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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He treats me well but my parents don't think he's wealthy enough. Should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya :) Hope you can help me. I will try and keep things brief! I am 31 and have had 3 relationships, only to which they have used me and treated me badly. My parents however loved one as they thought he was financially stable for me and could give me everything. I coul... (275 words)

Want to talk to my old girl, but not sure what to say, any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Today, I went back to my old school which is quite close to meet some friends. During that time, I saw the girl I used to love a lot and we did stare at each other for less than a second. So far, I haven't forgotten her and wanted to find a chance to talk to her (normal ... (142 words)

I dyed my hair bright red, what do you think people think, when the see my hair?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi. I am a teenager and like most teenagers I want to express myself. I dyed my hair bright red, and when I say bright red, I mean BRIGHT red; I love it! I am usually a shy and quiet person, and listen to my mother and teachers, im not a goody two shoes, I just dont see the ... (159 words)

The sexual stimulation has changed, do you have any answers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I'm currently in a relationship with my partner and have been for the past 2 years and usually our sex life is mind blowing. He's not massive in the trouser department i'd say he's about 5/6inches but he sure knows how to use it. Anyway only recently ive been having a... (130 words)

What he is doing is confusing to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - This is really frustrating for me; there's a guy I know and for the first time in the 3.5 months I've known him, he called me his friend (3 times) and even called his employer for me to check an interview requirement. He's 18, I'm 17, but a 20yo girl (used to be his best ... (572 words)

What is my boyfriend's friend up to, when he does these things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been with my boyfriend 7 months now. Im 17, he's 18. We attend different schools but in the same district. He's fairly popular, lots of friends, parties and what not. And i tend to hang out with people from his school more than mine. But usually always with him. I met one ... (392 words)

What do you think I should do when I see him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I'm a twenty year old girl and i am a virgin. I have never had a boyfriend in my life, just hookups. Beacuse of my problems with attachment. I find it very hard to connect with people especially guys. But you cant really tell by how i look. I look rather good and can get ... (481 words)

How does one deal with marriage issues, where the other person thinks everything is fine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - How do you deal with marriage issues when the other party thinks everything is fine, in the sense they are devoted to the children and don't really care about the husband-wife dynamic.... (32 words)

How do I ask her out without sounding pushy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (M)

age - I was recently put in touch with an old female school friend I havent seen in 20 years, I ran into her at a restaurant a few months ago and I heard she was seperated, I requested her as a FB friend and we shared a few comments back and forth, How do I ask her out without soun... (70 words)

Have you ever had a crush on your partner's friend??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4720 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This is more of an interesting question really, just want to hear some stories... Have you ever had a crush on your partners friend?? I only ask as i'm sure this has happened to a lot of people, including me. Everytime i see my bf's best friend, i can't help but think h... (81 words)

A Good News Story!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Having been a member of this website for quite a while now, I've found it genuinely heart warming and pleasing when someone who has asked for advice comes back with a happy ending. So I thought I'd do the same in the hope it might brighten up the days of the peop... (522 words)

Should I warn my boyfriend about how different I look?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I haven't seen my boyfriend in several months. Over that time, I've been sick and have lost a lot of weight. I have always been slender, but this is a noticeable difference from last time since my family and friends have been commenting and saying somewhat hurtful things a... (108 words)

An affair with married man who gets caught but still wants affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I already know what people will say about my relationship with the married man I am seeing. I feel bad and have ended it more than 4 times now but he keeps wanting me back. Here is my story. I have known this man since we were kids and dated in high school. We broke up, and in ... (367 words)

Does the fact that I feel nothing for him now mean I never loved him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I feel the way I do? Is this normal? I loved my ex boyfriend so much but he cheated, lied to me and dumped me. I was so hurt, I was crazy about him and now I've lost interest in dating and love altogether. He wanted us to stay friends but I've told him... (145 words)

How can I stop myself from breaking down about him with someone else? Why do I feel like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I’m stuck between a rock and a hard place and I need some unbiased clarity since my head is so foggy over everything that’s happened. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 ½ years now. In the last year, things have been very rocky in that he started lying about going out to the... (324 words)

I am in a serious relationship with a man I love and can't get enough of, and I am starting to fall for my friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years now. I am happy and complete and we are planning a life of marriage and kids. Things are perfect between us. He still gives me butterflies everytime I see him. We have an incredible relationship. A couple weeks ago I met ... (158 words)

Should I tell the truth about having sex with my exboyfriend before or after marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hii... i had sex with my ex bf...that was just the biggest mistake in my life... now im worried about my future relationships when i get married...is it right to tell the truth before mariage or after marriage?... (38 words)

Why is he all over me in public?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well ive been seeing this guy for almost six months and i dont mind pda but lately its gotten really bad between us he doesnt care where we are or whos around and hes not that bad when we are alone so why is he all over me in public? ... (51 words)

If he went for counseling I'm sure we could get back on track. But as he won't go, do I go no contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age - can we survive this.... Trying to keep this brief,in 2008 i started dating a man i had known then for 15yrs,we had 3 very happy years together then in Jan 2011 he moved into my home....he tried to take over,change everythig i had done in the 9 yrs i had lived there with my 3 ... (367 words)

Is it considered cheating if I went out one to one with a guy even though I'm attached?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I would like to ask if it's considered cheating if I went out one to one with a guy even though I'm attached. For the record, the guy knows I'm attached and my bf also knew that I was going out with that guy and he was totally fine with it. Things are completely ... (76 words)

How can I actually get over him because I love him but he doesn't?

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17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - There was this friend of mine who was just seeking fun and he was not even interested in a serious relationship. I stopped talking to him but now it seems that I love him a lot and my feelings are true. I wish to call him but I know he will not respond. He does not even want it ... (95 words)

Out of the dating scene for 20 years. Women want me to text?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I was married for a long time and just now came back onto the dating scene. One new thing to me is texting. Texting itself is not new to me, but texting in the context of dating is. Back in the day, you asked a woman for her number and if you got it then you used i... (205 words)

We are poison together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married to my husband for 7years, it was love at first sight for both us.- the dilemma we face is we are poison together. We both use drugs I've been doing them from the loliness that I've been feeling. By numbing them, how and when are we gonna come out of this ... (56 words)

I think I'm in love but he hasn't called me in a week

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4661 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is my problem. I think that I am in love. This makes absolutely no sense. Here is my story... I was in his class, he was my professor, I his student. There was some sexual comments made but never to the extent where someone would report it, the chemistry was phenomenal. ... (490 words)

I just don't seem to be monogamous. Is this a problem that needs therapy or am I fine, with a different preference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm 27 years old and I'm beginning to wonder if there's something wrong with me. I'm a lesbian by the way, just to get that out and open before I even really begin. I've watched as every single one of my close friends has met someone, settled down, and seem so damn hap... (400 words)

Can I and how do I help him before he gets into real trouble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My mate (we are both 18 - he's nearly 19) used to be a really nice guy and somewhere in him, he still is, but since he had some big family problems, he's become an a$$hole. He has few morals left, always talks about sex and mentioned cheating, but I hope the 'old' him is still ... (136 words)

Does my wife love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - lm a guy aged 24 and im married.my wife she is pregnant,the problem is that all the time she want to fight with me and she hate me.the other thing is that she likes sex everytime when i am at home even im tired coming from work,tell me did this girl loves me ,im confused about ... (59 words)

I've just realized I'm a very self-absorbed person. How do I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have realised that I am a very self absorbed person. Everything that happens, the first thing I do is think about how things affect me before I think about how someone else may be feeling or how they will cope. This is a not very nice part of my character but just trying t... (101 words)

Why are women so close about allowing a new woman to join them? I feel excluded and cannot understand why they do it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Something I don't think I will ever really understand is relationships among women. Specifically friendships. I have never been apart of the 'girls' clique. Ever. Not even when I was a child! To this day I am still faced with this problem. I literally have one female frien... (191 words)

He wants to propose in front of everyone!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend are 3 and a half years apart. he asked me if he proposed to me what would i say? (he is older) so i said of course i would say yes. and he said he can't wait till he can do it infront of everyone! im really nervous. i dont know when he is going to. im ... (82 words)

Does he deserve a second chance after he lied about wearing a condom?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for a couple of months. He's nice to me, although he has a bit of a problem telling the truth. He does not like wearing protection as he says he doesn't feel anything and the rubber irritates him. I finally agreed to go on the pill after my next pe... (340 words)

What is it like dating a policeman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I live in Southern California, and went to visit some friends in Las Vegas. While I was there I hit it off with a guy there who was hanging out with his friends who are also my friends. We exchanged numbers before I went home and we've been talking ever since. Not only is he a ... (157 words)

How can we overcome conflicting schedules?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I do not want us to fade. Basically, me and my gf, who lives 1hr 30mins away from me have been dating for over a year, we chat all the time, calls last 2hrs a night. We meet every fortnight and dedicate/spend the whole day with each other 10hrs. We do this every 2nd Tuesda... (166 words)

My husband has fallen in love with a friend and blames me. So what does the quote mean that describes what he did?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

17 January 2012 (?) age 41-50 - Many people have long time emotional affairs but keep saying that they are just friends. My husband also did it to me...very nice and obedient to his friend and very worst and ignoring to me..then fell in love with her. Feels guilty and confused..and blamed me for this. [that... (107 words)

He rings me every day but I'm getting mixed signals

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - A guy friend of mine and I live far apart and have only met a couple of times. Initially, he was into me as a girlfriend, but I was on the fence about it (because we don't know one another very well in a physical space) and he had other issues that are preventing him from being ... (233 words)

Well endowed boyfriend makes sex uncomfortable

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My man is larger than average. He likes to go deep but it hurts me way too bad. It feels like hes poking me in my stomach and I feel I have the worst cramps of my life. Do you think that its just because of his size or is there something wrong with me? Also, I can ne... (80 words)

How can I arrange another get together without coming on too strong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy at college for a couple of months now. He is one of the quietest people I have ever met (but *highly* intelligent and witty). Around mid-December, before going home for Christmas break, I asked him if he wanted to play chess with me, and he agreed and we ... (203 words)

How do I get my husband to realizehow selfish he is and how callous he is about my feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age - How do I make my husband of 30 years realize he is selfish and ignoring my feelings? I found out recently one of our old friends is one of his old lovers. He never told me and blames me for not asking. She has not been nice to me over the years, but I tolerated it for the ... (221 words)

He and his wife are separated but he's in no hurry to obtain a divorce

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2719 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a man 6 months ago. I knew he was still married. His wife left him after an injury a year and a half ago and is involved with another man. This has been the best 6 monthd of my life. I have been single for a couple of years with two young girls. I am 37 and never be... (214 words)

She seemed eager to meet but there has been no contact in two days

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4723 days ago

17 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met a girl two months ago and for the first month we saw each other and stayed together for a few days maybe a whole week in total time. Then the following month I haven't seen her as she was busy over the holidays with family like we all are at this time of the year. I... (206 words)

He wanted sex. I had my period. Finally I agreed to do it, as I was horny. But it all ended badly, with him freaking out. Was his reaction excessive disgust?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

17 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - This may gross some people out with I need some honest opinions... I have a fwb and we have sex on a regular basis. Well the other night he came over and I was on my period (a very light one) so I declined sex and just gave him head. Well the next morning I I showered and ... (466 words)