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Archived questions from: 6 January, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Two women in my life...but neither make me completely happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - i'm in a horrible bind and i need some advice, please! i have been seeing this girl for a couple of months now, but not officially. we started off extremely slowly and have progressed to the point where she stays a handful of nights out of the week. but i've avoided putting ... (426 words)

Is he too intelligent for me? Should we break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok..this is nothing about sex or relationship problem its kinda a relationship problem and i hope someone can help me with this... im from tunisia and i live in holland.. my boyfriend is also from the same country but lives in france.. i know everything about the histor... (270 words)

Me and my boyfriend just can't seem to have sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i have tried to have sex twice with my boyfriend but every time, it really hurts and he makes me bleed. the first time we tried it, it didn't get very far in and i started bleeding. the second time which was two days ago he put it all the way in but it was hurting a lot so i ... (125 words)

Why does he talk about his ex all time????

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a guy for 4 months... were both in our 40's and have adult children from our previous marriages. His 24 old daughter is very demanding... he runs every time she wines about something... which is daily... she doesnt get along with her mother (his ex). It is ... (146 words)

How can I make new friends at my new school?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, Okay so I've just turned 16 and throughout high school I have been quite quiet and haven't really had many friends, at the start of high school I made a silly mistake by pretending I was someone I wasn't and not realizing people would dislike this person I wa... (283 words)

I love her, how can I help her get over her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - So i like [love] this girl who happens to be a best friend of mine. She knows it, and she is cool with it. But my problem is, she brokeup with her boyfriend one and a half years ago, and she still cant get over him. i always be by her side when ever she feels low. I show a l... (125 words)

Why are people extremely against abortion?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - abortion is accepted in society now, its not an illegal act and a majority of people worldwide have had it. i understand that there are extreme ethical and social issues, and dont get me wrong, i dont aprove it, i would hate to kill a precious life. however, some people a... (160 words)

Partner left a week ago says if we get together it will just happen all over again...I want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my partner have been together for 7 years and we have 2 young children together we are from diffarent places hes from england and i from scotland, we are both living in scotland with our kids, thing is for the past couple of months weve not been getting on but weve been ... (365 words)

Our kiss lasted 10 minutes but I haven't heard from him since. Should I wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 33yrs old female from South America...I met this guy..He is from Hong Kong (25 yrs). I never been dating or seeing an asian guy. We go out sometimes..we danced..we went to a dinner then he asked me if I want to be his partner in a dance classes that he is taking w... (249 words)

Can my LDR boyfriend have blocked me on msn by mistake?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age - I've been in a long distance relationship with a British man for eight years. Although our relationship is fantastic when we are together, I've caught him trying to cybercheat on me several times. He loves women's attention, and has several female friends he keeps ibn contact ... (234 words)

Do some women also have an overblown sense of entitlement when it comes to sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - People always say that men have an overblown sense of entitlement when it comes to sex. But I think some women can be like this too. I'm not trying to be sexist. I just think there are some situations where it's always the woman who "decides" when it's time to have sex, even if ... (68 words)

How do I forget my ex? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it take to forget someone who's impacted ur life. You hear a song and remember them. They live near ur work and u see them driving bye. But some part of u try's not to forget and even though u love two guys u know to stick with the one u have even though the other ... (176 words)

Is he worth pursuing or is it just a terrible idea?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid... So in November I met this guy and we started talking and hitting it off immediately. I thought he was so sweet (and still do) and we told each other everything. However... I was honest with him and told him that there was someone else I had been trying to get ov... (511 words)

He has two sides and I fear of the evil one! Do I ask him to leave?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My story is very complicated but I really need advice on what to do. I am 26 years old im about to start Grad School. I was raised in a very Christian home which I am proud of because of the values my parents set. The issue is Im Bi-Sexual and have been in a relationship ... (1326 words)

What are guys thoughts of shy girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey here is my question: what do guys feel of shy girls? cause i am really shy and i dont know how to act around guys :/ i could really use you help and advise... (38 words)

We were on a break but he withheld information. Do I have the right to be upset about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 12 years older than me, we were together for about a year and then on/off for another year, i.e. we didn't talk very often while I was away at university but would see each other, go to the movies etc whenever i was back home. Anyway, after being on/off for a ... (549 words)

He stopped contacting me. Could it be because of his girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey i need your help i have liked this guy for a while and we were at our yr ten formal a couple of mouths ago and he said i looked beautiful and through the night he said i was a cuttie and stuff and we huged heaps and toke photos.... then almost at the end of the night i f... (149 words)

I treat this guy like a king, but he is unorganized has not time for me and doesn't like anything I suggest to try to help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 43 year old divorced woman dating a 46 year old divorced man for a year. We have each been divorced for years. I've had 2 relationships before him. One with a man who was a jackass and treated me badly, but whom I loved so very much...I could only seem to focus on the ... (788 words)

Is it normal to feel angry after breaking up with a loser?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - About a month ago I broke up with my then-boyfriend. We had been together for a year and a half at that point (it was an online relationship), but he was not good for me for a number of reasons, most obviously because he is 31 years older than me. (I am 19.) I was very foolish ... (539 words)

Guys only like me as a friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have had one real boyfriend and he had brain prblems and i was thinking is there something wrong with me? am i the friend type? am i ugly or is there something wrong with me? cause every guy i have like has liked me as a friend :/ ... (49 words)

Were they dates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Just needing some clarification. I can't believe how hard it is to define a date. It's made especially hard because the boy I hung with had a girlfriend already. My definition of a date is an outing with romantic interest. Agree? Disagree? The 1st time we went out for t... (202 words)

My boyfriend's bestfriend and I hate each other

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having this huge problem lately, it's always the reason why my relationship with my lover is floating. okay so I've been with my bf for like 14 months, I really really love him. I'm possessive and all. about like half a year he started like being close buddies with ... (354 words)

"I'm Not Your Trophy Girl".

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been talking with this guy for the past 3 months. He wants me 2 Be HIS WOMAN.BUT i havent really said yes 2 him. THIS IS WHY... We Talk alot on the phone. I Told him im pretty much a"Jeans and T-Shirt " laid back kinda woman.He tells me if ur gona be with me u have 2 ... (233 words)

I want to be her friend, but I can feel this chemistry between us. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi peeps! Ok so I am slightly confused at the moment... I have become good friends with someone I work with I will call her X, so anyway we have done a few things together outside of work, we talk all the time on the phone. I have noticed recently that she touches me a lot... (242 words)

Feel like she is acting like a single, not us as a couple. Is my feeling valid and normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - We have been together for about 9.5 months. We are compatible with each other and intend to take the relationship to the next level when the time is right. There is this thing that keep bugging me and upsetting me a bit. I am 32 and she is 28. Both are fully employed. She ha... (385 words)

What is worse: His age difference or his lie?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My BF says he is 38, but i found out he is 45. And i'm 27. Should the lie or the big age difference bother me? Is it too much of a difference? We are planning to take the r/ship to the next level.... (46 words)

Are men in their early 40s usually uninterested in sex? He tells me some relationships don't need sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, do men in their early 40s go off sex?. My partner is 42 and our sex life is non exsistent. He says he is tired and that some relationships dont need sex, that you can be with someone and friendship is more important. I am 6 yrs younger than him and although agree its not ... (136 words)

He's not lovey-dovey, but do you think he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this guy I like and I think he likes me too...? He's not the lovey-dovey stuff but he tries to impress me, says silly things to keep the conversation going, he smiles at me a lot, he teases me...and he keeps on trying to get me to not like this celebrity I like (:P). I ... (88 words)

B/f isn't as highly sexed as me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for over 2 years. We have had a few tough times but have had some of the best times I have ever had. My problem is that he is not as highly sexed as me, I have known this from the start of our relashionship but I was so happy with the rest of it, he ... (160 words)

I can't get over the crush I have on my teacher!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17, and I know this is so stupid but I have the hugest crush on my teacher. I seriously get butterflies when I see him and we always greet each other. In class when I look at him, he'll look at me and give such a gorgeous half smile, and he'd make sure I'd be in his class ... (108 words)

Why does he choke me or restrain me during sex?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - The guy im having sex with will start to choke me or pin me down right before im going to orgasim. if i push his hand away from my neck or move away from his hold he will stop and hold back for a bit. then it starts all over again. he wont let me get off it seems unless i allow ... (87 words)

In love with an older fellow colleague. How do I find out if he is available and interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a resident doctor (1st year) as a general practitioner in Spain. I am not Spanish. In June, 1 month after starting work, my boss set up a 2 hour class on suture tecnique with a surgeon. Beside his amazing demonstrations, he happened to be very handsome. I quickly forgot ... (716 words)

Any suggestions on how to orgasm faster?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4678 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there, my problem is the opposite to many that you have probably seen- not sure if this is appropriate for this site, but anyway Im sure I'll be told if it isn't. I am a male in my 40's and would like to know whether anyone can recommend any techniques or products for org... (138 words)

My girlfriend rates guys and says whether she would date them or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a marine currently on deployment. I have a girlfriend back home and i just wanted an outside view on my situation so that i know im not thinking irrational or being too jealous. The thing is that ive noticed that lately my girlfriend has been trying to communicate with me ... (324 words)

Wife looses interest while having sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - my wife is behaving a bit strange. since last 3 months we are trying baby and now while having sex she doesnt enjoy it a bit. we tried many new things, having it in different places around the house, going away on weekend to stay overnight etc etc. but none worked, She just ... (173 words)

My girlfriend manipulates me into feeling guilty!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently broke up with my girlfriend. We seem to get into arguments that I believe are over small stupid things, but she doesn't see it that. I rarely stand up for myself, but after this last one I have just had enough. This is what happened: It was her birthday, I ... (649 words)

My ex wants us to have sex but it brings back feelings! Should I do this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I recently got back in connect with my ex and we've been meeting up and things are just like they used to be when we were together. He calls us "friends" yet he has asked me to take his virginity. But what he doesn't realise is that sex changes things and bring... (133 words)

I love him. Want to be with him. But how do I stop him from getting so mad at so much I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, My and my boyfriend have been togther for one year... And hes my life and i love him very much. But there has beeb such a big problem for a long time, he gets mad at almost everything i do, wearing the wrong cloths, even having lint on my shirt!!! He is... (166 words)

How can I stop making a fool of myself with this guy I had a fling with a while back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a gay guy fling back in 1997. At that time I didn't know what I wanted. But recently I got in touch with this guy through fb... I can't figure him out, he will not answer my texts nor take my phone calls. Yet he had the cheek to send two photos of himself, that wer... (100 words)

Are there any solutions? I cry all the time, and it just gets messy.. I don't want't to hurt any of them, I don't want to hurt either of them, nor "play games" with J

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17.. i dont have anyone i can really talk to and i know this post is long but PLEASE read it and give me some advice.. first I'll start off with, i am going off to university next year and i know many people have told me "oh just be single and have fun, blah blah blah".... (562 words)

She has some major issues. But my lack of trust does not help. How can I forgive AND trust her again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf recently broke my trust again and has a history of lieing to me about things i.e she once caught up with her ex bf and told me she was seeing friends. Recently i found out for months she had been in contact with a man only via email and telling each other that they lov... (306 words)

Our texting has faltered. Am I worried without good reason? He wants to wait until his surgery before he sees me again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been talking with a guy for a few week and he was calling and/or texting daily and then we had a little conversation about him not saying sexual things to me i told him it was a little innapropriate at this point and then he said he was hurt that i questioned his ... (193 words)

How can I get her back? I was wrong and called her nasty names. She left. Now I want to know how to repair the trust?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my girl and I feel terrible. I told her not to lie to me and she lied to me 3 months ago and I kicked her out of my house. After 4 days apart, we made up and the relationship was going beautifully again. She assured me she would never lie again. We love eac... (327 words)

My mom will not help. How old do I need to be to get birth control without a parents permission and without prescription?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I was just curious about how old i have to be to get birth control without a parents permission or without prescription. I'm 14 now, and i know i shouldn't be on it now, but it's not what you think. I have horrible cramps to the point that i stay home from school-and i never ... (109 words)

How do I know whether to trust and believe him? Surely it is not just sex between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay, so I have been in an emotionally, financially and physically abusive marriage with a man addicted to drugs. I am in college and should be graduating with my degree in just a few months. My intent has been to file for divorce once I am working and can support my thre... (289 words)

This new guy is different. I like him so much. But why can't I stop sexual texting and flirting with all the other guys, still?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

6 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together about a month now and I have started to really care about him but I dont want to hurt him. Before I met him I use to talk to a lot of other guys some I just flirted with but other I use to text sexual things, pics, and have phone sex one ... (230 words)