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*imply Jane2011
writes:hi there, me againI have been working for 9 months, and two months ago started working with a really nice guy, at first i couldnt stand the guy, and then as time went by we started to like each other, three weeks later it was obvious that thing where heating up between us, it started with one simple kiss, and ended up as a passionate night,Lately some of the magic that once was has disappeared, we havent done anything for 6 weeks. and he canceled fridays plans again............ he just said that he coulndt no explination...........Also a girl from work has started flirting too much with him, and things arent what they used to be....... Ive tried all sorts of things and i just want the magic that there once was...... i know that deep down he still has feelings for me
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2012): No such thing as magic just be yourself, you being your self is the 'magic':) home it helps bro
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reader, missmatador  +, writes (21 June 2012):
 Dear Simply Jane2011,
It sounds to me that this guy has had the milk for free so why should he buy the cow? He obviously has or atleast had feelings for you or he wouldn't have engaged in any kisses or passionat moments with you.
But it could be that he was simply in it for the physical side.
And, as you ahve pointed out, that part has since run it's
course. He's now after a bit of fresh me. Essentially, that
is what you were in the beginning.
It doesn't make you any less desirable. It doesn't mean that
you were doing anything wrong. It just means that, maybe, he
didn't see the relationship the same way as you did.
This new girl is providing him with a fresh chase. And if
their relationship is blossoming then it should give
you some perspective on the nature of the relationship you
had with him.
My advice is to move on and find someone who doesn't leave your emotions hanging for 6 weeks at a time.
Much love,
Miss Matador
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