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Archived questions from: 8 January, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Please offer suggestions to help me please my wife in bed.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

8 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my wife for 9 years and in that time I have only been able to make her orgasm during sex a handful of times. She doesn't feel comfortable with oral (giving or receiving). I can make her cum by rubbing her clit, but she says that it gets really sens... (428 words)

I think we're exclusive, but I don't know how to ask.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for almost two months now and I am beginning to have feelings for him though I am still not sure whether we are a couple or not. I see him a few times a week and stay over with him at least once a week and txt each other everyday, to me it seems like ... (156 words)

I'm joining an expensive matchmaking service and need some encouragement!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age - My relationship with my youngest child's father has been on the rocks for some years and I kept trying. Xmas I made it clear I was not happy and now what to move on. I have not allowed him to use me sexually for months.(does not take me out, does not talk about future, never ... (343 words)

He was reading (possibly more) old explicit chats with his ex, should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months. He hasn't been with his ex for 2.5 years now. I have always felt that he still has feelings for her. Numerous things have happened to make me feel uneasy but the latest one really has me distrusting him. So BF likes porn, and ... (341 words)

I don't like men, but people want me to find one and get married!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - well, here is the thing. i know i am bisexual, more close to lesbian than straight, and i'm totally ok with myself. but from my family, my brother knows, my father might know(he might have seen me with a girl) and my mom is completely homophobic, plus she already judges ... (275 words)

What do boys look for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - What exactly do boys look for in girls?... (8 words)

Why do I always fall for girls online?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

8 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Every girl I've ever had a crush on for the past ten years, I've met online. It's not that I don't meet many girls in real life, I do; I just can't have the same conversations with them, they tend to be too "normal", or at least they try too hard to be. It seems very hard ... (254 words)

I've moved on , he hasnt... what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically my boyfriend and i have been together for several years on and off. He left for New Zealand in october and i was just starting my first year at university. I'm 18 hes 22, and he has been away for 4 months and he is back in 2 months. We were amazing before he left i ... (263 words)

Should I cook for a girl on Valentine's if we're not officially Bf/Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, Basically I know it's still quite a way from Valentine's day but i'm going to try and be organised for this :P I've been meeting up/dating(if you like) a girl for about 5 months now and we're basically going out together just without the label. We haven't ha... (259 words)

If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

8 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - If you were chilling with a guy and he looked at your breasts for any amount of time would you not want to date him? I wish I knew these sorts of things intuitively without having to ask people. I have been diagnosed with Asperger syndrome by at least one doctor but I fee... (136 words)

What should I do? I love showing my body on Cam to other guys but I already have a boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have an issue... I was just in chatroulette and pretty much showed myself half naked to some random people, and well.. i wonder if it's alright, i mean if it's a big deal.. if i should admit it, i actually love showing my body to others but the thing is that i already have a ... (372 words)

How do I go about getting to know her cousin without hurting her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry in advance its a bit of a ramble On new years My best friend, a friends and I went to our local comedy club as a few comedians were on. My best friend cousins were out aswell. After the show was over we stayed behind in the club and had a few drinks. I got talking to m... (294 words)

He treated me like his doormat! Should I meet up with him again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a huge emotional turmoil these days. I was in a serious relationship with this guy for almost a year and a half but soon things turned sour for the worse. We did LOVE each other A LOT. There was nothing left but fights and tears and most of the issues cropped up after ... (522 words)

He's touching me and he's my boss! what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boss' boss and I have had this weird thing going and I need help! We've already told each other our attraction but he wrote to me that he likes me but can't do anything because of marriage, job, etc. I'm married as well and he started touching me more after all this. I'm ... (71 words)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like to ask this question to those who have been involved in extra marital affairs. I have been involved with a man married man with whom I shared feelings with for quite some time. He often tells me and convinced me he loves me very much and he will bring it to his ... (149 words)

I've got 3 guys in my life! I'm confused any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in this love triangle thing if you could call it that.... Well i like this guy for the past 2 yrs but he just started dating my best friend and then there is this other guy that i have kinda started liking but he just stopped talking to me and i dont know why. Then there ... (93 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me! he's invited me for his birthday, should I go or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend finished with me today. I am so upset and to finish off he says to me, i'm still welcome to go to his 21st at the end of this month. Is this a good idea? all his family will be there as well. Any suggestion how I get over him or whether you think it is a good ide... (72 words)

Should I continue this relationship? he's very aggressive, easily angered!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4724 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 weeks and we've been through so much trouble already! A few days after we got together he was going on at me because I had cheated in my last relationship, well, it was a drunken snog that I severely regretted and afterwar... (274 words)

I'm soo confused, and I genuinely like this guy. So what am I to make of him for turning into a totally disrespectful drunk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Gonna try make this short but please someone help me here or give me some insight. I like this guy and we talk and text alot and always flirt...I stayed over at his flat on friday night (no sex) and we talked for hours and watched movies and we have alot in common and I do ... (575 words)

I don't feel aroused when he goes down on me! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are a sexually active couple, we have sex say about 2-3 times a week! the sex is great and everything, but the only problem is that i dont feel aroused when he goes down on me, neither do i orgasm when he does it too.. im not sure if he's doing it wrong or ... (76 words)

How do I tell my mom about my older boyfriend and long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4696 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so ive been seeing this guy for awhile now and i really like him (actually i think i might love him) but the problem is we met online. i know he isnt some 40 or 50 year old creeper because we skype, talk on the phone, and text everyday. So the thing is like i said we met ... (204 words)

How do I impress him? Why did he stop flirting with me? And what do boys look for in a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 15 and I like this boy. he is smart intelligent and cute. he isnt a boy people would put me with but there is something about him. However, he has had this girl he likes in my friendship group for a few years and i think he still does. He gives off the sense that he like... (212 words)

I'm leaving my abusive partner. How can I make this break without anymore arguing as I don't want to antagonise him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - What should i do with my abusive partner? My partner is in his early 40s, he has been abusive in the past and spent 8 weeks in the past in prison for punching me in the face. After a lot of soul searching i forgave him and resumed a relationship with him, we went on to have ano... (337 words)

Should I have sex with my first cousin?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

8 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - MOD NOTE: In some parts of the world this is a crime. Hi all, I'm a 25 year old male and I have a female cousin who is 23 (our mothers are sisters). We have grown up together since we were babies. We're both single adults now, and in the past few months I think my cousin... (187 words)

I don't know if this good looking guy likes me as a friend or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in love with a good looking guy. We have been friends for about 6 months now. i know he likes me because he sends me gifts and ask me what i want(he does everything to please me) but i don't know if he wants me just as friends or more than friends. i have fallen in love ... (83 words)

My debaucherous past is ruining my present

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a bit of a bad history in terms of getting myself into stupid situations and doing bad things (to myself not others). I have just rekindled an old friendship that I was really happy about as I am trying to move on from my more debaucherous lifestyle and get b... (316 words)

A really nice guy - does he want something more??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4327 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have a friend who is just super-nice to me and that is what is bothering me. He is just so nice. He's a friend, and we've been friends for about 2 years now and we met through mutual friends. A few months ago, he relocated near my area, and we see each other often. ... (266 words)

Unfaithful husband with problems. Should I keep trying to fix our marriage or just call it a lost cause?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 4 year with a beautiful son. I have found out my husband was having a affair with his ex friend's girlfriend and that he was using again. So christmas eve of 2010 he had broke up with me and for the past year we had argued about how he thought he had ... (224 words)

How do I help myself?. As I can't change him. Do alcoholics tend to avoid loved ones who are concerned about them and hang around with their "drinking buddies?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am positive my boyfriend is an alcoholic. I just put the pieces together and it all adds up every time he goes on these binges, I don't hear from him. I thought he didn't want me anymore but it wasn't that, I know he loves me. It is the drinking. I even remember when we... (449 words)

I feel as though she views me as Mr. Safety

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! I have read your responses to other questions and was wondering if you could help me. I am with a girl who is perfect for me and who makes me feel like nothing else on earth. Things are going great. We have okay sex not mind blowing but as you rightly state in other answers ... (385 words)

What is a tactful way to introduce people without looking like a match-maker?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I'm not sure if this is a problem or if I'm making a big deal out of nothing. I met a guy a few months ago via a social group that I joined when I moved. He was very warm, very kind, and later sent me a message from his personal email and that is how I know his surname and ... (367 words)

Gift of the Magi Gone Wrong

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, this is a sort of late question but I've been hesitating. I didn't want to resort to this website but here it goes. My boyfriend and I love the story The Gift of Magi. It's a short story about a young married couple that struggles with purchasing Christmas pre... (513 words)

Not really a relationship question, but is anyone else downright disgusted by feet?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Really weird question, but I was wondering if there was anyone else out there like me. I guess you could say it is sort of a relationship question if you tilt your head sideways and squint... But I have a horrible aversion to feet. I don't want anyone touching my feet... (176 words)

How do I make sense of this episode?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone please explain to me what just happened to me?? Theres this guy I like...he is 26 and im 21 (22 next week) and we get along amazingly. We flirt all the time through text and through an msn type chat and I sometimes see him at work and we talk there for ages a... (601 words)

14 and pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, im 14 and i think im pregnant, what do i do?... (12 words)

Girlfriend has a problem with being in contact. Will this be a problem down the road?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

8 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I am back. SO me and my girlfriend have been going out for 5 months and I love very much and she says she loves me and a believe it. However I cant figure something out. She seems to have a contact issue. I love giving massages and she doesn't seem to like it or wa... (343 words)

Ex has anger issues that has gone from me towards her children.What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My Ex was very physical with me at times. Her anger got the better of her and she couldn't manage it that well. She bottled things up until it exploded. I was okay with it as long as it was towards me and not the kids, at least this way she could vent. She threw things at me a ... (218 words)

A male virgin and a much younger and more experienced girl - potential humiliation or a great opportunity?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

8 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello! This isn't the first time I've asked a question that is in some way related to this topic, but I hope it will be the last! First, some important background information. Somehow I have managed to get to the grand old age of 27 while retaining my virginity. When I w... (819 words)

Is it wrong to be having a relationship with my 19 year old relative? HIs Mom is my half sister

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Im asking for help im 28 years old and im having sex with my 19 year old nepheew. Is that wrong. we both love each other every much. his mother is my half sister (like it makes a diffence) and she knows and she doesn't approve of it what should i do please help me figure i... (63 words)

We had sex and now his texting is spotty. I'm always left feeling insecure and ignored, should I pursue this guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so before I start this is a lot of back forth history before the real problem starts. This guy I just started dating suddenly has a communication failure. We had sex for the first time, I stayed the night he made breakfast nothing wierd. That night I texted him from work, he ... (290 words)

He says I need to trust him, but I am still jhealous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help!! I never thought of my self to be a jealous person i never realy have been that jealous over things before, but i get realy mad when my boyfriend talks to other girls especially if i think they're 'better' than me, im always checking his facebook to make sure ... (640 words)

All I know is heartbreak...should I tell her how I feel about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Heyy since I turned 15 all I've known is heartbreak, I'm 18 now and I have a friend who is currently helping me out a rather deep thing (I may be suffering depression) sounds rather silly for my age but it's true. She is to my mind the perfect woman where as I'm less than ... (126 words)

We had anal sex after vaginal sex...should I worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, i could really do with some advice... The other night I had unprotected anal sex with my partner and then vaginal straight afterwards. I know that is a no no but it was the heat of the moment; now I am worried that I could get an infection. I am worrying so much and I ha... (90 words)

Is it possible to profoundly hurt someone you care about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Can best friends hurt each other? Words of comfort, if you have any...? I don't really have the wisdom to answer this, but I can accept an honest answer. There is this friend that I love dearly, and he and I were like siblings, but recently he did something that h... (408 words)

Three months in and I'm conflicted. Should I stay in the relationship or end it?. I'm really lonely.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone I have been dating this guy for about 3 months and im kind of conflicted. Part of me wants the relationship to end but part of me thinks that I'm just being stupid. It's like I can't be satisfied. If the relationship continues, I'll continue being unsatisfi... (135 words)

I am not overly expressive... Is this something to be concerned about in my relationship with my guy? It does concern him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for over three (3) years. We are building a house together, and our lives are moving forward. He's 25, and sometimes he does feel a bit confused about his direction, career... But we talk about it. Last night, while making love... He would bare... (170 words)

I feel betrayed by my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i met my boyfriend of 8 months at my job when i started over two years ago. i was a bartender there and my (now) boyfriend would come in with his buddies for happy hour and that is how we met. unfortunately i had a very verbally abuse nasty boss who would insult and humil... (292 words)

My messy housemates aren't helping with the cockroach invasion!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I live with two messy lazy men. Recently they have begun to clean up around the kitchen a bit more, but they are still leaving dishes in the sink, crumbs on the counters and floors, and I'm still finding (and cleaning) sticky nasty spills off of the appliances and floors on ... (481 words)

I lack confidence due to my very think hair

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F) age 36-40 - This is not a relationship question per se. But it is about something that has really affected my self esteem. I'm 23 years old, female, and I have extremely thin hair. It's so thin, that my ponytail is only a bit thicker than my thumb (and I have really thin fingers/thumbs). ... (542 words)

I nearly told him how I felt, but there's one huge catch.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. There's this guy who I've liked on and off for the past two months or so. He recently broke up with his gf of a month. Since they broke up, he's been texting me and talking to me way more. He's initiated all but one of these convos. We also hung out at the mall for ... (185 words)

Why does my boyfriend's mum dislike me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

8 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almsot 2 years now, I'm 18 and he's 20. We both go to the same University (which is a 2 hour journey away from our parents) and we're planning on living together next year (but I'm scared of telling his mum). His dad really likes me... (356 words)