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writes:i was dating a certain man for a year until october last year.we then started cohabiting till october last year when i moved out from his house because he used to call me names while i was in his house.he stopped making love with me for 3 months,he was just moody and had uncontrolled temper.somehow he showed me that he was loving me by exposing and introducing me to his friends,taking me out for lunch and we were going together to special occasions like church. I loved this man wholeheartedly and didnt want to loose him,i gave him my true love i have never cheated on him,and i have been doing everything for him like what a maid does to his boss and even more than that but unfotunately this man has never appreciated me apart from keeping grudges for my past mistakes.i moved out from his house in october but he was coming to see my sick grandmother then he stopped we stopped communicating for three months.in December my sick grandmother died then i told him about that he then came the following morning and bought a Coffin for my late grandmother and some food he left,after 2 weeks he came again to see me,on the same day evening he uploaded a photo of a woman on Facebook which he called his fiance and sent me texts that when he assisted me it doesnt meant that he needed me back he did it to me as a friend and not his galfriend he insaulted me and challenged me and i felt bad and we agreed that we wil never talk to each other again and so is what we have stayed to each other for three months now.we dont communicate in anyway.this man is still dating the lady he photo tagged in his facebook account.one day he waved me but i didnt wave back because he was together with his girlfriend and i felt bad.the thing is i still have some love for him.tip me on what i can do
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2012): same here we stopped talking after 2 years talking online.
weve fought a lot then done this "kiss and make up thingy" its almost a month now that were not talking.I do miss him but Im not going to take the first move to communicate with him.I signed up on a free dating site and probably meet men in a day or two.It sad that we ended up in an unknown causes..im hurting a bit because I still have feelings for him but again..I have this foolish pride and will NOT make a way to communicate with him.He never attempted to take a step of communicating with me..so why should I?
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reader, Joy Nyirenda +, writes (19 March 2012):
Joy Nyirenda is verified as being by the original poster of the question please help me what should i do that i can win him back
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reader, Vaultkeeper2222  +, writes (13 March 2012):
 We are in the same boat right now. I had a girl who suddenly and without any explanation, stopped communicating with me, and even blocked me in her facebook account. I tried to communicate but it's been a week and nothing. I know I fell in love with her, and this is killing me. The only thing I want right now is to stop this pain. I deleted and threw all things that may remind me of her but I still wake up feeling lost and longing.
I resolved to stop communicating, I was successful for 3 days then I had a relapse, and called her up but she did not answer and even turned off her cellphone. I guess the only thing I can do now is to accept this and try my best to move on. They say time heals all wounds but when?
I just want to stop it all right now.
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