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writes:I've been speaking to and hanging with my ex after 1.5 years of no contact and we've both agreed that an old spark has been rekindled (or however the expression goes).In the last 2 weeks or so she has been quiet, she hasn't been replying to written messages (texts and emails). It had occurred to me that she may be busy.I want to see her more then once a week, I hope to have a relationship with her in the respect that we're boyfriend and girlfriend at a later date.I have not kept on at trying to contact her through the fear her feeling hassled, even in doing this I am slightly worried as she has not made much of an effort to contact me, I think.She had told me that she wished that I had fought for her when we split, I did not do so because she was with someone soon after and so I left her to make her own decisions. As much I didn't want to admit it at the time, I still wanted to be with her.I sense some competition for her and there's two ways I can go about it; either I wait and see if she comes to me, or I do everything that I can to get what I want. I think both carry an equal risk of losing her again.So, what do I do?
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reader, NinetiesKid +, writes (17 March 2012):
NinetiesKid is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi there, strongfp. Many thanks to the advice you have given, I will take it on board. Also, the primary reason we broke was that I was having mental health issues and I've since got a control of things in the noggin. Cheers.
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