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I want to be sexy for my guy but don't have the money for new clothes

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Question - (1 July 2012) 9 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey!

Im gonna be spending some intimate time with my boyfriend. We've been together for a year and almost 2 months (yay!)

Well im looking for some lingerie ideas but i cant really go out and buy anything so im trying to use some clothes that I already have and make them sexier lol

right now im thinking of a white tank top, which is completely made out of lace you can see right thru it. I was planning on wearing a black bra and black panties under it.

Any other suggestions or ideas would be great!!!! :)

We are both in our early 20s.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (2 July 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyep i had a boyfriend once when shown lingerie that would say "it will make a lovely pile on the floor." that's all they care about...

Sexy is all in the mind...

I wore a skort the other day (shorts that look like a mini skirt) it's just plain black knit... but it drives my fiance wild...

for fun and games... wrap yourself in bubble wrap or saran wrap and let him unwrap you...

also really cheap and cute lingerie...do not laugh... there are some cute nighties at walmart...

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A female reader, Abella United States +, writes (2 July 2012):

Abella agony auntGet a long long piece of silk and tie it around you like a sarong.

Use it to cover your body.

Then enter the room with your Clean beautiful smelling hair and skin washed in a lovely shower/wash and then your skin creamed with a lovely body lotion

That will do the job as you allow your sarong drop to the floor.

or better still invite him to untie your sarong.

No pesky hooks, no pesky things to step out of.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (2 July 2012):

person12345 agony aunt"No need to try it on, if it looks good on the hanger and on the floor it will do. After all that is where it is going to be most of the time."

Hahahaha. I love this! It's so true.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2012):

I'm not a big fan of lingerie at all.

For me it's not what you wear but how you take it off and what's underneath.

Oh and if you're wearing a see through top then why do you need the bra?

Person12345 is right, the sexiest thing my girlfriend wears is this really light fabric white tank top, or a shirt that's barely on and regular panties with no bra. You see I can see every shape and curve is just there under that tiny bit of fabric and her boobs are there and visible, but not quite. Just enough to make me want to tear them off.

Lingerie is a pain to take off in my experience and it creates a false shape too. I prefer my girlfriends naturally hanging boobs and ass.

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (2 July 2012):

Basschick agony auntFor most guys, naked is pretty sexy and well....free.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2012):

There's NO need to spend a fortune on this. You might shop online and see stuff on, for example, Agent Provocateur or Shirley's of Hollywood that will cost HUNDREDS for something which hopefully will be torn off you super-quickly in a fit of passion anyway; better to choose wisely and get a little something for a perfectly affordable few dollars that looks and feels every bit as good. Lingeriediva, FantasiesInLace and countless other sites have some absolutely beautiful stuff that won't break the bank. And keep in mind, an excited man isn't likely to be too fussy anyway.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (2 July 2012):

Fatherly Advice agony auntHi OP,

Just a note from the guys side.

Your idea sounds hot to me. And what Person said about his shirt is also very nice to see.

Amongst older guys like me, we have a joke about lingerie. No need to try it on, if it looks good on the hanger and on the floor it will do. After all that is where it is going to be most of the time.

Save the fancy stuff for later in the relationship when you need a spice up. It's a lot like a costume for make believe play. Just you is enough of an adventure now.

FA

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (2 July 2012):

person12345 agony auntI'll be honest, I think expensive lingerie for seducing guys is a waste of money. It's only worth it if it makes you feel sexy. For instance it's a confidence boost for me to know that under my work clothes are sexy underwear. Most of the guys I know would rather the woman just be naked.

Many guys I've asked find one of the most sexy and teasing things a woman can walk around in to be a plain T-shirt or one of his button down shirts and a pair of plain underwear. If you want to be a little sophisticated, wear the button down, a plain pair of underwear, and a pair of stilettos. Nothing stripperish with the shoes though. Or you could show up wearing a trench coat and heels with nothing under it.

Though really, my guess is he just wants to see you naked more than anything. Women care way more about lingerie than men do in general.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (2 July 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntThere are plenty of sexy things you can do that does not involve spending money on expensive underwear. You could dim the lights, add some candles and take a long soak together. Also you could get some cheap fishnets and add them to your look along with wearing heals.

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