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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey I broke up with a guy a few months ago and decided that I just wanted to be single and make new friends to do stuff with. Anyway I met this guy who is 2 years younger than me (making him 18) and first night we met he said he was going to kiss me because He didn't wanna lead me on.. I got really insulted that he thought I was only after him for a relationship. He quickly apologised and explained that he was just wanting to be friends and didn't want to see anyone at all. That's great because I feel the same. But the more time I'm spending with him the more I actually find myself attracted to him. The other night he asked to go out and he brought his friend. Then in the car he messaged me saying his friend REALLY likes me and is too embarrassed to say.. Like one hell of an awkward hour later I finally told him how I was feeling that It would be wrong to be with his friend when I felt that way about him. I expected him to get annoyed and pissed off about me suddenly changing what I want but he didn't. Instead he said "WellI can't do anything tonight with him here", And I never said that nothing would NEVER happen I just said I wanted to be friends first...but I do think your good looking..This kinda cheered me up a bit but now he is just being incredibly distant.. like he barely talks and everytime he plans to meet up he ends up just doing nothing about it. Then I start analysing what he said that night..He had had two glasses of wine - was he drunk when he said it? Maybe he just said it because I was there at the time and he felt awkward? Maybe he did mean it he just can't be bothered to peruse it night now. Either way I kinda know what replies to expect.. "Get over him he's not interested" "He's not worth it focus on someone who cares".Thing is I know all those are valid points it's just I actually feel obsessed by him. He is so incredibly good looking he makes my mouth water he is funny and I get along so well with him. I guess I am asking for interpretations more than anything. How should I be interpreting what's going on?I should add that his friends do say he takes forever to reply to them as well and sometimes ignores them they say it's just the way he is.With talking to him it's like I have to force answers out of him etc it just doesn't feel two sided, on the other hand sometimes he does seem to talk and seem interested. Grr, I don't know what to do as you can tell I'm really confused. I Like him SO much I'm wanting him to be interested so bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012): He's not interested in you but knows you're interested in him so he's cultivating you to provide no-strings sex on the side.
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