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writes:after getting into an argument with my crush because I guess I hurt and lied to her. she kind of went nasty. she said mean horrible things to me that day and said to never talk to her again. i still had feelings and tried talking and apologizing to her. i thought my attempts would somehow woo her back as i tried to show that i cared for her and that i was truly sorry. i also found out she said some mean, name calling words about me online. i wasn't sure to confront her about it or not but it bugged me so much. i told her i felt it was wrong and disrespectful for her to do that and how i felt it was a bit immature for her to go discussing me like that to friend and was even hurtful. in one of the lines she alluded to her friend that i was bothering her, and though i think i was fair, upfront and honest i told her she'd never have to worry about me bothering her again and that it would take some time shortly after she deleted her account and i am almost completely certain it was because of me and what i said to her.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 January 2012):
 Well it sounds to me like she was angry at you and therefore she was letting of steam. Although this is fair enough I do agree with you that it is wrong of her to be saying stuff about you over the internet it is not very fair. Obviously you done something to really upset her. To be honest I doubt she deleted her account my guess is that she just blocked you so you could no longer see that she exists. She is obviously very upset and you pushed her to far when trying to apologise. I think the best thing to do is to give her some time to cool down and think about things and then if she is really important to you then maybe try again.
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