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Archived questions from: 30 January, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Meeting a guy I've only talked to online soon, any tips on how to be less shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been talking to this boy online who is the same age as me (16) and he is good friends with my best friend. He wants to meet up in a few weeks, but i'm so shy around new people and never know what to say or how to start conversations and always make it awkward. Any ti... (63 words)

Should I Travel Other Places in a LDR?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - If you are in a Long Distance Relationship, should you travel anywhere unless it's to see your partner? I am having a difficult time and need some advice. I have a LD BF and we are new to the LDR. He moved away for school in September and I made a trip out to visit him late ... (644 words)

I think he likes me, but I don't want to date yet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. Long story short, my best friends friend has started talking to me, at first it was just day to day friendly chat but now he's starting to flirt and wants to take me out for valentines day. I dont want a boyfriend yet, but i dont know if he's just flirting or actually... (94 words)

Eight months pregnant with twins, but should I break up or make up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her C cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and when he met me he had trust is... (401 words)

I'm tired of always being the second place girl, the rebound!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 18yrs old and I fell for a man who is 30 yrs old. He is dating his girlfriend for 6 yrs, and i was told he broke up with her two months before he started seeing me. but then i found out, he lied to me and her and everyone he knew about the situation. they were never ... (768 words)

How do I tell my parents I'm going to date the boy who used to bully me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i like this guy, and i am going to try it out with him. except a month ago this boy was bullying me only because he was with this new girl who did not like me, he was only doing it cause he was under peer pressure. he has loved me for like a year now, and he is really... (134 words)

I'm eight months pregnant and the baby's father is incommunicado.

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I need some advice please, I'm 35 weeks pregnant and the baby's father hasn't been in contact with me since we split up 3 month ago. I've tried ringing him and have had no answer to my calls or texts. Its like he isn't interested, and I hear he has a new girlfriend which ... (81 words)

Which plans should I cancel; those with my mum or my date?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What should i do? It's my mum's birthday tomorrow, and we are supposed to be going shopping in the afternoon, and the cinema at night, but this guy i am dating said he wants to meet tomorrow too. Should i go to the cinema with my mum in the afternoon instead, and forget a... (100 words)

Is he sincere about being okay with 'friends without benefits'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy said he wanted to be fwb, but when i told him that i'm not comfortable with that, he said he is ok with being just friends (without the benefits). Do you think he's just pretending that he's ok with that though, and that he'll still keep trying to get me to have sex... (79 words)

Three times I have declined my boyfriend's request for an open relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for roughly 10 months. A while ago, maybe 4 or 5 months ago, he brought up the subject of an open relationship. This isn't something that I feel comfortable with, which I expressed to him. He brought it up again a little while ... (277 words)

My boyfriend is angry with me for wanting to go on a diet

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been thinking about going on celebrity slim diet, my friend went on it and she lost loads of weight, so i asked her about it, and she mentioned it to my boyfriend at work and he went mad at me.. Its nice to know he likes me how i am, but this is about me, right? im a size ... (83 words)

Is there a future with this married woman or am I just a fling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Greetings Aunts! I am in a place I never expected to be, which is that I am involved with a married woman and have been for almost three years now. She is in my class at grad school. The way that our school works, the grad students matriculate as a cohort, which ... (1005 words)

Is this relationship worth salvaging or should I just walk away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I met my girlfriend 3 years ago in college and we started living together within six months of dating. I believe we moved way too fast with this relationship and thus we didn’t get to really know each other. The result of our moving too fast is that she often threatens to lea... (179 words)

Is it appropriate to invite this new woman out on Valentine's Day or should that be reserved for couples?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Long story short, I've known this girl for about a month. In that time, we've seen each other nearly every weekend when we go out with our mutual friends. I get the vibe that she likes me, and I think I'm starting to reciprocate those feelings. Its nice to be able to open up ... (168 words)

Any suggestions on how to whiten badly discoloured teeth?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate my smile. I dont naturally smile with my teeth anyway, but if I laugh you can see them. My face looks horrible when I smile/laugh but looks fine when I haven't got any expression. My teeth are horrible, they are yellow and discoloured, my enamel is very worn and my... (187 words)

My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and it didnt work. Forget about him a... (232 words)

My husband accused me of cheating and won't allow me to leave the house

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - i am deeply in love with my husband but he doesn't trust me. he treat me like a cheat and calls me a liar. i can't even go and visit my mum for just a few minutes. i am in my mum's house now, he will send call back or call me to come home. i don't know how i can make him trus... (78 words)

Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to finding crap from his past.. ... (232 words)

Circumcized or uncircumsized? Which do females prefer?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I want to know if girls like penis uncircumcised or cirmcumcised? I'm french and in my country we are all uncut. It's about religion and culture, what is it in your country (well about muslim and jew I know) but for others country pls let me know. Is it because of the o... (62 words)

Insecure in this LDR

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a long distance relationship for about 2 months. My boyfriend went away a month ago to study at university,so we only spent the last month together. Since he's been gone we have communication and trust problems as i don't feel i can trust him and day by day we grow ... (164 words)

I can't get past his cheating ways..what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi am miss caribbean. I am in a relationship over eight Years and I hate the way my boyfriend treats me. he cheat on me for two years and I stayed with him but I can't get over it. it hurts what should I do it makes me cry in the nite his family keeps lieing for him when his ... (106 words)

My gf is really 21 but looks 14!! Is it wrong to date her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 29 girlfriend is 21 but she looks about 13 or 14. is it wrong to be going out with her?... (22 words)

Is there really a 'generic' cheaper Viagra or like name brand men can buy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Is there really a generic Viagra or like name brand men can buy? Does anyone in the U.S. know of a tried and true ID pill that really works...not the fake stuff that claims to grow your penis. We have been dealing with ID for over a year now, and Viagra seems to work the... (104 words)

Asked her out on a 2nd date by text and there was no reply! Feeling a bit awkward, so how do I deal with this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I went on a date with a girl from work. I liked her and I text her the day after asking for a second date. I have recieved no reply over a week later. I can take this and i know it happens. the problem is that im likely to see her at work. we work in different buildings b... (197 words)

Which woman do I pick? My long term gf or the new woman, I feel sexually attracted to?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im 32 im a gay woman and been with my girlfriend over a year. dont live together yet but we are engaged. thing is we had some ups and downs and i just no longer fancy her and lost my sex drive months ago. i love her so much and enjoy her company but its a best friends type ... (246 words)

My boyfriend is beginning to think I am not attracted to him, anymore! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a high sex drive and i dont, which makes it hard to want sex as often as he does. Im an very emotionally and physically attracted to him, but somedays i just dont feel like having sex, as to him he wants to have sex at least once or twice a day. When we dont ... (162 words)

He seemed interested and then did a complete 360! What happened here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I went to our employee christmas party,it was employees only so we were all sorta hanging and mingling with each other,well after a few drinks I was feeling rather comfortable with a coworker guy friend of mine. he and I actually flirted with each other at work for the past 2 ... (388 words)

Are all FWB relationships conducted, in this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone this question is for people who are in a fwb arrangement. how well do they treat you. I am in one. have been for 11 months now. he never comes round apart from the obvious when he is horny. he is not speaking to me at the moment because he got drunk at the weekend ... (221 words)

Why do some women want to control their ex boyfriends life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Simple Question: Why do women control or want to control their ex boyfriends? even after several years ,and several new relationships. Ex. I have a friend who remains friends with some and/or still contact ALL their ex's, but completely gets mad and flips out if they t... (199 words)

The affection in our relationship has eroded. Should I stay or leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am so sad because when I first was with him we were having sex almost daily now 3 years later it is almost extinct and we have a 3 year old son together. We are bored and sit home all the time and watch tv in seperate rooms and we don't like being next to each other anymore ... (141 words)

The dating game and its manoeuvres! What next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I was just wondering that how early on in the dating game can one broach the "intentions". I've been out of the dating game for years and at the moment I'm only looking for a serious long term relationship. I'm 30 something and so I want to make it clear to my date and early ... (165 words)

My boyfriend's fickle-mindedness is really bothering me!

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30 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I lived together for 1 year after we met and have had a LDR for the past year because of his job. He can't seem to decide on a plan for the future so we can work towards it and it is getting really frustrating and hard for me to take although I love him and ... (312 words)

How do I tackle my loneliness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - This question/rant starts off with a bit of humor, as I moved to a new apt after selling my late-mother's estate and at the bottom of a box of items from the attic that came with me, I found an unopened box of Trojan condoms with a receit dating from the Clinton administration. ... (380 words)

I want my ex to take me back again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I dated this girl for 4 months and I was really in love with her, we went back and forth a few times, we had our problems, we got into fights, i would get really jealous about other guys and her (turned out i had nothing to worry about atleast on her side of things),and she ... (190 words)

Talking to mom about the girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So for 2 and a half months, almost three I've had a girlfriend and I really like her. The problem is that I don't know how to tell my mom about her. Every time I try to talk to her about it my neck gets hot, my body goes numb and I start to hyperventilate. Please no rude or ... (67 words)

Exit strategy please

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have got involved with a woman, from my karate club, then i thougt something was going on with her and my instructor, she denied it. As time moved on i felt there was something, eventually she broke down saying there was but he had been threatening her to stay with him. I ... (174 words)

I'm afraid to tell my b/f I have chlamydia!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out I have chlamydia and I'm so afraid to tell my boyfriend! I had unprotected sex before him and I got together. I shouldve gotten checked before sleeping with him but I didn't. I'm so scared he's going to leave me! This is the hardest thing I've ever had to deal ... (60 words)

Sometimes I cant stand my boyfriend and he hasn't done anything wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I dont know how to feel about my boyfriend/relationship. Im usually not a indecisive person. Its still a very new relationship. We met on Halloween 2011, and made it official on November 10th 2011. Before I met my current bf, I had not dated anyone for a ... (204 words)

A cycle 18 days long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys,Is it normal to have an eighteen day menstrual cycle?Its January and i am having my second period this month.Thanks!... (21 words)

Can it work with an ex the 2nd time around?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to date an ex and have it work out the second time and lead to marriage? My ex who broke my heart 5 months ago is back and wants a second chance. He says he loves me and i never stopped loving him. We dated 8 months and broke up when he started pulling away and... (96 words)

Should I tell my boyfriend about my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 17, was sexually abused by my last boyfriend, and am in a new relationship. I am hoping that it isnt a huge surprise that the last relationship still affects me, mainly in bad ways. recently i have been having more nightmares, some involving me cheating on my current ... (164 words)

I don't find others interesting and therefore can't get into relationships with people

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - SUMMARY: I am depressed because I am lonely because I have no interests and therefore nothing to talk to others about to connect with them. Hi guys. Im feeling kind of depressed and have felt so off and on for a couple of years now. I think the reason I am so depressed is ... (243 words)

My bisexual girlfriend wanted to have a threesome, but the way she worded it makes me feel bad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend told me she fancied a girl we met, and suggested we hit on her together and potentially have a threesome. I said I wasn't interested at the moment, but the issue has been bothering me a lot since. The girl in question was seriously hot, and my girlfriend had been ... (532 words)

My little brother has aspergers and hurts me when he gets mad. How do I get my parents to believe me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - my younger brothr is 9 years old and he makes me want to stab myself or him!!! the reason for this is that he has a type of autism called aspergers. all the time i have to hear "just ignore what hes saying" or "its only the aspergers" and even "shutup (my name)! im tryin to ... (381 words)

Am I Bi or a Sicko? :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guy's my name is Dan and i am 20 years old please don't judge. I have been very worried recently over the type of porn i used to watch as a teen 13 - 19(not sure when i actually started) I used to watch normal hetrosexual porn (not for long) then discovered gay p... (634 words)

Was she telling me the truth or just brushing me off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I dated a girl in November we went out a few times and spent a few days staying at my place. Things went really well and we slept together a few times. It was quite intense from the start. We haven't seen each other since the start of December as she's in another town. ... (217 words)

We exchanged numbers so who goes first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

30 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd rather guys opinion on this, but girls would also benefit. When a girl meets a guy on a night out and they exchange numbers, but neither of you said you will text each other. And it's been a few days later they haven't texted you, would you text them instead? Because o... (307 words)