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writes: Im a very affectionate person but the guy I've been dating for two months become good friends so he decided to cook dinner for me. the frist dinner date was at his house, we were both tense to anything. the second date he started to feel nervous and sweating tell me im making him feel nervous, so I started to show my loving affection towards him but still why he was feeling like that. so after dinner we end up in bed, he couldn't keep with me, i was too good in sex he never had sex with a girl like that. he did have a girlfriend but not like that so after we finished we decided to watch a nice movie in his loungeroom. i started show my affection to him again, he told me to calm down no one has ever showed him affection as much i am he didnt like me to kiss him every 5 mins.his father died when he was 3yrs old, his sister died 3 yrs ago and his mother never showed him much affection when he was growing up so he's not used to it, he needs some time to think. So now i dont know what to do? I really miss him a lot. when ever we were hanging out im so happy we were going to restaurant plus sometime we were eating each others plate. he text me yesterday that will catch up later this week his working hard coz the weathers Good but haven't heard from him today, what should i do? should i wait and see? we leave very close to each other but in a different suburb .
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2012): wait and see, your might be coming across as needy. He is not used to so much affection and it may be suffocating him. He has said he will contact you later in the week, so wait and see if he does. Later in the week doesn't mean tomorrow, it means literally later in the week, at least a few days time. Just relax, if you are seen to be too needy, you may frighten him off completely, so just relax and let him come to you in his time. Good Luck
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (13 March 2012):
 Could what you deem as affectionate behavior- he possibly interpret as needy behavior? I ask only because he told you that you'll catch up later this week yesterday... and you haven't heard from him for one day and you're already fretting?
Just wait and see... and stay out of your own head.
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