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Archived questions from: 5 January, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I confront my ex about what she said or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone, my girlfriend and I broke up about 1 month ago now, we broke up because she didn't feel the same way. She had sent me a text that was meant to go to her ex saying that she was glad when I wasn't around the day before though. But today I found out that actually I ... (127 words)

Are a drunk man's words a sober man's thoughts?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all is this saying true a drunk mans words are a sober mans thoughts I was wondering because when my fwb is drunk he says things to me loving boyfriendy things and when he is sober he is different still cuddly but he doesn't say these things I would just like your opinion on ... (70 words)

What do I need to be told? What lessons do I need to learn? I have a huge Teacher crush.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi I'm 14 years old...ever since this school year started i met my social studies teacher, and I'm heavily in love with him. I totally understand this is wrong and those of you who think so i won't listen to you so don't bother. Anyway he always stares me down, jumps when i... (164 words)

My boyfriend treats me like crap but I can't leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs. At first he was so sweet with me but then a year later everything started, on a sunday we were suppost to go out so I kept calling him and a girl answers me and says she is his girlfriend that they were at a motel and that she is shure he ... (345 words)

Boyfriend keeps asking to slow things down says he cares about me but isn't in love with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 monthes things i thought were pretty good we live in different states but only 1 hour away.... we have been seeing each other every weekend i usually go around 7 friday night and stay until around 6 at the latest on sunday ... (306 words)

Help. Tips please. How can I sit opposite her at dinner and act as if nothing has happened between her and my BF? I want to be dignified.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. I am very much in love with him, and we are really very committed to each other. However, a few months ago, I kissed a random guy whilst on a night out (I was very, very drunk) I felt terrible. Really really terrible. I thou... (401 words)

Do I try again with him? We talk daily. I have feelings for him. But I don't want to hurt him again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I was in a relationship with this guy I loved, and suddenly I felt like I needed out and I couldn't mentally commit to a relationship. Since I broke up with him about 2 months ago I haven't stopped thinking about him. I still have feelings for him and I want to get back... (95 words)

Is he just hurt, or did he really care that little for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I was present in this relationship from day one. I stepped through the door of committment and closed it behind me. He always had one foot out the door and never did anything to make me think he truly wanted this. I was there for him during some major life crisis situations. ... (471 words)

Guy problems. I like one particular guy. But am I only ever going to be a Friend with Benefits to guys I know?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I am having some serious guy problems. We are like friends with benefits once in a while and we go well with each other. Any way we talk all the time and well I have giving him hints that I like him. He does send some hints every now and again. But like every guy that I h... (96 words)

Trust issues. How do I tell my friend. And: Am I ever going to be able to date the EX of my friend without hurting my friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone. Alright, so a few days ago, one of my good friends (A) broke up with her boyfriend of almost a month. A ended it, simply because she didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. I'd liked him before they started going out, but I forced myself to stop liking h... (288 words)

He calls me names and gets mad at me and treats me bad. How can I fix this? or Stop him doing this?.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year, and its been the best time in my entire life, i lovvve him sooo much. But i have a problem, he treats me very bad sometimes and calls me names and all that. Also he gets mad at everything i do now... H... (73 words)

She's 14. So how do I get over her? and just forget?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, so im having trouble getting over this girl... the more i think about her the more attracted i am to her. she 14 im 18 she added me as a friend on facebook cos she's mates with my brother, got talking flriting and that, once she was so upset she had a heart to heart t... (396 words)

TWhy did he pull away from me a bit? And how do I find out if he still likes another girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this boy. he's not someone who people would guess i liked. but i like him. he's smart, funny with a great personality, however, he is the sort of boy who doesn't have much experience of girlfriends. and I'm finding it really hard try and get with him. At first we... (215 words)

I kicked her out but I want her back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with her 2 weeks ago when she broke a major condition of our relationship. I was so angry with her blatantly ruining our love that I kicked her out of the house and immaturely called her hurtful names. We had 1 major issue before and I kicked her out because of it 3 ... (185 words)

How to reassure my Boyfriend that I'll b alright at my friend's party? It's tonight! HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - What can I say/do to reassure my boyfriend that I'll b fine at my friend's birthday party just because there will b alcohol? Does he not trust me even though he says he does? Now he has me all worked up that I might do somethin stupid. I even asled if he wanted to come. But he ... (89 words)

Breakup with ex but he's still mad when I talk to other guys

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex and i regret it but he says he don't know what he wants but he's still in love with me. He say's he don't wanna get hurt again and his friend don't like me so he's saying he don't wanna lose a friend and he's also saying his mom thinks i'm "shy". But yet ... (82 words)

I am very financially responsible, my b/f isn't and his situation makes me very uneasy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating a guy for 2 months, we've known each other for 7 months prior to dating. The thing is he has a lot of financial problems. He was injured in an accident and was not able to work, hence the bills started mounting. He lost a couple of investment homes and ... (156 words)

Does my brother's friend like me? What did he mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okayy. So my brother's friend is older than me. And I think he kinda like's me. He asked me if I had feelings for me and I said well you think?? Do you have feelings for me?? And he was like,"yeah, Well I care about you". What does this mean?? Should I just stop trying to talk ... (60 words)

I know my ex was wrong for me but why do I keep thinking of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - i was dating a guy for 3 yrs,we met in junior college and dated for 3 yrs..during the 2nd yr of our relationship i moved outta town and he started getting super possessive.he didnt like me talking to other guys n stuff,hed get paranoid if he called an heard a guys voice in the ... (388 words)

Us women want Pleasure Too!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Why is it that most men ALWAYS want their Women to go DOWN on them. BUT in return Some men DONT want to go DOWN on their Women. Why is that? US WOMEN WANT TO BE PLEASURED TOO!... (39 words)

Why have my feelings for my girlfriend changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'd appreciate it if anyone could give me some advice on this About two weeks ago whilst my girlfriend and I were away from each other for Christmas on a break as mentioned in an earlier question, I started to get little doubts about the way she felt about me, which I knew... (738 words)

Why do I stay even after he's been guilty so many times?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I am an attractive, young hearted, full of life woman. I've never had any problems with finding a man, but for the last 3 years, I have been in a very disfunctional relationship. We've both made huge mistakes that have damaged the relationship, but since May last year, we ... (292 words)

I just found out my partner was a prostitute

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

5 January 2012 (M)

age - Just found out that my partner was a prostitute - apparently a one off that she dreadfully regrets...I love her but am at a loss what to do now...sorry so short but I'm too upset for many details. ... (38 words)

Please help me deal with my boyfriend having cancer!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (?) age 36-40 - It is quite a complicated problem well it is to me but here goes...basically last month i met this lovely guy who i really like and he likes me too. We have gotten really close and i think i am falling in love with him. The only thing is we were talking last night after he had ... (187 words)

People tell me I am a great catch but I can't seem to get into a relationship! I hate being single!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I hate being single. There I said it. I would like to feel loved, and be part of a relationship, to share things with a special someone. At nearly 29 years old, I have been single for most of my adult life and it is really beginning to affect my self esteem. In the last 10 y... (386 words)

Does anyone know of an organization that could my family with their debt after loss of our father?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm twenty three years old and lost my father just over a year ago after he commited suicdie because he been abuseing me and ( my sis ) it all came out and he took the cowards way out x ever since it all happen me and my family have struggled finalcally because he also left us ... (161 words)

My boyfriend hates that I still talk to my ex's. Advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i was on my facebook and my friend posted on my wall.. he said i think your cute and we dated already though! i thought it was funny. my boyfriend got mad because i talk to most my ex's. i tried saying that all my ex's were friends before more.! (which is true) but he ... (100 words)

Any ideas why he is suddenly losing erection during sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey! my boyfriend and I have been together for a few months now, but I've known him forever since we've been friends since high school. Everything is great, we get along great and we both work to make things work. We're both very much in love. The sex is also truly amazing- but ... (136 words)

I cheated and not sure if she can/will take me back! Adivce?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I cheated twice with hookers she found it on my laptop i admitted it she stayed with me but now 3 months later she says its over. I love her more than anything and cant believe wat a fool i have been she is beautiful and really loved me i know i have been an arse but i cant let ... (168 words)

Why is it that when men play around they are champs and women are called names???

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I just want to know why is it when men play around with 3 or more women its ok. Hes looked up to as the CHAMP. BUT if a female plays around with 3 men or more. She gets called a "HOE" : "SLUT" : A "WHORE". JUST about every name in the book. why is that?... (58 words)

I'm shy and I can't tell if this guy likes me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am really confused. There is a guy I met in a christian group I go to. I really like him but he confuses me. There have been times I look and and he is staring at me. I look away but can still feel him staring so I look again and I always smile. It seems he looks at... (392 words)

Confused, but wanting to love.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl at a party and I kissed her in my drunkeness, among a few other girls. I found her interesting and got her facebook details I added her and we started to chat. After weeks of chatting online noticing we get along really well and have similar sense of humor, ... (423 words)

Will my boyfriend ever grow up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for a year now. A little back story, we met at work. He was engaged and I was married and pregnant with my second child and there was no interest at the time. Long story short, his fiance cheated on him and my ex husband decided to become an ... (526 words)

Why is my supervisor behaving the way he is?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been working for this retail store and within the "structure" I, naturally, have a supervisor who's pretty helpful and friendly with everyone who works there. Nothing out of the norm. It isn't until last month when I started to REALLY notice him. Specifically, he... (662 words)

G/f says she hit her ex. Will she hit me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

5 January 2012 (?) age 41-50 - I just started to date this beautiful girl. She is everything I had ever wanted and acts just like a lady. However a couple of things are concerning me, 1. Is that her ex bfs things are still in her place, yet she says they broke up 3 months ago. She is in the proces... (144 words)

Do I tell my boyfriend I think I'm bisexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend over a year our relationship is awesome and so is the sex, but i think im bi sexual. ive never told anyone or gone any further than a kiss with a girl, but i like to watch girl on girl porn and have always fantasized about being with another ... (58 words)

Why does my family always think I'm doing drugs? I'm not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Kso, I am in grade 9.. [Highschool of course.] And everytime I go on Facebook, my mom thinks I am like doing some sort of drug deal or something, and then when I talk about my friends too my mom, she is always like, "Do they do drugs?" And I understand she is concerni... (356 words)

Should I contact this girl again? Or is she just being nice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4611 days ago

5 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, This is kind of a pathetic story, but I would appreciate any help. When I was in college senior year I spotted this beautiful girl that would routinely eat in the cafeteria around the time I was there. I sadly could never time exactly for the both of us to b... (517 words)

Boyfriend becomes sad or angry and is becoming more difficult to deal with. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 16 and I have problems with my boyfriend. See we don't usually fight a lot and when we're together we always have a great time. Atleast in the beginning. We can be so happy about the movie we're watching, the diners we go to even just taking night walks and talking. But ... (295 words)

How can I be in love with 2 men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4733 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for two years. I left my ex ( the man that I had two children with) and soon after started dating my husband and shortly after that I got married. This whole time, my ex has been saying that he wants me back and I have thought about it almost everyday. He ... (140 words)

I need someone to help me control my resentment toward my husband's ex. She's taught their daughter to want everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi "b I need help I.just got married with my husband who.has a daughter that is seven I love that lil girl bit the mom I just don't know what to say! in first place they live in Mexico we send money every two weeks and before the two weeks are over she is already calling ... (269 words)

Boyfriend cheating with S and M mistress?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is into S and M (bondage) He doesn't want to do it with me because he thinks I'm only doing it to please him. Our sex is not great. He complains that he cant get into it because the S and M is what turns him on the most. He is meeting one of his "mistresses" toni... (116 words)

First online date...Pointers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I sign up on i dating site there this guy on it asked me if i wanted 2 catch up for a drink on saturday night . Should i go and where the best place to going never being on a dating site before? and what should i watch out for any help would be great thank you for your time... (66 words)

He's confusing me. Sure I have jealousy issues. First they were major to him, now not so much? But does he want me back now, or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

5 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I broke up about a year and the reason it happened was because i had jealousy issues and which made us fight, even though he did nothing to be jealous about , i used to be jealous of the past. He used to say it will only push him and it happened because i was blinded by own a... (364 words)