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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he worth waiting around for? Commitment phobic boyfriend of 4.5 years!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 1/2 years now. We have lived together for 3 1/2 years. Whenever I bring up marriage or our future he doesn't say anything. He says he will propose some day, but that's not good enough for me. He says, "what difference would a ring ... (141 words)

Time is marching on. How do I move on? I need some positive encouragement, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello all, I've just turned 39 and have been single for 8 months after ending a relationship which was toxic, I wont go into it but he had issues. Im very sad that at 39 I am alone and have no children. I have 3 siblings who have children, and it's getting to the stage whe... (261 words)

She's being a recluse. But says we're not 'over' yet. What does she want? I want to see her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I started seeing a girl a couple of months ago we spent some time together and slept together a few times, we got very close it was very passionate. The Christmas holidays came up so she was out of town for a while likewise with me too, so we never saw each other ov... (209 words)

How do I choose between three guys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. im dating three guys and two of they guys have already known that am double dating. I was thinking that will make them leave me but they are still begging me to stay. All i want now is how to choose between these three guys. Am confused. I really need help... (53 words)

What makes a girl a "safe bet"?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when a guy says you are 'a safe bet' ???????... (14 words)

Am I gay or bi-sexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i am a 15 year old boy i dont know if im gay or bisexual i find boys attractive but not girls if i see girls i get quite nervous and boys aswell but idont feel the same sexual attractionto girls as i do with boys so i would like to know if im gay or bisexual... (58 words)

Do I tell my husband about this incident I had with an ex boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. I cheated on my husband. I've only ever had sex with my husband, but I did have a boyfriend before him. We've been married for a few years now and everything is great. This ex-boyfriend contacted me on facebook, and I told my husband. He said I can ta... (503 words)

He's divorced but I found out he has a longterm gf! He's just contacted me and I am unsure how to deal with all this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I need some advice because my heart I think will rule my head. I was seeing this guy and things were ok, he told me was divorced and just wanting to keep things casual, I was disappointed but truthfully I was flattered that this guy was interested in me and I was using hi... (226 words)

Why would girlfriend have contact details of guy who raped her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf, who is now 27, was raped at 16 by a 26 year old guy she used to hang around with. She never told anyone except me when i met her 5 years ago. She has never dealt with it and has kept it blocked out. She made me promis never to tell anyone or bring it up again. Toda... (193 words)

In his message to me, he said "don't run off with the circus in the meantime ". What did he mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy cancelled our date yesterday, and i have an update on the situation. I sent him a private message last night saying that it was a shame that we couldn't meet, and that we could meet again sometime if he wanted, and i said i hoped he liked his new home. He sent me a ... (402 words)

I am inexperienced..so how do I deal with my more experienced bf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I with a guy and things are going really well but the problem is that I am extremely shy when it comes to any physical contact and he is starting to make small comments like he always makes the first move etc. I really like him but I feel embarrassed about all aspects of ... (159 words)

My gf is pregnant with her abusive ex-bf's baby! What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I met a girl 3 months ago, and we fell madly in love and were both 39 and have talked about marriage and we both feel we have found our soul mates in each other. During these 3 months ive found out that her last relationship the guy cheated on her and when she found out he hit ... (208 words)

Is he only looking for sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I ve been talking to a guy on the phone and through text for over a month. We decided to meet soon and he often mentions he cant wait to hug and kiss me. I asked him exactly what hes looking for and he said for u to be good friends that hang out and nothing too serious ... (115 words)

Do I have a right to be angry with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know if I have the right to be angry. Whats Happened: I was supposed to be going my boyfriend's this weekend to spend some time with him. Friday I would go to his, Saturday we would go bowling with friends and then back to his and then Sunday would be a gettin... (410 words)

How will I face my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I need some advice on what to do. I feel guilty and am plagued with sin. A few days back my friend and I hung out together but as we were talking, he suddenly hugged me and even planted a kiss on me. Although I pushed him away but he seemed adamant on giving me a ... (123 words)

I can't stand that my ex has a new girlfriend. What's happening to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello there... so i broke up with my bf 8 months ago and now, i found out he has a new gf. i was ok with not being with him... i'm doing fine! even though i'm not dating, i'm going out and having fun with my friends... i missed him, but not as a bf. but ever since i fou... (158 words)

We were dating and suddenly he revealed that he has a child!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid... I've been seeing this guy for a little while now and we've been hanging out. He's 26 and i'm 20 and the other night we were in my car talking and he told me that he had a kid! The child is 4 years old so it was kind of shocking. I'm just not used to it all ... (193 words)

Multiple issues here. Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - A lot of help needed on this. Ok so I'm in a relationship with this girl who I will call X. Well X is quite young 18 to be precise. Now X and I have been dating for around 9 months, where she's known me and helped my out through my ex and was always there. Now we both have... (386 words)

Should I tell her that I love her and risk losing her friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i am in love with my classmate-cum-friend, she thinks me as her brother, but i love her the most, we are not in blood relation, i am very afraid to say my feelings to her that she would leave me and i don't want that. i want to make her realize that i am in love with her, but ... (64 words)

How do I win her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently me and my girlfriend broke up (both 20 years old). The past 2 months were stressful and pressuring on us, as we moved house twice over Christmas and new year. Since september, we've seen each other 24/7 (after being rendered jobless) and naturally took each others ... (160 words)

My boyfriend doesn't fulfill my sexual needs. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I don't know what to do about the mismatch between my high sex drive and my bf's lower sex drive and need some advice please. We've been together 16 months now. At first, as in many relationships, were we all over each other whenever we met up, having great sex 3-4 ti... (566 words)

Do guys like it when u kiss them all over their body and tell them that u love every inch of them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - do guys enjoy the sensual loving touch of woman ? do they love to cuddle, snuggle with their girlfriend and hold them close?... (24 words)

I feel like I'm invisible!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like I'm invisable. I've just got through a very hard break up and I'm currently going to councilling but I feel very alone in the world hell my mother wont even talk to me. No one is listening to me or trying to help me. I don't know whats wrong or what i'm doing wrong ... (70 words)

Career or women?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm about one third of the way through a one year postgraduate degree in science, and I'm really down about it at this stage. I only chose science initially for university because I was in a bad place at the end of high school and despite my real passion being English, I left ... (523 words)

Why are only older girls attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - i seem to attract mostly girls older than i am and i know am a cute guy of 22.firstly i have attracted of 25 who loved me so dearly that she does many things for me.there was a time a girl of about 23 also got attracted to me and she also loved me dearly.recently a girl of ... (112 words)

My wife wants kids and I don't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 and married for 4 and a 1/2 years and my wife wants kids, but sometimes i don't. Yesterday we were in her friends home and i saw their kid energy all night and i thought to myself: "My GOd! I don't want kids, i dont want that hell! I dont want to pass through that! This ... (205 words)

Am I to blame for getting dumped?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I used to talk dirty with my very close guy friend P (read: sexting). We had a deal that it was just for fun and only talking and it wasnt gonna go anywhere. But one day we had a drunken makeout session. Soon after our friendship soured and we stopped talking. I met a guy ... (321 words)

Is he toying with my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have been in a fwb situation for 11 months now none of us planned for it to be this it just kinda happened anyway this is the problem I had a lot of family problems recently so I kept in touch texting him n that but I got a text back saying I had been cheating on ... (118 words)

Am I Playing Hard To Get?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (?) age 41-50 - A guy I went out with twice texted me on the fourth day saying he had fun but he'll be out of town on business during the week. He asked to see me on the following weekend but we didn't say when, what time, etc. There was no other contact during the weekdays so when the ... (149 words)

I saw him kissing another girl before he kissed me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Really could do with advice, so please be honest guys and tell me what you really think of the situation. I've tried to put it as short as I can, so it doesn't sound like an essay of a story.. This guy I met in a bar just over two weeks ago, we've been talking everyday... (456 words)

Am I moving too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of only 3 months emigrated to Australia on a working holiday visa today. Before I had even met him I'd planned on going myself with a group of friends in September. Now Im thinking that I hate being away from him and I'll go over earlier, in may, alone, just to be ... (115 words)

Can our relationship survive the distance and years apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So, there's this girl. She is almost seventeen, finishing high school, and I am 18 in first year engineering. We've been casual friends for close to 2 years now. Except 5 months ago, we somehow ended up in a relationship, and turns out, we really get along well and it has been ... (350 words)

I'm confused about my relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - [Mod-Note: Names have been changed for privacy] hi dear cupid, My problem is my friend, Paul. We're only friends not a boyfriend and girlfriend but he is ignoring me not by not responding in this side, no calls, no msgs and no e-mails ...Paul's mom likes me but I don't kno... (130 words)

Am I wrong for being jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating a guy we have been together for about 2 months now. we have yet to have sex. I've known him for over 10 years we used to hate each other and now we are in love... weird right? ok well tonight we were talking and i asked him when the last time he had sex was and he ... (184 words)

What are girl's erect penis shape fantasies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I Always wonder what erect penis shape makes girls more horny when they look at it (upward , downward or straight) ? and why? what shape of erect penis(upward , downward or straight) do you girls imagine in your fantaces? PLEASE answer I am starving to know that. ... (58 words)

I still have feelings for my ex but I need to move on!

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20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a LDR for 3 years and we were perfect for each other...I love him!! This exact time was when I saw him physically last I went to see him on the 20th and came home first week into february but when I left things changed and he became incredibly depressed and du... (341 words)

My boyfriend has developed a crush on his friend, should I breakup with him or give him time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My 19 year old (gay) boyfriend of 8 months is everything I could ask for; charming, sweet, kind, lovable. He has been nothing but devoted to me, plus we mean the world to each other. But today he confronted me with his beginning infatuation and flirtation with this 'friend' he ... (129 words)

Experimenting

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20 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am bi but I fancy girls. I am looking for someone who will help me experiment. What do I do I will get judged at school and bullied even more can you help me with either tips to experiment or with the bullying.... (46 words)

Can this kind of man turn on any kind of woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello women out there. Would it be true that any man within the average range of attractiveness, taking into account looks, clothing, job, education, etc, who is also totally comfortable in his own skin, has his own goals that he's heading toward without comparing himself to ... (99 words)

I was told he liked me, but he hasn't called or texted in 3 days!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I like this guy. His friend that I work with told me that the guy likes me too. I gave his friend my number to give to him... 3 days ago. The guy hasn't called or texted or anything - but his friend still insists that he likes me. Should I make a move myself, wait around, or ... (76 words)

Our first date didn't go so well, is there a possibility for redemption?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was set up with this guy by a mutual friend and right off the bat there were awkward silences. I don't know if it was because of me or him, but I just couldn't think of anything to get the conversation going and apparently neither could he. I'm not the shy, quiet type, but ... (161 words)

How can I make my G/f feel more special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I am going out with a girl who is very quiet, i thought it was low attraction at start but it was down to her personality. i think she really likes me alot, remembers everything i say, laughs at everything and always wants to text and meet when she can. Most of the time she ... (224 words)

Help! I'm obsessed with my boyfriend's ex girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend 6 months and he is the most amazing man Ive ever met. However I am completely obsessed with his ex girlfriend who he was with for 3 years. They broke up 2 years ago because he freaked out about committed pressure (marriage, babies) and slept wi... (167 words)

He's overprotective, and we both did stupid things at my party. Should we break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 and in year 9 my boyfriends 15 and is in year 10 hes called joel, anyway weve been together for about 3 1/2 months it seems like for ever because ever since we started doing stuff it just causes arguments. it feels like im on lock down i cant even talk to his friends or ... (272 words)

I just cant seem to like girls my age!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So in a weird flip of the coin i have recently started seeing older women. I am 24 and im seeing a lady who is 34 and another who is 42. i have fooled around with a lady who was 63 last week. i really dont know what it is. i find them attractive and without realizing it when it ... (244 words)

Ex broke it off because I wouldn't commit, when I finally say I will, she breaks it off and says her feelings changed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (M)

age - I had a long on/off relationship for several years,She broke it off because I wouldnt commit. When I was ready to commit she was with someone else. After 3 months we began talking and seeing each other again. we professed our love and I told her I would do anything to ... (191 words)

I'm a wall flower and everyone makes me feel weird about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

20 January 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I'm not very sociable, and I find it very hard to connect with new people, I often feel very uncomfortable around strangers (and even acquaintances) because I just don't know how to make or follow conversation. I usually feel very comfortable about this, but other people, ... (423 words)

I don't like oral sex but I love my g/f! Can this happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't like the taste of eating a girl out, but I am definitely a lesbian and incredibly in love with my girlfriend for 2 years. Can this happen?... (33 words)

I'm having a hard time dealing with my girlfriend's ex girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

20 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. I am 18, just so people don't think I am so some fifteen year old. Lol I am in a transgender/lesbian relationship (my girlfriend being the transgender, not that it matters Lol) I am having a hard time dealing with my girlfriend's ex girlfriend. Me and my girfriend,... (1642 words)