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And encounter with my ex Fiance. And got on well. How should I play this, and what should my next step be?

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Question - (31 January 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 February 2012)
A male United States age 36-40, *aydilla11 writes:

weirdest thing happened to me today, i got a text message from my ex-fiance and she said i emailed her from an old email account i do not use anymore. she said she is texting me because she doesn't want her work computer to get a virus...

i said ok im sorry she got that email and i apologized and would close the account, but after that i asked her how she was and hope everything is good, to my surprise she opened up and we caught up for a few minutes and laughed a little..

i had to go back to work and said if she needs anything or ever wants to keep in touch you know the number.. then she replied she is always here for me and likewise keep in touch.

my question is im kind of confused its been a long time how should i play this, and what should my next step be? and what do you think her intentions are? i hope you guys can clear it up for me a little bit more you dear cupiders are great at that thanks hope to hear from you guys soon.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (1 February 2012):

tennisstar88 agony auntI agree using the virus was an excuse to talk to you more personally (thru text).

Who cares if their work computer gets a virus?? That's what the IT guys are for!!

Anyways, it could be numerous things...She could be single at the moment looking for some action or perhaps she didn't want to burn that bridge with you.

If you're single at the moment, then play it however you want. BUT tread carefully, and don't expect engagement #2 to come of this.

I'd give it a few weeks, just to see if she texts you again (us women can't resist) and then text her to "catch up again".

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A female reader, Eyespy17 United States +, writes (31 January 2012):

The virus thing is a total excuse to get in touch with you. But it could just be nosy curiosity and nothing more .

Who broke up with who? Do you still have mutual friends or would this har been the only way of her getting in touch with you. How many years has it been since the breakup?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2012):

This email from an old account sounds a bit strange to me. I suspect it was an excuse to get in touch. It may just have been curiosity, wondering how you are. So take it easy. Are you over her? If you are then do nothing more. Otherwise, be wary as her intentions may not be anything other than friendliness. Suggest a coffee to catch up - then you may get the feel of what's happening.

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