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female
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36-40,
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writes:Do you think my ex still likes me ?. I heard from one of his friends that he told them that he regretted that we broke up last year, and that he thinks a lot of me. He called me out of the blue last weekend, as he had seen me out in a pub with my boyfriend the week before , and he asked me if i am in love with my boyfriend, and he asked how i was. I saw him again yesterday in a pub. He asked me what my boyfriend's name was and how old he was. When i came back from the lady's room, his friend told me that he had told him again that he thinks a lot of me. My ex also said " i don't care whether you have a boyfriend or not " and he said that i am very attractive. I went with him when he went to buy some food later on. A man who worked in the place where we went to buy the food asked if i was my exes wife lol !. My ex said " This is a very good friend of mine ", and he put his arm around me . The man who worked there said " what do you mean by very good friend ? " and my ex said " i think you are thinking something naughty, so i'll rephrase that. This is my friend ". He wanted me to go back to his place too, but i didn't think it would have been right, as i have a boyfriend. He also kissed my hand before we went our separate ways home. When he saw me out with my boyfriend the week before he called me, he said he wanted to hit my boyfriend and said he wished he would f*** off. He also said that if my boyfriend ever hurt me, he would hurt him. He also kept asking me then if i was in love with my boyfriend. Things arent working out very well with my boyfriend at the minute ( not just because of my ex ), and i still like my ex, but i don't know what to do. What do you think ?. Also, do you think he really only wants to be my friend, or could he want me to go out with him again, or do you think he might just be after sex ?. And do you think he is jealous of my boyfriend ?. He hung out with me for ten hours yesterday, if that means anything.His friend said he wouldn't have hung out with me for that long if he didn't think something of me. Sometimes my ex said earlier in the evening that he wanted to go home, but when his friend asked him if he'd like to have another drink so that he could talk to me longer, he agreed to stay.His friend said he has talked about me a lot.
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reader, kata1l  +, writes (22 June 2012):
Sounds like the "I only want what I can't have" syndrome, seen more often in the male gender. I bet 5 bucks if you broke up with your current boyfriend and hooked back up with him, he would be over it in no time flat. Sounds like an ego trip for him and heartbreak for you, if you fall for it.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 June 2012):
 You know sex is so available nowadays. He doesn't have to work that hard, and wait too long to get it. Of course sex feels good but what he is after is more than just sex. What did you tell him when he asked if you are in love with your boyfriend? Really, it is none of his business. Some men think of their exes as their prized collections that they can still control and use later on. Men like this has no respect for women. I know that your ex makes you feel wanted but his intentions is to piss off your boyfriend, letting him know that you are his marked territory and he is only getting seconds. Your ex could tell you still have feelings for him and that you don't fancy your now boyfriend more than your ex. Looking at your situation your boyfriend really is nothing to be jealous of.
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