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He says he loves me and cares for me, but his actions say otherwise....

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Question - (21 June 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2012)
A female Ireland age 41-50, *milybear writes:

Hi,

I've been in a kinda long distance relationship we see one another between every and 4 weekly and on our2nd holiday we had our first dusagreement mostly steming from feelings.it come to ahead with me asking him if he wanted to split, he said no but if we keep arguing and going over the same stuff we would need to relook at things.

But since this I still feel he is being distant, this is the first time he has ignored my texts and when he does reply there short. He has made plans with me for a few weeks time when he comes back home next (he works away). What should I do he said he cares about me but doesn't love me and doesn't want to split but his actions say different. Its only been 3 days since our talk.

Thanks x

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (21 June 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntNote to (all) women: ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS.... judge a man by his ACTIONS and NOT HIS WORDS!!!!!!! (How much heartache could be avoided if you would just do this??????)

Good luck.....

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2012):

Words are just words - judge him by his actions, and if those don't say he cares and treats you right, move on!

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