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How should I encourage him to ask me out?

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Question - (31 January 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2012)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I am interested in a considerably older coworker. He is usually pretty stoic with others, but he will tease and flirt with me often, get into my personal space, and initiate conversation with me pretty often.

Other coworkers have joked saying that he would be my Valentine this year and he seems to express interest through what I might take as jokes. Example, I burned myself and was wearing a bandage and he joked it must be a hickey, but when I made my own remark that I was making out with my flatiron, he responded he was jealous.

He is also very interested about any males he sees me talking to at work and keeps a very close eye on me (a guest in the restaurant we worked at even pointed that out to me). There was even an instance where he would go to lunch with me. I am indeed interested in him and would really like if he asked me out, and I do feel he is interested.

However, I want an outside perspective and find out what I can do for him to finally ask for my number at least.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012):

Well it certainly seems like this guy likes you. I would ask him to do something after work sometime, or go out with a group of friends if that is easier for you.

You could also just give him your number since you two talk so much at work and see what happens. Honestly though, I would just ask him out. I see no reason why he would say no. Good luck!!

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