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*bigail221
writes:my boyfriend has been texting his ex-girlfriend lately while we're kissing, or cuddling and it's starting to bug me. we had a fight about it and he said that i could read thier conversations, but i didn't because i thought i was over reacting.he hasn't texted her while we we're doing stuff since that but he still texts her when we hang out. i trust him a lot, i just want to see how people react. what if it was you? what would you do? and should i be worried?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2012): Abigail221 - didn't you just post another question about this guy? He's causing you lots of worries and he is not behaving well. He shouldn't be texting anyone - never mind his ex-girlfriend - while the two of you are together.
If he was really into you - if he really cared about you - he wouldn't do this.
He is a typical, very young, teenage boy - he is not old enough, or mature enough to seriously think about having only one girlfriend.
You deserve much better, so I wouldn't have him as my boyfriend for much longer if I were you. Go out with your friends and forget him.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (30 March 2012):
 If I were you I'd tell him straight out that it isn't cool to do that. Also, if he is still busy texing her, do you really think he is "over" her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2012): i would be worried.
There is no reason to text anyone while making out with your boyfriend! It is highly inappropriate and rude.
I would ask him why he feels the need to text people during intimate times.
They are an ex for a reason. Keeping in touch with them like that is not necessary.
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reader, thegrassisgreen  +, writes (30 March 2012):
 You have every right to be worried. I'm around the same age, so I think we can relate a little more.
It's the fact that he is texting his ex girlfriend not only whilst being with you, but when you are cuddling and kissing.
If I were you, I'd talk to him again, and if he offers to show you the texts, let him. Even if they're normal, friendly texts, I'd still tell him how you feel. This is your choice, but you could even ask him to stop texting her altogether, for your peace of mind.
If he continues to text her, especially while you're out, I'd consider taking further, more permanent action.
Hope I've helped, and good luck:Dx
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