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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't look like I used to. Does that bother men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyfriend says he wants to try new things but I am a mother of three and do not look like I used to...does that bother men as much as it bothers women? ... (34 words)

Girlfriend doesn't want/need affection or sex. Is she just with me for security?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing my gf for 9 months and I'm starting to suspect her reasons for being with me are practical rather than romantic. Ever since we started dating sex and intimacy has been a bit of an issue. Basically most times thAt I attempt to get close / kiss/ cuddle I'm met ... (364 words)

I'm with the man of my dreams and simply cannot wait to have children! Am I obsessed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Wondering if you can provide honest opinions on the below... I'm with the man of my dreams and simply cannot wait to have children! I know its not the right time yet, and I want my man to be ready so i'm not rushing him or bringing it up. He knows that I want a baby so pretty... (316 words)

Should I ask my friend for interview tips? I am not sure!

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I moved to France with my mother last year and I met a guy (Im 18 and hes 19) in July or August but we didnt start talking properly until October. Hes English originally but he moved to France a few years ago with his parents. Basically I have a volunteer worker i... (120 words)

Why would a goodlooking guy find ME attractive? I have low self esteem!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't wrap my head around why a good looking guy would like me or even find me attractive? He could get a really gorgeous girl, so why me? When we met in a bar a week ago, he said he thought I was attractive and had to get my number and see me again. I gave him my number bu... (252 words)

Do I like him? What should I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm sure I love my bf....I'm only young but we have been together for nearly a year but never kissed on the lips :/ and I'm talking to him online now and he says how much he loves me...but there's this other guy in our friendship group who hardly ever has a gf because he is ... (205 words)

5 years together apart for 1 week and I'm lost.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I of 5 years broke up over a week ago and I have been in the dumps since. I cannot eat, sleep or function. All I do is think about him. It was kind of mutual but he texted me the next day asking did I want this because I didn't know what to say? I said no, I ... (303 words)

Should I stay in my unhappy marriage? Or get a divorce and be with husband's friend whom I am cheating with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am married for 8 years now,24 years old I had my first child, I have 2 kids, my mum was neglecting me and she has this attitude problem i could'nt bare,so i runaway from home by marrying a man who is a wonderful trusted husband that I don't love since day one although he ... (362 words)

His continued porn use is eating away my love for him!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age - I need some male answere to understand what is going on or going wrong in our relationship. I try to make it simple. Here are the facts: We are married for a long time,still in love, have lots of hot sex (never boring!!!!), I am still very attractive(he tells me all the time)... (301 words)

I'm with a great guy, except he may be facing 4 years in prison. Should I wait?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I been dating this guy for a little over a year now. And he is a great guy. Hes the best thing thats happend to me. I love being with him and I catch myself smiling for no reason sometimes:) But he has been in trouble wit the cops before, he recently got arrested last wee... (86 words)

How do I bring up how unreliable, unfaithful, neglectful and awful he has been to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He is unreliable, never makes time for me, he has been unfaithful, he ignors me, and just treats me so terrible. But as hard as i try, i cannot stop loving him. Is there any right way to brong this up to him?... (57 words)

Bad experiences with men! Should I continue being careful and cynical?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have had several bad experiences in the past with men, and even though i am only 18 ive already had a four year relationship with someone which ended in him cheating on me several times. my heart was broken but im moving on, yet every guy i meet messes me around. i would ... (151 words)

So what is this? Is he just stringing me along until he finds something better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I'm very confused about my relationship to say the least. I've been with a guy for about 2 1/2 years. We had an amazing relationship. He loved me with all his heart. And I loved him with all of mine. I gave my virginity to him last year because I was absolutely sure ... (662 words)

My life, what do you people think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm a solitary man, i live alone and i'm a workaholic. I have a routine lifestyle, i work almost every day go home, eat something, clean the house and watch some tv. In my free time i go swimming and have sex with prostitutes. I don't consider myself a sex-ad... (244 words)

Should I wait for Bob or move on to Joe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There is one guy, 'Bob' who i have been 'dating' for about 6 months. I found out I had Chlamydia. Of course I had to tell him. And he freaked out, and said he needed time. which I understand it was quite a shock to me as well. Anyway, there is this other guy 'Joe' who really... (125 words)

Trouble with clingy boyfriend while ex boyfriend claims he still loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all... so im having a problem i have been dating this guy for six months and he thinks of me as his everything i just dont feel the same way anymore. i have told him numerous times that its not working out but he insist that we are not ever gonna break up, that we are ... (321 words)

Should a married couple share almost everything?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm asking about how much openness there should be in a marriage. Not just a relationship, but a marriage. I think that once you make that step to commit to be together for the rest of your lives, things change. My wife and I are very open with each other. I know almost ever... (559 words)

I had sex and now I'm scared I might have a STD!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, so I had sex with this guy, it was basically I went to visit him and hang out , we ended up cuddling and it turned into having sex. I don't know if he's STD free or anything and I noticed a bump on my vaginal area /: I don't know if it's herpies or any other ... (89 words)

Even though we are seeing other people, I still have feelings for my ex and think she may feel the same way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

12 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my ex broke up about 6 months ago and we are both dating new people. I know for a fact that she still has dreams about me and she isn't happy with her current situation I don't think. I am now dating another girl too. I love her to death she just isn't my ex and thats ... (127 words)

I'm not sure why I feel this way, I still find him attractive

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4725 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite some time now. We have always been happy together but lately things seem to have fizzled out. I am confused and unhappy about this. At the beginning, we were clingy, huggy and always affectionate with each other, mainly from me ... (144 words)

My daughter is 4 years old and has never met her father. He is single now and I am hoping that he will assume his responsibilities... is this wrong of me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a daughter who is 4 years old, ever since she has been born she has not seen her father. I met her father at a bar and within a few weeks of dating I becasme pregnant. We broke up after being together a month. Then I found out i was pregnant and he claimed we were going ... (280 words)

Am I too available to this guy? I feel after 3 years he is too comfortable and playing games!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone! I need some advice When we first started dating, of course, my boyfriend was very romantic and did lots of sweet things for me. He liked being affectionate and sending me little love notes - and he did, ALL THE TIME. Then we began to fight more and they stopped.... (958 words)

He lied about not having had past relationships. Should this affect our relationship??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, i got hurt and was feeling cheated about an issue with my bf of 2.5 years. I used to think him as a nice character who respected girls a lot, unfortunately, now i feel i was having wrong impression of him. :( I am really really confused and need your help if thi... (513 words)

Have sex with ex while she with another man what does that mean

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, need some help, Me and my gf of 3 years recently split up and we stil talk and act like we r stil an item, we chat every day and nite, problem is she has got a bf. But she stops at myn and we have sex, (while she is in a relationship) I love her to bits and wen she ... (93 words)

Would you post christmas/new years greetings on facebook or make it private?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 January 2012 (F) - If you wanted to post happy christmas and new year or happy birthday to someone on facebook would you put it on their wall or send it by private message. If you did it by private message what would be your reason for doing it. The reason I ask is that a man I dated years an... (201 words)

Is it strange that I want sex all the time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I dont know if i have a problem or not. I think about sex all the time and would happily spend every waking hour with my fiance just having sex! I am 35 and very atractive (so iv been told).Even after sex i still want more and get frustrated and angry if we go more than a day ... (92 words)

My sex dirve has gone down and become a "chore"...Please help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - When do u reach ur Sexual Peak? Im a women in her 30s. I dnt knw why but my Sex drive has gone dwn. My partner is 7 yrs older then me. We have been together for 8 years. In the beginning sex was GREAT! But over the years it has fallen dwn and got less exciting. i feel like its ... (86 words)

FWB - I am tired of being the girl he can have when he wants but doesn't want to be with. Please give me advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a male friend, we've known each other since we were 7 or 8, and when we were around 15 we dated briefly for about a week, before he decided we should just be friends. ever since then we've both seen other people, but as soon as we were single again we would end up kissi... (438 words)

Guy canceled our date because he was super exhausted from work. Do u think he was really exhausted or blowing me off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been talking to this guy from online for a week. He was amped to meet me and the night before we met he told me that he only dates one person at a time, he asked if im gonna meet anyone else and i said no that i only planned to meet him, we had a discussion about what we ... (569 words)

I have very little experience with guys and dating.. I need help to understand his signals??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I know very little about dating I married young and am now divorced. There is a guy I like but I know so little about guys I am not sure if he likes me or not. He stares at me from across the room so much so that there have been times I have caught him staring I looked away ... (323 words)

I mistakenly sent a text to the guy I like saying I liked him! Now things are awkward

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I accidentally text the boy I like, instead of my friend with a text saying ' I really like (boys name) why should I do ?' and I made up and excuse that it wasn't me that sent it was one of my friends and I think he believes it wasn't me and it's not true. But now it's really ... (113 words)

Husband had emotional affair and isn't attracted to me. He says its my duty to make him aroused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (?) age 41-50 - My hubby had a emmotional affair with his co.worker..even he was ready to 2 marriage but the girl want him to leave me..but he can't do this bcz he thinks he is a victom of love but also love me and our 6 y old baby.now my hubby has leave this girl.but stil says that he loves ... (216 words)

How do I get a second date?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I went on a first date last week, with a guy I met online. Everything seemed to go well. Now it's almost the weekend again, but he hasnt asked me out. What should I do?... (35 words)

We now only have sex 2-3 times a month but she gets angry if girls flirt with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

12 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with this girl for 2 yrs and when we first started dating we had sex or gave oral sex to each other alll the time. (First 8 months or so) in those 8 months there would be times we had sex 2 times a day. Now deeper into our relationship we have sex 2-3 times a month. ... (137 words)

Does anyone know what could be going through a woman's head when I look at her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know if this happens to other people, but I find that when I look a woman straight in her eyes she tends to smirk. If I break contact the smirk goes away but then there's an attraction. It seems to happen to me whenever I find myself talking to a girl and I'm listening ... (115 words)

He did say he was selfish. Are his actions reflecting what he said?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4728 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so here is a little backstory you will need to asnwer the question: I was enrolled in a class where my teacher (lets call him ben) commented on my breasts once or twice in class. He also would tease me about how sexual I was but never took it past that. Im very used to ... (637 words)

Should I end it or try to win her back by fixing my insecurities and jealousy issues?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

12 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this girl for about 7 weeks, she just recently broke up with me because I kept complaining to her about her time being spent more with her friends (mostly guys) than me. It seems to me that the only time she wants to spend with me is when I have money to take ... (785 words)

I'm sad I had my baby and now he's just going to get bigger! Has anyone felt this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. this is my question. i just had a baby 3 days ago, and, well instead of having post partum depression, im having quite the opposite. It seems im sad now because hes out of my tummy and is only going to get bigger from here on out :( ive been crying for a while ... (73 words)

How do I win my crush's heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (?) age 26-29 - Hello everyone! Happy new year! Or atleast I hope everyone has had one, yes? :) hope you don't mind me using faces this time So, it's my third day at a new school today annnd the first day I came I developed a new crush, again -_- Haha, like you know when you are in ... (393 words)

Should I just dump my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i dump my boyfriend ?. We have been on and off for a long time and when we argue, he threatens to finish me, and sometimes actually does. He has also just asked to have two days to think about whether he wants us to be together too. Why would he need to think for that ... (95 words)

Did this guy lie to me and is it worth getting back together if the love is still there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

12 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - One guy claimed to really like me. He'd always comfort me and told me about his bad experiences with girls who cheated on him. He told me he's not like those guys who use girls for sex and said he'll wait for me for as long as it takes. After that we talked everyday and s... (494 words)