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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I am sort of involved with a lesbian. We first started flirting and texting; but we have kissed in several occasions now. We have expressed our feelings for each other and we are both strongly attractive to each other. She is very masculine, and I like her a lot. Nothing has really happened beyond our kiss. I have never been interested in woman or never kissed a woman before; but I feel very attractive to her. The problem is that I am in a relationship and engage to be marry. Because all of this issues, I asked him to give me space, but my fiance wants me to give him a chance. It totally devastate me how he is suffering and crying for me. On the other hand, I am confused as to whether leaving him is the right decision. I would have everything with him, house, kids, marriage. If I pursue a relationship with a lesbian how am I going to do all that. I am 35 years old and my clock is ticking. What to do? Stay with my fiance or leave him?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 July 2012):
 You need to think deeply here about what you want. Obviously there is something lacking in your current relationship when you felt the need to cheat on your partner. Does he know about this affair you are having? If you don't think you will be completely happy settling down with this man then end things, yes it might hurt him but it would be best in the long run.
Maybe this is just a phase you are going through with this woman. Therefore if you feel you could never be with her long term then I think you need to cut her out of your life.
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