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female
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30-35,
*ULIE MICHAEL
writes:ever since i started dating my man i have been seeing a ladys name on his text messages all the time its like they do chat a lot with her, one day i decided to sneak a peak and saw the lady had texted "am sorry i hope your not mad at me i love you alright". i was very shocked and decided to ask my man he then said that they are friends and that they are used to each other thats why she said that to him. i then let it go hoping they would stop. another time again after a while i saw her text again just by memorising my boyfriends pasword the lady told her if he should go over for a massage i didnt know what my man said because he usualy deletes his sent mesages and we already had sex. I am embarased i feel bad we've only dated for a month. is this guy serious with me? now just recently i saw him give the lady a tight hug lasting about 5 minutes and i was some metres away from them i could see them, now I am so furious i told him its over he wants to come and talk what should i do? should i listen and think again?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (6 March 2012):
 he is not serious about you after a month...
he can come and talk till he's blue in the face I would not believe him when he says there is nothing with this other woman.
he's playing both of you.... stay away
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reader, JULIE MICHAEL +, writes (6 March 2012):
JULIE MICHAEL is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok i cant tell well what kind of relationship they have because each time i ask him he says they are only good very close friends and just the other day my boyfriends friend told me that he heard my man tell the chiq that i am his girlfriend so ever since that day i expected things to change but nothing so what i cant tell is,,,is my man the one who is entertaining this lady or is it the lady pushing herself or what is going on between..??
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reader, Dodds +, writes (6 March 2012):
 Emotionally, you are attracted to this guy, but your gut is telling you all is not well...nevertheless this overwhelming attraction you feel for him is so strong that you are still willing to listen to him after confronting him with evidence that confirms what you're gut told you to be true a while back...Correct?
Logically you would want nothing more to do with such a guy but you are basing whatever decision you make on how this guy makes you feel...NOT GOOD!!!
Many young girls such as yourself have had their lives significantly changed by such decisions they have made concerning their relationships, but you haven't really given alot of information as regards the nature of your BF's relationship with this female he has been interacting with alot for any agony aunt to properly or near accurately advise you
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reader, Okies  +, writes (6 March 2012):
no ... you did the right thing.. that guy is a cheater.. stay away from him..
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