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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I think my guy is too caring!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

29 January 2012 (?) age 36-40 - I love my boyfriend very much hes very sweet I mean he will do anything for me and I am probably being stupid but when we talk I will say to him when he goes home I miss him and he always talks about cwtching which I do enjoy but he never really talks about enjoying other ... (322 words)

Could I meet the right person in college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a senior in high school and really want a girlfriend. I'm very nice, sweet, tough, have confidence and sometimes I feel like a good guy for the ladies. I never had one and I see a lot of my friends dating. I going to be separated from my high school friends. I'm going to a ... (142 words)

Black specks in underware mean?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Black specks in my husband briefs after washing; what does that mean if anything?... (14 words)

My B/f just expects me to invite myself over to his house to befriend his Mother and I find that totally rude and inconsiderate, especially given how my last visit there was

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! Any advice on how my boyfriend is handling his family getting to interact with me and, thus, get to know me is very helpful and I appreciate it all! Thanks in advance. Background: My boyfriend (22 yrs old) comes from a low income family. He lives with his Mom, Aunt, a... (1173 words)

My cousin loves me and wants me to have his baby

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my first cousin and i have always been close. we barely saw each other when we were little due to him living in another country, yet when he can to visit with his mum we always hung out. i didnt see him for about 6 or 7 years and he was 18 when i saw him next. he'd come over by ... (241 words)

How to keep it in the family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in love with my dads cousin he is married n has kids but still loves me more thn anhything he recently proposed to me n i really wnt to marry him but if my family found out then it would be disaster his family is not a problem. how should i convince my family? i knw he ... (98 words)

Friends can't kiss... Right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid, Well, heres another update, a mind boggling one at that rate. I visited B around his again, we had fun and a few laughs and ended up on his sofa watching a film, we were cuddling my head resting on his chest. I felt him gently push me to being on top of him. He w... (254 words)

Why can I not pleasure myself to orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4674 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi cupids! this might be a silly thing to ask on here i just dont know how else to find out and its very embarrassing! theres obviously a lot of ladies on here so hoping you can help! :) im 19, i was very young and nieve when i lost my virginity (was just 14!) i obviously ... (271 words)

What are my chances of seeing her again??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok i was on a date with a girl a couple of nights ago and everything was going well. We were just in this nice bar place, when some guy friend of hers from her school days recognized her and walked over to say hi. I thought that would be it, hello, how are you, blah blah blah ... (200 words)

Wife prefers for us to take care of our own needs rather than have sex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (M)

age - Hi everybody. Wife and I are both around 50 with 4 kids. The youngest is 17. Our sex life is very hit and miss and has been all through our marriage. Her sex drive is low but she masturbates regularly, though she denies that she does it as much as she does. This gets me d... (150 words)

Going to be married in 2 months and I feel so unloved

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all I feel I have no one else to turn to. Me and my fiancé have been together for nearly 4 years and are due to be married in march but I feel so unloved. We have sex once a month and it's over in 2 mins. I'm bored and I have tried and tried to spice things up. We're... (170 words)

Better way to give handjobs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i havent been having the best of luck when i give him handjobs. first off my hands are really small and cramp easily and im not sure how to get around that. and because of that it takes longer. Also when he does ejaculate it gets everywhere and its kind of a ... (84 words)

I want to get involved with my sister in law who lives with us

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4625 days ago

29 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - The wife of my brother-in-law lives with us. I want her more than my wife and her husband is in abroad. I'm 36years old and living a happy married life. We are living two families together. This means my family and the other family is my wife's brother's family, but wife... (140 words)

Guys I talk to think I'm flirting, but I don't even know how to flirt!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - One of my friends keep telling me not to talk to boys the way I do, and he says that I "don't know what I do to other guys." I've tried asking him what he meant, but he shrugged it off. I'm almost certain that he's talking about flirting, but I don't even know how! So I asked ... (164 words)

My b/f got both me and his ex pregnant at the same time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her Chantel cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and when he met me h... (410 words)

I love my boyfriend so much but I don't like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. So i have been reading peoples posts on here for days and have finally plucked up the courage to ask for some advice on here. The p[roblem is i dont think i really know where to start... but here goes. I met my current boyfriend when i was 17. It was a whirlwind young ... (570 words)

Are people that have been in relationships with an alcoholic in the past afraid of commitment and trust ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I have a question , I was dating this woman for 6 months and things were going really well and we took our time in the relationship , she had basically told me about her past life , it wasn't the best , at 16 she was sexually assaulted , at seventeen her friends father ... (374 words)

Ex and I are talking again should I assume he might like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know what to do. My ex and I from two years ago have become closer recently we have been talking more face to face and we have also started bbming each other a bit. A few months after we broke up i had got completely over him and we thought of each ot... (312 words)

How do I get my LDR boyfriend back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I get him back? I have posted on here a few times now. I was in a LD relationship with an amazing man for nearly a year. But due to my stupidity it has now ended. We have had a roller coaster ride. I was going through a divorce, my Dad has cancer finding out with... (463 words)

B/f says I'm controlling? Am I? He's lied and I have trust issues!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My guy and I have been dating about 8 months and the last couple have been a bit intense with disagreements. I'm 38 and hes 45. We both have been married before and its just some things at his age I think he should know by now. If I don't call him on certain behav... (332 words)

Sexy birthday treat ideas

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi every1! Am looking for some guidance lol my man turns 37 on Thursday and I want to give him a surprise but I have NO IDEA what to get him.. What do u get the man who has everything.. And he doesn't help saying he doesn't want anything.. Just me lol anyway a girlfriend ... (167 words)

Wife Always Walks Ahead of Me...Far Ahead

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4552 days ago

29 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - This is a puzzling thing for me. About 10 years into my marriage I noticed that my wife would immediately walk ahead of me when going places. She doesn't slow down, just keeps walking. She is not more attractive for a woman than I am for a man, if fact, I think most peopl... (221 words)

How can I build up my friends confidence about dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately my friend has been dealing with a guy whos not into her as much as she is into him. ive been helping her stay happy cuz she really likes him and cant let him go. then she sent me a message like this "Uk what I figured it out no guy wants to date me cause im too dam shy… ... (127 words)

He was flirting with me but now says I'm not his type

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this problem with a coworker of mine that I ended up really liking his name is Bryan… We have known each other since October 2010. He had asked me what his chances were for taking me out to dinner was and I had told him that his chances are good. He had told me that... (392 words)

What's your opinion of guys who flirt with their ex, while the guy is still IN a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I just wanted everyone's opinion on this. I ask because my ex still flirts with me even though he's got a girlfriend. He's even said to me once how do I know if he ain't lying about being in a relationship, and that I should pretend that he's still single and that his ... (153 words)

He is like a light switch

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married to a guy who is like a light switch what I mean is one day he will say I love you but the next day he says he doesn't like or love me. When we fight he take the easy way out by taking off for days and then come back and tells me I don't have a right to know ... (98 words)

His friend gave him an ultimatum, me or the friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i was talking about a younger boy, in my previous question. well now his friend which is my ex, has told him that he needs to choose between me or him. does anyone know what i should do or say?... (44 words)

I'm so keen to find somebody I scare them away on the first date!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - to get straight to the point- i get too carried away about girls on the 1st date that im left gutted when they dont want a second. I work in a very male dominated industry and all my friends are couples. i have lots of interests and am always busy but finding a girl to ask ou... (283 words)

I need to learn how to interact with guys

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys, I think the best way to describe it is.. I'm stuck! Its been this way most of my life, and the situation doesn't really change. I guess you could say I have very little to do with guys. It's not me so much that doesnt have much to do with guys, its just my group of... (139 words)

I like a much younger guy, and now he is flirting with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (?) age 36-40 - I need advice on something. I told one of my friends that I liked a guy in our college class. The thing is that I'm 23 and he is 17...I told her I was embarrassed about it and that I couldn't help how I felt. I had to tell someone so I chose her. She started saying that age... (204 words)

My wife says I play games too much!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay my wife says i play my game too much that we don't have time for each other anymore. Okay i work all night pretty much i work 4 Nights a week and then on Sunday i go to work and open. We have a 15mth old daughter together so those two days that i am off i try and give my ... (91 words)

I just get turned off by his double checking the condom

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I didnt know who else to bring this up with so thought i'd see what other people on here think... Basically my partner and I are in a very loving relationship. We both want children and plan to start trying in a year. I'm being a typical woman though... (230 words)

Should I try and work this out or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hello good people. this is my situation. ive been dating a guy for 8 months now. he's in the army and got deployed a month after we started dating. Our relationship had such strong chemistry that i decided to wait on him till h comes bak in june. We've kept in touch, he sends ... (274 words)

My love for him is so strong, but he just plays with my emotions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, we are long distance(live 5 hours/230 miles apart) and we met 6 months before we got together through a friend i went to see for a week, i was with someone else at the time, but that didn't stop me doing stuff with him and sleeping ... (626 words)

He's ok to do things when I"m on my period, I'm not!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend were fooling around, having a good time, clothes on, and he went to put his hands in my pants, but I said no because I'm on my period, which I think is gross, and I thought he'd be grossed out when I told him, but he told me that not only did he still ... (134 words)

Age difference and a dying girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Now, I'm not the type of girl to fall head over heels for anyone! In fact, I'm a junior in high school and I've never dated before. I'm really happy about this too. Not just proud but happy. I love being by myself and see no use for high school relationships. I truely love ... (285 words)

Maybe I should just end the relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4672 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been doing a sort of open relationship for about the last 5 months. He has only been with one other girl and it was just a mindless hookup, dont care. In our particular arrangement, I told him I really don't want to know about when ... (404 words)

My past relationships are coloring the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! I need some advice, I'm having a hard time letting go, trusting people, and or finding myself to like anyone in a way that others like me. I have had quite a few relationships but not as much as I have with people I have "went out" with, by that I mean I have had more ... (1078 words)

He said it was a joke but it's still on my mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

29 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help me I'm struggling. So to make this short. I'm gay and I'm 18 I have a boyfriend who's 19 we have four months together. Do now about my issue. I went on my boyfriend Facebook without permission I loged on with his password and checked his messages in his massages ... (247 words)

He's my ex and he still checks me out all the time. Why does he do this still? His Gf hates me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I share a lot of history, we were best friends for a year and liked each other for a lot, a year after we hugged for the first time and hung out as well with friends. Few months later we had our first kiss and first sex and it was very passionate, any-ways we wanted t... (516 words)

Is it tacky to ask about STDs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) age 30-35 - I myself am currently a virgin and my girlfriend is not. She told me she has had some unprotected sex. She really really wants to have sex with me, we just started dating, however, we have known each other for quite some time and actually dated 4 years ago. I myself feel ready ... (160 words)

We hooked up twice and now he ignores me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, so i have a slight problem, i have this friend we use to date back in the day but it didnt work out for a few reasons, but recently we have partied with each other a couple times we hooked up twice, he does have a girlfriend and i feel horrible for hooking up with ... (232 words)

Advise required on how to keep our affairs on the boil

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

29 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - i had sex continually with my wife's good friend who too is married for many monthes. we know its wrong but we both want to continue. please advice what we shud do to continue our relationship.... (36 words)

On top of all our problems sex is not happening either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband was in an accident 25 years ago prior to our marriage that left him paralyzed. He has a full time job and has lived indepentantly. We met 3 years ago on the internet. I lived in the USA and he lived in Australia. He came to visit me in the USA a year and a half after ... (340 words)

PREGNANT! Help! How do I tell him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, I think I may be pregnant. The issue I would like to ask you all about it how to talk to my boyfriend about it. First off, should I tell him right away before I know for sure? Or should I wait until I do know, and then tell him? I feel like I need to talk to him a... (158 words)

One boy wants sex the other puts me in the friend - zone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4680 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS FROM SAME ASKER COMBINED Question ONE: Okay, so I’ll be honest, I am desperate for advice because this is really my only way to get help. I’ve talked to my friends about it and they all are close-minded about it so I decided I needed someone unbiased... (600 words)

I feel knackered and old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4660 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a very dark place. I feel immense loneliness, empty feelings no matter who I'm with. I'm threatened by evrything. Mainly people preferring other people to me cause my personality is shit even though pple reassure that its not I feel it deep inside. My boyfriend is addic... (477 words)

He wants sex, I want more, but I am too lonely to just walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I met this asian guy...we were going out...dinner, dancing, movies..etc...he is younger almost 10 years...I realized..too late he only wants sex. Thats all. And I want more company...friendship. I told him we are looking for different things and is better if we just don... (151 words)

He just can't shut up about his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4679 days ago

29 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i has been together for 10 months now but i dont think he's over his ex. we got together after 2 weeks of them breaking up, they were going out for almost 1 year and a half. after they broke up, she had a new boyfriend just 2 weeks after so his friend who is ... (376 words)

How can I help my g/f when she can't tell me what is wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

29 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Last night I was talking to my girlfriend and she seemed kind of down. I asked her what was wrong and she kept telling me she couldn't tell me. Because she has trouble communicating because of her past relationships not being exactly successful. She also says that she love me ... (68 words)