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anonymous
writes:Im 19.There was this girl I wanted to be with.She would give me random hugs sometimes from behind and in the summer of 2010I was going to join the army.. And she told me your not going to join the army We were hanging out every day. We had so much fun. We always texted each other.Then I started pursueing the army Then we just quit talkingShe got a boyfriendShe never answers my messages.Or replies to me on Facebook.Why is this happening? I wanted to be with her!
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reader, Ldu  +, writes (14 March 2012):
hey , i think she is just being respectful to her current bf . You both had mutual feelings and she knows that if your contacting her its to rekindle past emotions . I think Shes honestly just trying to respect her bf and not be tempted to cheat . Just move on bro, respect her relationship status and if in the future she becomes single she might be the one to contact you this time around .
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2012): She may have felt that you rejected her when you joined the Army ... did you ask her to be in a relationship and wait for you while you're away?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2012): What's happening is that you need to learn more about 'respect'. You should have learned it in the army. She is in a relationship already, never promised you anything, but you still harrass her via texts and messages. This is awful behaviour. You need to think about your actions.She is a young beautiful princess, and you had some of her time in the past already, but again it's PAST, and nothing happened even back then, you know?!Now you're scaring her with all your messages and texts, with zero respect to the fact that she is now with someone SHE HAS CHOSEN, and obviously if she wanted to be with you she wouldn't have been with the other guy. If you don't quit harassing the poor girl I won't blame her if she reported you to the police. What you're doing is called harassment, and she obviously doesn't want any of it. You apparently see yourself better than the other guy, and able to destroy his relationship just because the hero is back! She evidently thinks otherwise, and I don't blame her.Good luck xxxEmily
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