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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:hi im a gay woman been seeing someone for approx 5 weeks and shes just finished with me saying we are best off as friends. any tips on how to get her back. she does seem to care about me and been texting to see how i am and how my course went and said we will talk about it tonight, about why it hasnt worked out and shes happy for me to stay over shes having the sofa. she told me not long ago shes starting to get feelings for me and then has gone a bit cold on me since and things were fine before. maybe shes got scared of it getting too serious and scared of her feelings for me i dont know. hope to find out more when i see her tonight. i thought maybe she may after time want me back so i just go along with being friends and show her im happy with that and wont push for more. we were gonna go out though on her birthday but she has said shes made other plans now so it sounds as if she really has ended it for good but im not sure. do you think she maybe scared and run so if we friends over time she may want me back or maybe she dont feel anything for me. please help any advice on what to do and how to get her back?
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (6 March 2012):
 It's hard from the deatails you gave to work out who she she made this decison, but 5 weeks is a very short amount of time for a relationship to start getting serious, is it possible you could have got too serious with her too quickly and this may have scared her?
There is also the possiblity, and im sorry to say it, that she just dose not want to be with you like that.
The only way to really know for sure is to ask her and tell her you can handle the truth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2012): Perhaps it is you who has got a bit too serious too soon? Maybe that is why she has backed off. Some people like to take things slowly to see if anything develops. This may not be the case. But it is only 5 weeks - no time at all really. Keep contact going for now if you can, but ease up on stressing about it. Whichever way, she wants some space and I would respect that.
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