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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I cant say the romantic things I want to say, and I freeze up when he says cute things!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend of over a year gets really romantic ... i freeze up... I can respond to sexual prompts fine... he talks dirty, I talk dirty, he comes on to me, I come on to him... But when he says or does something just really sweet... I just freeze up and get heat flashes... (189 words)

My neighbour fancies my sister and its annoying! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Well im living in an estate next to a English guy he is in his 4o's and has been living alone since for as long as i remember when he usually gets a girl she takes advantage of him . He is like a brother to me and my husband and does have a big big heart but its just ever since ... (429 words)

I think I love my best friend! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Well basically I have a boy issue. I think I love my best friend who I'm really close with but I always put our friendship first as we're so close and I've accepted that he may not feel the same way, however there is a bigger problem. The boys that my friends like seem to lik... (205 words)

I want to have a second baby but where's the potential dad?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Im nearly 30 and im desperate for another child! I have a 7 yr old daughter I was with her father 5 yrs! I met a man who I was totally madly inlove with and I would of loved for him to be the father of my child, but love is blind and this man was cheating lieing and a mental ... (222 words)

Going to his house to do oral...does he like me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi um recently I've been talking with this guy and he is in my science class. I've known him for two years now and were friends. Not close but were friends. And recently we've gotten much closer than ever. It started over Christmas break. He texted me and soon after a few days ... (364 words)

My teacher has helped me through a very hard time...but now I am developing a crush on him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

23 January 2012 (?) age 26-29 - Sorry in advance or the long post. :) This has been going on all school year, and I just don't know what to do. Here's the story: After summer I got a new English teacher because my old one retired. He's fresh out of teacher's university, and he is a really good teacher. He... (615 words)

Is she overreacting because I kissed two guys? Am I a slut?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - At 15 years of age, I am going through life experiencing new things everyday. Recently, I know im late, but i had my first official "kiss". The problem was that it was with my best friends brothers friend. She was mad at the situation, but eventually forgave me stating she ... (178 words)

Trying to gain confidence by understanding sexual experience but I feel lost

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Sex is very casual for some an almost everyday thing...something most are used to whereas Im not. So, by constantly getting action (vagina or otherwise) and then some idiot comes along with no or little experience, doesnt a woman think "I do this everyday and now someone doesnt ... (328 words)

He flirts with me but loves another! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this boy, he is amazing and i think i'm in love with him but the only trouble is he's in love with his ex yet he still leads me on and flirts with me, i really don't know what to do...... (43 words)

I have obsessive thoughts of him..fancying someone else. How do I stop doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help I am wrecking my relationship with these obsessive thoughts about him fancying someone else... It can sometimes make me start fights. If I know he works with someone pretty i imagine him thinking about her while we make love, and if he is staring into space I thi... (183 words)

Why would he email me after 3 months of no contact? Should I reply with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why would he email me after 3months of no contact? should I reply with this? ? I loved my ex boyfriend so much. Thought he was the one. But he dumped me saying he didn't want a relationship then I found out he was cheating all along. He wanted us to be friends, I gave ... (217 words)

I met her on FaceBook and found that I love her. But she doesn't want a bf!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I know her only on fb. even though she gave me her no, I have never talk to her on phone thats cause she live is USA and I live is South Africa but her Origin is in South Africa, anyways we were best friend on facebook, one day I faced problem then she helped me with a ... (136 words)

Questions about a large life insurance policy! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of two years was thinking about Marriage and he wants to set up an insurance policy of one million on my name so that he said, that if he pass away (God forbid) I will have money to start with. Should I agree with this? That this kind of insurance policy works ... (142 words)

I like him but he loves her. So why aren't they just together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been having a "thing" with this guy. He's handsome (very), exceptionally intelligent, hard working, athletic, kind, thoughtfully, assertive, etc. I'm not the only girl to be drawn in by all these positive characteristics, and I doubt I'll be the last. I have a stron... (303 words)

He treats me better than his girlfriend and it's getting touchy! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Major problem.... im 18 and i live with my best friends (which are together and he is my ex, first love) Anyways now that we are together alot hes treating me btr than he does her and its also getting very touchy and some of the stuff he says is sooo outta line and i know when ... (85 words)

What should I think about the way he acts around this woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Basically my boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and one weekend I went to visit him, On the weekend we went out with his college friends and one of them named John bought his fiancee Anna with him. At the meal my boyfriend focused a lot of his attention on Anna ... (262 words)

She wants me to have sex with someone else before we get married. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

23 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I’ll try to keep this as short as possible. It all started with “what would you do if..” questions. A few questions in, it was my turn: Me: “What’s the first thing you’d do if we broke up?” Her: “Hmm.. More girl’s nights! What’s the first thing you’d do if we broke up?” ... (874 words)

Wife scared of attraction to other man, how do I help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Good Afternoon, I could really use some assistance from the "experts" out there. My wife and I are each others first. July of this year we will have been together for 10 years, and married for 6. We have an amazing year and a half old child. She works an hour and... (893 words)

I saw him kiss her on the lips, am I wrong to bring it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have a question recently I saw my boyfriend getting too warm and giving kisses on lips to his freinds wife in front of everyone it looked everyone was okay but I found it uncomfortable. I am an Indian so is my boyfriend and I am eleven years younger to him while the ... (149 words)

I want to watch porn with him, but can't get comfortable enough!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I used to be dead set against porn when me and my partner first got together. That was 7 years ago. Now that I have grown up and gotten older, I realize it is not so bad, and that I actually enjoy it. i dont obsess over the peopl in the movies, Its just used as an aid for ... (188 words)

My body isn't the same after having a baby...so my bf's porn watching bothers me... a lot! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years we have a two year old daughter and we live together. I caught him watching porn the other night while i was supposed to be napping. I approached him and he lied to my face when i could see it on the screen. It upset me ... (356 words)

Not sure that what I do feel for him is love anymore and I feel suffocated in this relationship. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years. When I met him I was 15 and he was 19. He was amazing, everything I could ever wish for and more, he treated me like a real princess, he gave everything to me. The only downside was that I was his first girlfriend... (295 words)

I don't feel loved by him...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - we have been together for almost a year and he tells me everyday that he loves me, he just does not show it. I tried telling him how I feel, then it will change for a few days and then return to the not feeling loved again. He get's upset easy and then sometimes says things ... (183 words)

Will he ever get his problems sorted out? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age - My fiance and i split totally a few weeks ago after 3 mths of it being rocky due to his controlling and possesiveness over me,we have been together almost 4 yrs but known him 18yrs....He says now that he is a new guy and the person he was or 3 mths is now gone and hes back to ... (280 words)

Relationships, cheating, possessiveness. Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (?) age 30-35 - Hi. I recently posted in "I cheated and he just won't stop bringing it up!! Advice pls?" Anyway... off that topic now... here's a new one: Possessiveness... My boyfriend (he's 21) of whom I have been with for 6 months, not only brings up everything I (I'm 18... (384 words)

How do I keep things casual in a message?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I sent a message to this guy that i like on friday night on facebook asking if he'd like me to go to his place the next day. he sent me a message back today saying " i can't believe this !. i only use the internet on weekdays, 9-5 ". I'm guessing he uses it at work. I was ... (97 words)

I want to stop obsessing over my husband's female friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like to stop obsessing over my husbands friend that I have mentioned in other postings. I don't want this to be an issue anymore. I just really do not like her or think she is good for our family. Please, anyone, any suggestions????... (48 words)

My partner ended things but just the day before we talked about out future?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - please can you help me, i have just found out my partner is on a forces penpal site. We have been together 3 years and lived together for 1 year, a friend of mine saw him on there and it says he is single, i asked him why he is on there and he said its a ego boost for him, i ... (125 words)

I want to be my husband's best friend. How can I do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have not been a good friend to my husband for the past 12 years and so because of that he feels he cant trust me as a friend and is afraid to tell me things because i haven't been a good listener and would take it personally and criticize and make him feel bad. I believe ... (177 words)

What is this married woman REALLY saying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when a married woman says that she answers more to me than her husband that doesn't talk much?... (22 words)

I haven't kissed a guy in over a year and a half!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! So basically it has just occurred to me that I haven't kissed a guy in over a year and a half. Being 20 years old I feel I should have had a bit of luck in love by now... but I've had nothing, not even a proper date. I think this is all partly to do with me. I am a shy ... (144 words)

I don't want to be stuck in a position where I'm not free to leave!

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23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okayy well i was just wondering if anyone can give me some advice on my relationship. Okay. well we have only been officially together for 3-4 weeks, but we have been unofficially together for around 5 months, i need to know if I've just got cold feet or weather i should w... (745 words)

Is there any hope left for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts and uncles. Could really do with some words of wisdom or advice on how to feel better. Or brutal honestly haha! I'm turning 31 in one week and I'm dreading it! I'm still single, I still live with my mates in a house share I have no money, own nothing and earn... (733 words)

Am I right in wanting more time?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

23 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my gf for 10 months now and it has now become apparent that she wants me to decide pretty shortly if I want it to be a lifelong commitment ie marriage and kids. Or not = end of relationship. We have lived together for around 6 months (at her house) and have ... (268 words)

Matters down under!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was wondering how most women have their pubic hair, i guess? Just because idk if a guy will be freaked out if I have hair down there, or if it's normal too. If you don't have hair down there, how do you remove it? What do guys prefer? Is having pubic hair healthier for a ... (57 words)

How can I relax during oral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend loves to give me oral but I have a really hard time relaxing so that I can climax. How do I relax my body so I can reach a orgasm?... (32 words)

Will I have to wait around all my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I am 20 and I have been seeing this man (35) for two years. I know I care for him and though I realize that something like marriage cannot happen right now (I want to finish school and be settled in my career first) I wanted to at least know that it might be ... (212 words)

Weighty issues here!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll make this as short as I can, but please read.. My boyfriend is overweight; his last relationship was not a happy one, and he's said that due to the unhappiness he had been overeating and had gained some weight. However he said that he was wanting to lose weight, and... (491 words)

Is he a player?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. Recently I got chatting with a guy on facebook who 's friends with some of my friends. We got on well, made each other laugh, and so after about 2 days of this he invited me for a drink, which also went really well. Fast forward 2 weeks, I've been staying round his a ... (254 words)

Should I be upset and jealous over his remarks??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was watching TV with my boyfriend and Faith Hill came on for a moment. This is what he said.... "Mmmm Faith Hill is a scrumptious treat. I want to eat her up. She is sooooooo fucking hot!!!" I got upset and we had a huge argument about it. He told me of course he wante... (194 words)

How do I get over my boredom with life??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Wondering if anyone can provide some advice/suggestions on this. I'm happily in a relationship but I feel like things keep drifting along in life at the moment. There's a heap of exciting plans for the next couple years (wedding date is set, start trying for kids) but they w... (269 words)

How do I build my self-esteem and move on??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4717 days ago

23 January 2012 (F) age 36-40 - I have a huge crush on one of my male friends. When I met him I thought he was attractive, but nothing else. he also showed some interest in me, but nothing major. Then he met one of my friends, and forgot all about me. I mean, we stayed friends, but that was that. My girl ... (491 words)

Can this relationship really work out for us??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A little over a year ago, I met a guy online. To this day we have never met. We talked a lot, and things got serious, he asked me out, and I said yes. I really really love him, he's 95% what my dream guy would be if I could make one from scratch. We talk every single day for ... (767 words)

He says he loves me, but is dating my friend, why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am admitingly in love with my best friend, who I've known since I was twelve, so for about six years. He's told me he's loved me in a dating sort of manner for the last year or so, but he started dating one of my friends just a couple of weeks ago. We've been getting into on ... (95 words)

How do I deal with my bf's "step aunt?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a step dad, who has a step sister which makes her his 'step aunt' in a way. She's a year younger than him and ever since I first met her things seemed fishy. They used to stare at each other across the room at family parties. She's always really flirty with him ... (388 words)

He was interested, now he doesn't respond, what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy while away in another country and we spent lots of time together. He insisted we exchange phone numbers so we can keep in touch and see each other again. He said he wanted to come visit me for Valentines Day. He gave me his number and told me to text him when I made ... (161 words)

What should I do after she has cheated, now wants me to wait for her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

23 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi im new here..and i got nowhere to go except to come here to look for answer..i am a singaporean and my ex was indonesian chinese. we have a long dist. relationship which i will frequently travel to indon for every 2 to 3 months. i and my ex gf been togather for 8 m... (1327 words)

LDR advice please?. Because I need it. He's stressed out over his exams. He's not giving me the attention I need. He thinks it's not big deal..

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So my boyfriend and I have been together going on two years, we're pretty serious about each other and are planning on moving in together after I finish my Foundation degree next year. We're both 18 and we've been in a long distance relationship for four months as he's move... (660 words)

I thought he was the "one". Apparently not. So why does he still want to meet? Will I ever get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

23 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why am I still hurting after so many months? is this normal? ? My ex boyfriend and I broke up 10months ago. He said he didn't want a relationship anymore. But then I found out he was cheating on me when we were together. I loved him so much, I finally thought I found ... (242 words)