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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We both are in a relationship, but I like him, but I don't know if he likes me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I like this guy but he has a girlfriend, and I have a boy friend, but I think he likes me but sometimes leaving me confused.When I look at him I quickly catch a glance of him looking at me but then turns away. Then he gave my friend hes mobile number to give to me, but then ... (262 words)

I think I may have a porn problem!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I may have a porn problem. Basically I have always watched porn for the last 6/7 years while being a teenager but I have recently noticed that I have been watching a lot of hardcore porn. I've had performance problems in the past and I don't get the easily turne... (228 words)

My wife had no problem seeing my best friend naked! The casual way she acted around him, suggesting that MY underwear would look good on him, makes me very uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't think there is a problem, but my wife's behavior toward my best friend seems a little weird and it bothers me. My best friend and I are close. Since I married my wife she has also become 'TXX's friend. We are all very close, and go out together. My wife has seen TXX... (353 words)

First Valentines, what should I get her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm debating what to get my girlfriend for Valentine's day. Flowers are obvious but... what else? We have only been together for a few months. We both talk about massages and how neither of us has had one. There's a place here in town that has a couple's 60 minute massag... (166 words)

I feel ugly, and I need ways to cope!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I'm in such emotional pain right now, because I think am so ugly. Nobody ever tells me I'm pretty, I am just really plain, and today I realized I'm deformed. I tried on several tight dresses, and my hips are just too big... if I fit into a dress around the hips, then my bust is ... (504 words)

Did I leave things go too long with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - A few nights ago i went out on a date with a girl, which was kinda cut short as she bumped into some of her friends while we were out and the evening didnt really go as i planned. In the end i left her with her friends (stupid i know). I spoke to her the next morning ... (129 words)

I'm not sure if I pleased her, opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hello guys its not that i have any big problem but theres just something i want to know and make sure of. i want to know if i was able to please my girlfriend. i finally got to suck on my girlfriend`s breasts but i dont know if i did it right...since it was my ... (272 words)

Great love life but sneaky boyfriend. What do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf and I have been together for 9 yrs. We are both late 20's and he is good to me and loves me. However I say he is "sneaky" because pretty much every 3-4 months like clockwork I will discover something that makes me really question my trust for him and who he is. I ... (383 words)

Can't you smell that smell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I work with this guy who seems to be shy. I think he likes me but we never really talk because I'm shy too. I feel like I'm in high school tho because of how unsure and nervous he makes me feel and he seems to act the same way around me. Heres a few reasons why I think he likes ... (577 words)

What is the reason why guys send texts, but then disappear when you reply?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There are 3 guys that text me every now and then. I have been on dates with all of them (over a span of time). One of them I like a lot, we have been much more flirty with each other and he asked me on another date but it's not even set in stone. They always text me to ask how ... (147 words)

Is he scared to lose me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been broke up for 3 weeks now. the past two weeks. he has still wanted me around, to cuddle and do sex he said he wasn't using and he didn't want to be friends with benifits. the thing is he broke up with me cause he said he didnt want a relationship ... (268 words)

Had a row, he went to ex's flat, stayed the night, do I believe that nothing happened?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Had a row with my boyfriend he went to the ex flat stayed the night says nothing happened should i believe him ? ... (26 words)

Am I unreasonable in thinking a marriage should be more?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on my current marital situation... My wife and I have been married for six years. She's very religious and, as such, there was a very strict "no sex before marriage" policy - which I agreed to. The problems began after the wedding though... We ... (814 words)

Were we ever really friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid, I have a question about a long time friend (18 years) with whom I ended the relationship / friendship with because he deliberately concealed his marriage from me. Basically, I'm wondering why someone with whom I've been friends with for 18 years would ultimate... (885 words)

Is phone sex cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I cant stop thinking of cheating on my boyfriend .I had phone sex with another man and it turned me on ,totally!! . Is something wrong with me ? Is phone sex cheating ?I wanted to be in a open relationship and he said he will think about it ....Am I heading for disaster... (114 words)

Falling for her again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I asked a friend for a relationship last year (about 6 months ago) and she said no. I respected her answer and kept distance for several months as I tried to heal and move on. We are still friends and I enjoy that. Now, I am falling for her again. I can tell that I sti... (122 words)

My bf gets mad and stresses me out! Should I break up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I always quarrel,he just gets angry at me. he wants to see me everyday day but he sometimes kicks me out. I always cry, he stresses me. should I carry on with him or what? ... (38 words)

Very troubled here as I don't think I want be with my bf anymore! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry this is a bit long, but I wanted to put all the detail in. So I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. When we first got together I really loved him (I had liked him way before we got together). But recently I don't feel anything towards him, I just don't love ... (248 words)

We are friends, but now..he wants to have sex! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, So my friend and I have known each other for about 2 years now and we hang out a lot. Our relationship kinda swerves from being platonic to romantic(in a silly way)frequently but I never really thought much of it. Until last week when he suggested that we have sex... (110 words)

I have trouble with listening and comprehension...what should I do about this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4581 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I have a question. I've always struggled with hearing and paying attention to people. When strangers talk to me, I freeze and have trouble understanding what they're saying when I feel nervous. I have to ask people to repeat themselves sometimes. Other times I ju... (378 words)

Dating 3 months, no sex. Shall I leave?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1026 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age - I need some imput. I have a new girlfriend and everything is good except for us not having sex yet. When we started to go out we both agreed that we were going to take things slow, and we have been to this point but Im a man that has needs and I havent had sex in going on 6 ... (135 words)

I like her a lot, she has a girlfriend but do I have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this girl about 3 or 4 months ago through a mutual friend of ours at a bar. We talked all that night and ended up kissing at the end of the night. Later the following week, I found out that she has a girlfriend. I was really confused and kinda mad, but didn't really ... (216 words)

Did I make things worse and end up pushing her further away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - after getting into an argument with my crush because I guess I hurt and lied to her. she kind of went nasty. she said mean horrible things to me that day and said to never talk to her again. i still had feelings and tried talking and apologizing to her. i thought my attempts ... (219 words)

Can I get this relationship back on track? Can I change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - sun won't shine, moon won't glow. Would you ever take back a cheating ex? Would you ever take back someone who hit you? Someone who slept with you even though they had a gf/bf? Even if you were the one who cheated first? I had this ex. Our relationship was very confu... (493 words)

How do women do it all? Work, cook, clean.... I'm exhausted!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you women do it all? I have highly stressful job. When I get home I am exhausted. I have no energy to do anything else but lay down on the coach and watch TV. My fiance lives with me and he is constantly pushing me to do more. He wants me to cook, clean, and take ... (169 words)

My wife had a termination 6 months into our relationship, and now 7 and a half years later the sex is still terrible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, me and my first love have just got married 5months ago, we have been together for 8 years nearly and have never slept or even been out with anyone else! We are only in our early and mid 20's. For the first year the sex was great and very frequent, everything from handjobs ... (213 words)

It seems like sex is a chore for her, how can we improve things?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship with my gf for 10 months now. We've lived with each other for 6. The problem for me is the almost non existent passion/sex intimacy.now the problem isn't so much the lack of regular sex as that doesnt worry me so much, its the feeling that when it ... (370 words)

I regret breaking up with my ex, but if I tell him how I feel it will look like I'm tying to stop him going away with his so called friend....what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Last year i broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years and i think ive made a mistake in doing so. the reason i broke up with him is because 1 night i was walking home with my boyfriends best friend who lives on the way after a night out. when i reached my house my bfs friend asked ... (205 words)

Tells me his secrets, but complains to his friends, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I like this guy, he's a friend of a friend and we talk on Facebook; we get on quite well and he recently revealed to me that he used to be depressed and has scars from it, he asked me not to tell his friends so that might mean they don't know? The problem I'm having is that fir... (158 words)

How to rebuff one and encourage the other

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I've been vexed lately. There's a guy who has been asking me out but I'm not interested in him at all! Every time he asks me out, I'd tell him I was busy/engaged and even feigned a fever once. I know it's wrong to lie to someone but I don't know how I can turn him ... (163 words)

My boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year in march we were talking last night and he mentioned his ex which he does quite often so I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said yes he is now I'm so confused but my question is will he be thinking of his ex when we are ... (73 words)

I cant seem to have relationships like other people....what's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

31 January 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Hi, I'm lonely and frustrated. I am a natural redhead, men think this either makes me easy or a bitch. I'm neither, i rebuff their advances, i have a preference for women you see. After qualifying as an optometrist i moved to a new city to work. I'm not "out" so I took advantag... (347 words)

Is it cultural or personality? Why is he so shy around me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - In my class, there is one international guy from China that acts a bit strange around me. After we teamed up in a mini project, he and I started talking more and discovered we have similar interests. However, when ever I talk to him he laughs a little (like he is embarres... (206 words)

How can I relax and not sabotage this potentially wonderful relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age - Hi everyone. A quick question, I am in a relationship with a stunning gregarious woman. We're to married in August and have talked about having a child together. However, I live daily in fear that things will turn sour. I try not to look for reasons to believe this but can't ... (80 words)

He's 50, fit, separated and I want it to work. BUT? Can this relationship work better? How?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This is long, so thank you to whoever is reading this… I’ve been in a relationship with a truly wonderful man for just over 3 years. I am now 26 and he is 50. Fortunately he has aged well and he keeps fit. I met him when he supposedly was separated. We worked together brief... (333 words)

And encounter with my ex Fiance. And got on well. How should I play this, and what should my next step be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - weirdest thing happened to me today, i got a text message from my ex-fiance and she said i emailed her from an old email account i do not use anymore. she said she is texting me because she doesn't want her work computer to get a virus... i said ok im sorry she got that ema... (202 words)

We have two children together. He's my fiance. Should I forgive him for kissing my younger sister?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - so my younger sister confessed to me that my fiance kissed her!! she seemed pretty upset and she didn't know how to tell me she said she pushed him away and told him that was wrong and was freaking out. he told me he didn't know what he was thinking, it just happened. Cryi... (102 words)

Is my boyfriend not attracted to me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 24 and I have been with my 25 year old boyfriend for 3 years. I'm not sure if this is all in my head, or something I'm reading in our relationship... but I don't feel like he is very attracted to me.. mentally, emotionally and sexually. :/ You could say we're somet... (949 words)

How do I establish I don't want friends with benefits without scaring him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So lately I've met a new guy. Let's call him S. I've known him for about a week and we've messed around twice now. When we ended up at the same party I told a friend of his that I liked S. I wasn't all myself at that point in time. The aforemention friend told S and then S said ... (159 words)

Tips needed for improving my hand job technique

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend says im the best hes had in bed, and unbelievable at oral.. but when it comes to hand jobs they need some work. i want to be good at giving hand jobs, i never really do it cause i feel awkward. i dont know what to do because i find its hard to please guys with hand ... (68 words)

2 Questions: 'Coming out' advice needed and how to get over a crush

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so this will be really long, I'm sorry I have 2 questions Question 1: I am... well I'm not sure but I think I'm bi or Pansexual. I have been attracted to guys and girls I've had 2 boyfriends 1 of which I never really had feelings for (mentioned below)and have never ... (327 words)

How can I learn to more secure and trusting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've posted questions here many times for help with my relationship and past... I've had some problems with my current girlfriend, and we recently took a break. I've always been suspicious of her, have issues with trust, but I realize now that I have been like this with... (286 words)

Too bad to stay. Too good to leave.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 year. I moved in with him 2 weeks into our relationship. We have known each other since we were 13 through mutual friends but didn’t start our relationship until we were in our 20’s. The start of our relationship was bittersweet,... (875 words)

How should I encourage him to ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am interested in a considerably older coworker. He is usually pretty stoic with others, but he will tease and flirt with me often, get into my personal space, and initiate conversation with me pretty often. Other coworkers have joked saying that he would be my Valentin... (200 words)

I'm afraid of being alone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm afraid of being alone. When I don't have a guy giving me attention, I feel empty. If I don't have someone at the time pursuing me I find someone. It's not hard to find a sucker. I tried to be alone but when I feel like i want to be alone, its like the guys know it... (313 words)

Was he sincere or just playing games?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband told me 4 months ago that he was done with our marriage and leaving. He has left me and our children 4 times over the last several years. Each time he has come back (because I have asked or begged him to). He did not say when he was going to leave so basically we ... (571 words)

Can a girl still conquer a guy who says he only wants to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - A friend and I became super friends and confidants.His girlfriend left him for another guy 1 year ago and after having been his girlfriend for 7 years he cannot get over the loss, therefore I had refused to say anything about it. The big mistake I made was to become his web FWB ... (285 words)

Should I tell his girlfriend he cheated on her with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

31 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, i need advice. Ok heres my story, i have a guy friend who i have been friends since with the 9th grade. were in our early 20s now. i have had a crush on him since high school but never acted on it because i was really shy. anyways fast forward like 5 years to ... (573 words)

Please help me interpret what is going on with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I broke up with a guy a few months ago and decided that I just wanted to be single and make new friends to do stuff with. Anyway I met this guy who is 2 years younger than me (making him 18) and first night we met he said he was going to kiss me because He didn't wanna ... (556 words)

Performance anxiety is preventing us from having sex, help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I posted once on here already describing some awkward sexual issues with my girlfriend, and now that things have played out a bit since then, I wanted to re-address things. My girlfriend and I are both virgins, in a committed, loving relationship. We're both colle... (803 words)