men actually dont like that. Your 17 that is no age to start settling down, wait untill your atleast 25 to do that, you have a huge world out there to explore, go live it and then be with a man who wont cheat on you EVER. xxx
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