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writes:I'm 17 and love my girlfriend. We've already talked about marriage and all that stuff so this isn't some one night stand. We want to have sex (by the way she's 16 so in my state it's still legal) but her parents are VERY overprotective as far as dating goes and we can't find any time alone. Me and her have already considered everything and can't find a solution. Also neither her or my parents can find out we had sex. It has to be our secret. Her parents are strict about when we see eachother too.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain  +, writes (15 March 2012):
When you are ready you will find a way, It just happens!
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reader, Echo85  +, writes (14 March 2012):
 This may sound a little harsh, but if you aren't adult enough to talk to her parents about it are you sure that you are ready for sex?
Maybe you should wait?
If you are both serious about this relationship then a year or teo will not break you it will only make you stronger. It may also make her parents see that you are both responsible and can be trusted.
Good luck x
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (14 March 2012):
 Like the other aunts have said, just wait. If she's really so special to you, you can wait until you don't have to hide. If you two want to have sex so badly (And I know it's because of hormones. I've still got quite a bit of those in my bloodstream) you will probably end up sneaking around, creating a web of lies, and possibly having your first time be painful, hurried, or unsafe.
Trust me, if you two really love each other, then you can wait until you dont have to blatantly break both of your parents rules (and hearts)
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reader, unknown2u +, writes (14 March 2012):
Well I applaud her parents. So far it sounds as though they're doing their job.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2012): Hie, I know what its like to be 16, you feel like everything has to happen now, but if your girlfriend is as special and as important to you as you say she is, then waiting a little longer shouldn't be a problem, the fact that you both can't find the time or venue to be alone long enough to have sex might be just a sign that you need to wait a bit longer, but if you can't my advice is please use protection, a condom, if you and your girlfriend eventually do have sex. but i really hope you wait, because so many things change after sex with someone for the good and sometimes for the bad often times for the bad especially if you weren't ready and just did it for the sake of doing it. Good luck!
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