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Archived questions from: 27 January, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm 24 and have never even had a crush on someone!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My problem is that I'm asexual and I'm desperately unhappy about it. I'm now 24 and never in my life have I ever experienced so much as a crush on anyone. I don't experience any attraction, my feelings for other people never go beyond friendship. I don't actively avoid ... (220 words)

How do I get past this insecure feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 23 years. I am exmilitary and have always been a striong secure male. My wife had a bad childhood and throughout our marriage has pushed me away every couple of years. I have tried to make her stop and realize she doesn’t want to lose me many times. At ... (828 words)

If a guy wants you for sex but not a girlfriend does it mean you're ugly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 January 2012 (?) age 36-40 - He said it was because we live too far apart and I accepted that. Now he's dating a girl who lives near him but still wants to sleep with me. He calls me "hot" etc I've told him to leave me alone. I feel ugly :(... (47 words)

My life is a mess!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have a list of issues and I do not deny I need therapy but I am here to vent something...I would love the comments and the advice but I'm not really asking for it, I am but im not. I want guidance but I know what to do I'm educated intelligent and I know some councling ... (1579 words)

In an emotionally abusive relationship but can't let go cause I don't want to see him move on. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are on the verge of breaking up but Im still holding on because the thought of him going on dates, falling for other women and getting over me just devastate me and I have anxiety attacks. How do I get over this? Why is this happening? We have been togeth... (173 words)

Trapped in a loveless, sexless marriage. Everybody loves my husband except me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for many years and I have children. I have fallen in love with another man and the other man feels the same way about me. How do you make the choice to leave your marriage? I am not happy with my husband. I keep hearing everyone tell me how great a guy my ... (412 words)

Is it wrong to fancy a woman who is 25 when your 44?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Im from the usa and 44 im divored 10 years this march and always dated woman my age . I'm friends with this Irish woman at work and its strange because when i see this particular woman my heart pounds weirdly fast! This woman she is about 5ft 3 so she is way smaller than... (190 words)

Love in return of cheating. . . Is this right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in love with a girl since 4 months or more. I truly loved her and cared for her. I could do anything to make her smile. And, i thought she felt the same for me. Our relation started with some problems of her with her ex boyfriend. I helped her out and gradually we ... (264 words)

I like my friend and got shot down. Do I try again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - So I have a friend that I recently told I have feelings for. The problem is, when I told her, it was really awkward and she pretty much walked me into the whole situation. She shot me down, but my heart won't let me give up. Would going up to her and expressing my feelings to ... (72 words)

How do I deal with an angry friend and a misunderstood situation?

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27 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - long story short is: -my friend likes this guy (we'll call him M) but is also still hanging out with her ex bf. -she introduced me to him prior to new years eve. -hes a nice guy, ive hung out with "M" and her in a group and with "M"/group without her too...i think he mig... (553 words)

After being heartbroken, I finally met a wonderful woman! But I am out of shape and could ruin my chances at love again! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - it has taken me a long time to get over my ex. I have at times been very down and reached a point where i almost stopped going out. I just stayed at home ate and moped. A year later i have realized that i have become a mess. I have lost most if not all muscle and put on about 4 ... (161 words)

I am a sex addict and I need help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. My name's Anon and I'm a sex addict. In the past I'd always been skeptical about the existence of sex addiction as a medical condition, in contrast to addictions to alcohol, drugs or gambling, but now believe it to be true and accept that I am one. I'm 31 now and ... (384 words)

Hey guys, How often do things go well after getting a girl's number for you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a question for the guys on here. How often do things pan out? I mean, you meet a girl you like, you get her number. You text a little then nothing happens. I'd like to know how often this happens to other men because lately this has been happening quite often to m... (59 words)

If I don't get away from this guy at work...I could be tempted! What can I do?

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27 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone I'm in a bit of a dilemma, I am currently with my bf over 2 yrs i really do love him to bits but we barely have sex its been like this from the time we met i'd always have to make the first move. Well 6 months ago i started a new job 3 months into that i got moved ... (186 words)

How can I hint to him not to get me silver as I'm allergic to it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - hi there agony aunts and uncles, thanks for the good advice i have had from you with problems i have put on here, and also helped everytime, im just wanting to know and i feel a little cheeky saying this, but how do i hint to my boyfriend of nearly 3 years that i cant wear ... (472 words)

Which outfit should I wear on this date: the black and white jumper or the grey sweater dress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm meeting up with this guy i like tomorrow. I'm going to his house, but we might be going out to some pubs as well. I'm not sure what to wear. I have two outfits in mind. One is a black and white jumper ( it's not a thick jumper, it looks similar to a top, but it's a bit ... (175 words)

I'm leaving my abusive husband, but why do I still feel so weak?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all, After 3 years of misery in a really bad marriage I finally decided to separate from my husband. I have no doubt that the marriage was bad and that this is the right decision but my problem is that I’m so afraid of the future. I’m 33 years old and I’m not sure I w... (217 words)

Is she blowing me off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - 2 days ago at work this gorgeous girl came in and we started talking. Everything just clicked. We loved all the same movies, had all the same interests, shared the same sense of humor. She even felt comfortable enough to sip my drink. She said that talking to me was the best ... (162 words)

I never orgasm during sex...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I know this is a popular problem amongst women (apparently) but whenever I have sex I never orgasm. I mean I like sex enough and I want to have it, but when I hear all my friends chatting about how great it is I just think 'why doesn't it happen to me?' If i'm honest i've... (144 words)

How can I build a motherdaughter relationship with my stepmother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 22-25 - Well i'm 13, and when i was 8 my mom and dad split because my mom fell in love with a black guy. At the time i didn't understand i was only told that my mom and dad didn't love each other anymore. Me and my dad were so close that i wanted to live with him because we went... (804 words)

Am I wrong for being unhappy with the engagement ring?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend of 4 years and I just recently got engaged. I'm really happy and excited about it all, because I had been pushing the whole get married thing for so long. We shopped around for rings and at first I didn't care which one he'd get me because I thought ... (184 words)

His ex's home and mobile numbers were back on his phone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was looking through my boyfriends phone contacts and realized that the mobile and home number of his ex girlfriend who he was with for years was back on his phone (new phone and sim card from old phone had number on it). I waited to see if he would delete it without me saying ... (93 words)

I feel depressed and sad that my parents are still trying to have children and they aren't thinking about me and my feelings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently came to know that my mom had a missed abortion with a 9 week fetus. I feel so embarrassed and angry and sad because i am 20 and old enough to have my own kids but they want a second kid after so many years. I found out that she had a miscarriage only on the day she ... (251 words)

I constantly worry that my loved ones are going to die.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I constantly worry that my loved ones are going to die. For instance, if I have not heard from them, I worry that something bad has happened to them. Or, if they have to fly somewhere, I worry so much about their safety. This stressful, obsessive worry really does get out of ... (102 words)

Is he using me or...?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a younger man for approximately 6 months. He seems to be crazy about me and treats me like a queen around the house. His situation is as follows: he had a break-down approximately 1 year ago after he broke up with the mother of his kids. They were in a 6... (483 words)

She broke off with me but wants me to wait....I am not sure what to do here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend recently broke up, as she wanted more time to spend with her friends and a break from me. We had been arguing for a week or two about stupid things. She said she loves me a lot and that one day she hopes we can be together one day again but she also doesn't ... (104 words)

Strange phone call!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age - What does it mean when a lady calls you and doesnt say hello back but stays on the phone... (19 words)

My child and I want to move in with him...so will he ever do the work on his home as he promised?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Not sure how to start or explain this one, been on here before and got great advice from you agony aunts and uncles, so i am hoping that you can advice me on this one. I am in LDR which been with him for nearly 3 years, we are committed loyal and honest with each other, we see ... (609 words)

I am wondering..does my ex still have feelings for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex split up about a year and a half ago now. I ended the relationship for several reasons which I won't go into. When we split up, I cut all communication with him in order to move on. However, he kept trying to contact me and I just simply ignored him. The contact ... (495 words)

Why would a guy in love with you, stare at another woman not long after you had met?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) age 41-50 - Hi there, Would like perhaps a male perspective please. over years ago but it still bothers me as I dont understand it. Only a few months into our relationship (and it was obvious to both parties that we had both met 'the one' and wanted a future including marriage one day... (248 words)

My boyfriend's controlling behaviour is bothering me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I’m 26 years old, in December I sent a message to my friend saying I miss my ex, I did anything towards that feeling and I just said to coz I’m getting married and I was having cold feet. My bf saw this message and ever since this incident he doesn’t trust me. I have did n... (126 words)

Does his conduct indicate that he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm the only out gay kid in my class, and one of two in the whole school. So there's this guy in two of my classes this year, but we also had summer school together. He knows I'm gay, as does everyone else, but he still like talks to me and "picks on" me... I don't know if it's ... (187 words)

I was once unfairly accused of theft as a child and the trauma affects my behaviour even now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

27 January 2012 (F) age 30-35 - I have no idea where to post this question, but I seriously need to let this out and get some advice. Okay here it goes... Well when ever someone loses something and they're looking for it, I immediately get nervous. I start to shake, my heart races my head shakes...I lose con... (249 words)

How do I get over my teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem... D: when I started my music lessons not so long after started fancying my teacher to the point where I got a huge crush on him or whatever. Knowing that it wouldn't work out (even thought I am 18) I forced myself to snap out of it, or tried... So hard as hard ... (386 words)

I want a baby but I don't want a relationship just to make babies.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I am 19 years old and want a child so bad I can hardly wait. Yet I have been waiting for 2yrs now and am tired of waiting. I am mature, live on my own, have a job and everything else I need. I even have taken parenting classes and already have clothes, bottles, and lots ... (127 words)

Too much friction when I'm on top!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - When me and my boyfriend have sex we seem to have a friction problem he does not shave, but I do shave and any time I am on top he will eventually say ouch from feeling the friction. It usually happens even if I am cleanly shaven ,but defiantly when there is some stubble. Is ... (81 words)

My boyfriend hates animals and wants to get rid of my dogs!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend off and on for the past 6, years wants me to give away my dog who is 9 and my rescue puppy who is 3 then find a job in his state and move in with him he moved away 5 years agao and we stay in touch meeting when we could in talking on the phone almost every ... (180 words)

I hate him and love him! please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So of course Im in love with a guy who I hate more than anything. Yes I said it, I think I hate him more than I love him but I always stay,take him back, forgive him etc. Long story short, we met when we were teenagers (13-14 yrs old) ended up taking each others virginiti... (588 words)

Should I stay with a mentally ill boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all. I've been with my bf for almost 3yrs. He has as few problems with anxiety and depression. He has even been on anti depressants for 3months. Anyway whenever he drinks even a little these feelings he has amplifies and the smallest thing can set him off to the point where ... (230 words)

How do I keep this LDR relationship going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm a normal guy living the usual life. I'm 15 and I've got a pretty cool story that I can really use some help with. So I have a youtube account and about an year ago I randomly came across another youtube user and her channel. We actually just started having nice small ... (379 words)

I don't feel as loved as I should, even though He makes it clear he really loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok Guys help me out. I don't think I am happy but until I can understand what is going in my mind I am not ready to give up. I met a good guy who started talking marriage earlly. I felt very lucky because all the guys have dated normally took their time before having such con... (509 words)

I recently saw a message my boyfriend sent to this girl saying nice photo! I changed mine and he said nothing to me? please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi please help- i recently saw a message my boyfriend sent to this girl saying nice photo how are you.I should say the message was private. He hasnt talked to her in a year and now out of the blue mailed her when she changed her profile pic on site. Is that appropriate for him ... (179 words)

What would make a man in love still want to talk to other girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a LDR of 11/2 months. When we met my boyfriend started talking about serious plans for our future like marriage and kids but he wanted to get his financial situation together. Two months down the line, I found out he was still talking to other women which he knew be... (541 words)

Is my ex FWB (who now has a girlfriend) suggesting something? What did the kiss on my neck mean?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (?) age 36-40 - He and i were fwb in the past but we're just friends now. I went to see him at his place because he's going away for a month and we wanted to see each other before he left. We've always been pretty flirty around each other but nothing has happened since our FWB thing ended ... (208 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating because some guy texted me saying he wished I was single!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend thinks I'm cheating on him because of this guy texted me and said something about he wanted me to be single and after that i didn't text back and haven't talked to him since then. My boyfriend sister went through my phone and told him and she is a grown women not a ... (77 words)

Should I drop all my male friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

27 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a bf who I love to pieces... but I still talk to all of my ex's, I think it kinds of bother him in a way... he brung it up before but I told him it nothing to worry about. I have never cheated in any of my relationships. I really dont have a lot of friend but 85% of ... (160 words)

Why am I so picky and intense when it comes to relationships and crushes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I hope no-one finds this weird, but I've got a problem and was hoping someone could relate. I'm 18 and confused by my attitude to relationships. Since I was very young girls have been important to me and I've always developed intense crushes on certain girls, which ... (755 words)