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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i an in love with my best friend and he does not know about it. all my friends think that he likes me too but i think he's just being himself. he's caring for me and understands me. i have even told him about my crushes in the past. i hate to see him with any other girl and i think he behaves the same with me as with any other girl.all of our friends think that thare is sure somethimg going on between us but i know better! Iam also not so good looking. what to do? should i tell him but i am afraid this will ruin our friendship.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (6 March 2012):
 When you are 20 years older than you are now, which will you regret more, telling him and possibly changing the friendship, or not telling him, and then never knowing if he felt the same?
If you don't tell him, what will happen is that he will never know and will wind up with another girl for sure. If you do tell him, he will know and the worst that can happen is that he doesn't reciprocate your feelings and he winds up with another girl. The best that can happen is that he returns your feelings.
What do you think of your chances in either situation?
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