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*nna922
writes:Is there anything wrong with the fact I want to see my boyfriend have sex with another women in front of me. I want a 3 sum but don't want to part take in it so much i rather look on and see him at work . I love his sex and I just want to see him at work wish someone could understand me.. do you think this a good thing or it will mess up our love ...p.s he got his ex girlfriend to do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2012): There is nothing wrong with that. As long as all involved would be happy, informed and consenting, it's all good. However, yes, there is a difference between fantasy and reality, and I would suggest having thorough conversations with your boyfriend before actually going through with anything. I would also not suggest getting his ex-girlfriend involved. That history would potentially make a big mess out of things, perhaps cause jealousy in you, perhaps cause jealousy in her, perhaps cause conflicted emotions in him. If you go through with it, someone unconnected (not ex-girlfriend, not one of your friends) would result in less likelihood of a mess, unless you really know the other person well enough to be able to predict it would be drama free and just fun all around.
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (21 June 2012):
 No, there's nothing wrong with you, this is a common fantasy. But often fantasies are better left at just that. Once you make it a reality it probably won't live up to your expectations and you'll likely be left feeling jealous.
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reader, Candycane1234 +, writes (21 June 2012):
 I'm attracted to that idea too. It's a man wanting to watch his wife with another man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2012): In the common relationship, that sort of thing would be classed as cheating and being caught in the act, and would ruin things. But there is open relationships where people have fetish's and fantasies etc, and it actually spices things up for a couple. Its your choice, all I would suggest is think thoroughly about it and discuss it in depth with your partner and make sure BOTH of you are comfortable with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2012): Fantasizing about it & doing it in reality are two very different things. Some peoples relationships can survive this sort of thing, but Id think for the most part they wouldnt.
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