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Fallen for a teacher from my old school after only 4 dates! Am I actually his girlfriend yet or not?

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Question - (30 March 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so this is kinda a long one! but i want to give you a clear story before i ask my question!

i'm 19 yrs old and i'm still a student and i never had a boyfriend. as part of my course at my college i am doing a year abroad to study. so far out of 12 months, 9 have already passed, so i've got less than 3 months left to be back home.

in these 9 months i have spent abroad, i did have the chance to go on holidays back home, and one of them resulted into something good.

In december I went on holiday and visited my ex-school. I was going round the classes with my younger sister and saw a guy i liked (a teacher--still 26 bdw) ..then a few days after i coincidently found him on fb and added him. from that time onwards we kept chatting...

In february i went down for another holiday and i actually went on four dates with this guy. He said he really likes me and that he's willing to wait for me to be back for good..

now just a week ago he sent me a card saying i'm special and that he can't wait to see me! he's texting me more regurarly and calls me cute names. he doesn't have skype or msn, so the only way we can communicate is by texts or fb..i sent him back a card too and a teddy bear saying 'to someone special''

now the question is this: i've been feeling very lonely without him an i'm missing him so much! is this even possible after only 4 dates? i mean we really seemed to click and we're both serious about getting together again when i'm back.am i actually his gf or not yet? what do you guys/girls think please?

10q for taking ur time reading this! i appreciate your advice ^.^

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (30 March 2012):

Honeypie agony auntI think you are on your WAY to be his GF, just enjoy it and when you get back see how you both feel.

Once you have been home a little while you two can talk about the "status" of your relationship.

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A female reader, Beccccccy  Australia +, writes (30 March 2012):

Beccccccy  agony aunt You know what ?? ..My answer is WHO CARES what you call him ?? ..Its an exciting NEW relationship , you potentially have the start of something special ...

DONT WORRY ABOUT IT !!

Just get home and begin to enjoy each other ..See which way the wind blows :)

Wishing you the best of luck .

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