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FWB told me "he could have me whenever he wanted me"

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Question - (13 March 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey, im so fed up

there was this boy in which i use to sleep with. i know its wrong but he did have a gf.

on the weekend i went out and ended up in a party, in which he was there. he just totally blanked me.

i was talking to one of his friends and told him that i liked this boy and everything and he heard me. he then just made comments like 'do u want a quicky' and 'i can have u when ever i want'. this did hurt me and i did shout back at him.

the rest of the night i just ignored him.

today i have found out he has split with his gf, and due to me arguing with him, we arent in contact no more. i know i should just forgot about him but i cant what should i do??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2012):

What he was doing was putting you in your place,showing his mate he was just using you for sex,playing the big man

You weren't FWBs, you were a booty call.

His behaviour has done you a massive favour though, he's shown you what a scummy low-life he really is.

Forget him. Find a proper boyfriend.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2012):

Oh my God what a horrible guy!!

Do you seriously what to go anywhere near him ever again?

Best thing to do is gather up your friends & go on a night out away from him & forget all about him.

Delete his number!

Delete his texts!

Delete his Facebook!

DELETE EVERYTHING to do with him,best way to get over someone believe me!

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (14 March 2012):

Danielepew agony auntOh, and good riddance.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (14 March 2012):

Danielepew agony auntYou should learn one small lesson: this friend with benefits was no friend. He was only interested in the benefits.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2012):

Forget him girl. He sounds like a little jerk to me and to be honest, you would only be making his attitude worse if you let him treat you that way. If I were you, I would have laughed at him for saying he could have me anytime he wanted. Move on from this punk kid. He's only going to get worse with age. You did the right thing by ignoring him so keep it up! Find some guy who respects you and doesn't think he's Gods gift to women. Just don't give him the time of day and give him what he deserves, a cold shoulder.

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