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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I tell him it's over through text?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - am just 16 and my bf is 29..i love him but right now,i have every doubt that he loves me to..but when ever he is tickled he plays with me and tells me how much he love me just 2 make love with him..am so used to him that everytime i cry when ever he tells another girl on phone ... (80 words)

I'm too controlling over him and don't know how to stop!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my bf for about three years now we just recently had a babygirl who now is 5months and thing are good between us we used to fight alot over things that happend in the past thing are good now but ive notice that i feel realy attached to hem and i dont know what to ... (175 words)

Should I ask her on a date? and how?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

9 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - There is woman about my age working in my local cafè I really like her and I think she is giving me signs smiles and waves when i come in and asks how I am and when in the Q she is not like that to the other customers the thing is though there is always two members of staff ... (163 words)

When I try to be affectionate, he blows cold!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - He's 17, I'm 16. We met last September at college and have instantly got on. For his birthday he invited me to his house with other (only male) friends.I met his dad. He always pops up on Facebook chat but usually we only discuss college work, but once he asked for my number. ... (202 words)

I am not a serial cheat and nor is he....so why are we doing this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Firstly...please don't judge me. I know I'm playing with fire and I'm an idiot but I really need an objective opinion and some advice. I am married, it's not perfect and I think I rushed into marriage too young. My husband is a good man but we are very different people to who ... (561 words)

I'm so annoyed with my mom and sister!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - At my school, in about a month, we will have "freshman formal" (a formal dance for only freshman). Everyone is getting dates, buying dresses, and everyone is really excited. I didn't get asked and I'm fine with it, my best friend's boyfriend is on vacation at that time, and my ... (213 words)

How many dates should you go on before having sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - After how many dates is it ok to have sex with someone?... (12 words)

Love triangle and husband wants me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Been involved in a love triangle for years. I been married for six years and is going through and divorce. (supposedly)We been separated two years. I have a daughter by my husband, and a child during the separation.My husband states he dont want the divorce he put doubts in my ... (93 words)

Stuck! I have feelings for my ex still!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Back summer I had a kinda serious relationship with a boy I'm 15 it was a big deal cos he was my first kiss and that,it lasted about 3 months I see him everyday in school and that we constantly text and talk during school times after we spilt up he got with another girl and ... (129 words)

Deep affection for my old teacher!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm 18 and I still have this huge crush on my old teacher. He's married, I'm in a serious relationship (I love my bf to death and would never ever think of cheating). But I just can't get over him because of various festivals and school functions, we had a good friendship ... (133 words)

I'm a straight guy who's in love with a bi guy! How do I approach him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey there, I need help for a mind-torturing situation... I'm a straight guy who's in love with a man.I've known him for 10 years, we occasionally worked together, have friends in common, meet on a regular basis.Since the day we met I've felt a very strong physical attracti... (301 words)

Married, in love with another man, but my husband won't let me go

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - My oh my, I am in big trouble. I work with a man I have become very close to. I am married. He is not. I see him everyday and we spend lots of time together working on the same project. I am in an unhappy marriage and have truly and deeply fallen for this other man. It is... (703 words)

I love my cousin but our parents know of my feelings so nothing can be done

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - i'm in love with my cousin and dont know what to do. i've had feelings for her but never thought she would like me.i'm 16 and she's 16.one day i asked her out and she said yes but then she dumped me because she felt confused about it and said she wanted to try and ignore her ... (127 words)

Should I introduce my Boyfriend to this site? he has a problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cubid Agonys! My boyfriend is going through a hard time with his family and exGF about us. And i feel sorry for him and he doesnt know what to do or have anyone to give advice.So i was think of introducing him to this DearCubid family it has been very helpful to me in so ... (117 words)

I can't go to his house parties and he doesn't want to hang out with me and my friends because of the age difference, and his job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - On my senior year i met this teacher at school. He wasn't my teacher, never was. He was just my UIL coach. When i first saw him i didn't know he was a teacher so i just started crushing on him until i found out he was a teacher, bummer right? Anyways this was the first semester ... (374 words)

We have lost our sex life because my partner has MS. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (?) age - My Partner has a long term illness MS plus other problems related to the illness She has lost all interested in sex, maybe that is a bad way to put it .I will put it this way the illness has been the cause. Not my partner. The last time we had sex together about two years ago ... (129 words)

Do I tell her she's older than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm an engineering student. I'm in the first year. I met a girl on a prominent social networking website. We talk'd. Talk'd about sex. Our sexual preferences. Now, this girl happens to be of my college itself. But, a senior of me. She's in the second year and as I told, I'... (93 words)

Husband lost his job, plays PS all day, too tired for sex. Is it me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay so my husband and I have been married about 3 months but have been together for 13 years.... I feel we have a great relationship but lately he's been really confusing me and making me wonder about things..... He loves our kids and does everything he can for our family.... ... (278 words)

Is it normal to feel this bad about yourself

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (?) age 36-40 - I've always been a shy girl and as the years have gone by i've realised that i also have social anxiety. The anxiety makes in near impossible for me to go out to bars or clubs because i can't handle being around so many people. I think that maybe i might come across as either ... (333 words)

He says he is in "awe"...meaning?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - What does it mean when a guy says he is in awe ?. This guy wrote that as a comment on one of my photos on facebook, and he has said that he would like to see me again. We met in person once recently. He has also "poked " me on facebook.... (53 words)

How should we advise our 15 year old daughter who wants to date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

9 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - We need some advice for our daughter. She is 15 and wants to start dating. We've told her that this summer she can start to have 'parent supported' dates. This means we drive her to whereever she and the guy want to go, like the mall, a movie, out for pizza, whatever. Then ... (478 words)

The first 2 dates were great, 3rd a little awkward. Was is the alcohol that made them easier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating a guy and the first 2 dates went great, we had a lot to talk about and a great time (although these two times there was alcohol involved so we may have both been a little drunk from about halfway through the dates). However, the 3rd didn't go quite as well... (259 words)

Can you tell if a man is romantically into you by the things he says?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Is a guy into you romantically if he says things like when talking about kids he says things that would be indicative that the father of your babies would be him or he has a compilation cd of lovesongs that express how he feels and he tells you not to look at the playlist or ... (104 words)

Boyfriend can't say 'I love you.'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. We are both in our mid 20s. He has never had another girlfriend because he was living with his family until he finished college, who are very religious and didn't allow him to date. I knew all this going in and I thought there might ... (597 words)

Mixed signals!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - I am confused about this guy I just met. He is 21 and I am 33, secretly gay. We started hanging out and he is sending strange signals. He wants me to go to the doctor with him (v.often now), wants to know my favorite food, picks lint on my clothes, compliments/notices what I ... (194 words)

What do you say when a guy cancels at the last minute?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (?) age 36-40 - I text him yesterday telling him that i couldn't do what we originally planed today but i was still free today and we could do something else instead if he wanted to. He text me back yesterday and said i could come to his and watch a movie instead. I said that would be fine and ... (160 words)

How should I follow my dream and be there for my mother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4721 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hello , i have not that much experience in life neither for school because in my life i've went a very strange phase.. i changed 14 schools every year i change here I live I loved too read and loved to dance loved too act and now i still love them but do nothing .. first... (505 words)

Was I right to send him this text? He still hasn't responded and I'm devastated....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating someone for a while who treated me so well he was incredible. It felt like we were falling in love I noticed very positive changes in him. But then IMMEDIATELY after, he switched up. He started treating me so different I've been suspecting he's seeing ... (213 words)

Family members trying to get my kids taken away from me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi , i am 19 years old and I had 3 kids but my oldest son(6 years old) passed away. So I have a 2 year old son and a 7 month old daughter. And my daddy mother keeps bothering me and my family by calling DSS , cops , etc on us saying we live in a messy house , we abused our kids ... (306 words)

We have been together 5 years and he hardly shows any affection, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, a fabulous new year to you all. I sincerely need your advice on this one. I and my Boyfriend have been dating for 5years now. We are in love, and we've gotten so fond of each other. But i find it disturbing that he barely shows affection and care towards me, like ... (104 words)

I don't want to mess things up but I think he has gone to far with this comment to another woman....what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, my boyfriend is quite a private person or so i thought esp in facebook, we have been in relationship for 13months now,few months ago i found he skyped a woman and in there conversation ,she asked wht he was doing and he replied,nothing,horny in bed..she asked if he had a ... (232 words)

Is my penis really that small? My wife seems to think I am lacking in that department.....

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I need some advice on the classic "size" question. My wife has indicated that she thinks I am lacking a bit, or not average. This bothers me. I am about 5.8 x 5.1. However, when not erect, its about 2-3. From others perspective, is this a deal breaker? I am thin... (149 words)

She is in pain during intercourse - what can I change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid.., I am 26 y/o and my girlfriend is 27 y/o, we are together for almost two years. Unfortunately our sex life is not very great. She tells me that she is in pain when we have intercourse. She used to get wet when we had sex but nowadays lubrication is a must. ... (338 words)

Is there really someone out there for everyone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Do people actually always find someone.....? I'm 28 and am wondering if there really is someone out there for everyone. I have friends and am comfortable enough in a crowd but I just can't seem to meet anyone. Everyone keeps saying to be patient and it'll happen but I don... (112 words)

My husband is becoming overweight and unhealthy - wouldn't he stop doing this if he loved me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello Everyone, first of all i would like to thank this site. everytime i am in trouble this is the only place i can go and at least release my problem. I grow up to what they called, disfunctional family. I got no love from my own parents specially from my own mother. The ... (321 words)

A guy is showing interest in me, but I've never been in a relationship - what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've been thinking about relationships for a while now. im 21 year old female and i havent had a relationship with a guy since i was 10 years old! i thought when i started uni at 19 my chance would get higher! but nothing....until a week ago. Im in my final year of un... (259 words)

I love my wife, but lately I hate her! Will a divorce make me happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I hate my wife more than I have ever hated another person! I also love her more than I have ever loved snother person! I have read that love and hate are the opposite sides of the same coin and that indifference is far more damning than hate. Well, I hate my wife!... (154 words)

He wants pictures of my private bits, what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - I talked to this guy once on the phone, i'm not sure how old he is, he is divorced and has a daughter that lives with his ex and he sees his daughter on the weekends. we chatted a little bit and he wants me to send pictures of my breasts and my pussy (vagina) and he told me he ... (293 words)

How do I answer his question? I don't know what he meant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, ok I was asked this question by a guy whoo recently got in contact and we have been messaging and he asked me this question and I was wondering if I can have some advise on what he's asking..ok the question is; are you inlove in life? Is he asking if I love life? Or am I ... (110 words)

Could my friend's mom be interested in me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - For a while now, iv been wanting to have sex with my girl friends mom (not my partner but a really close friend.) Me and the girl had sex before but now were just friends which is really weird because I never thought it could happen. But everytime im over her mom is so nice to ... (175 words)

HELP I like my friend's younger brother ..and I shouldn't

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need help. I moved to a new city last year for uni. I love it here and made so many new friends. One of my closest friends here is a year older than me and she's such a sweetheart and a really good person and friend. She has helped me through a lot of adjusting and we ... (215 words)

I feel like he has only come back to hurt me and play with my emotions out of his anger to me for kicking him out my home whenever we argued

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - my bf goes out about 8pm and says he wont be long he'll be home soon. his mum came to pick him up as he is on holiday a week off work so hes going to be using her car as his company van is back at his company where he works till he returns back to work. anyway i know what he ... (805 words)

Mother doesn't like my boyfriend because she thinks he might be like his mother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay so me and this guy really like each other and we are pretty much dating but my mother does not like him at all. She really doesn't know him she judges his by his alcoholic mother who is also a drug addict. But he is nothing like that he got accepted for pre law in new York ... (80 words)

Fiance's family treats me terribly and his never does anything about it

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm going to keep this simple. My problems with my fiance's family are on-going. One example of these problems occurred during one of his sister's birthday parties. She decided to call me a cunt for no reason. She humiliated me in front of her guests. Her brother acted ... (109 words)

How can I make boyfriend feel better about himself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 2 years has grown distant from me. He used to be wonderful and loving. Recently he has admitted to me that it is because he is depressed and feels like worthless crap because of the poor financial decisions he has made and how he is going nowhere in his life. It ... (129 words)

She said he's not racist anymore, but I just feel very uncomfortable. Am I over-reacting or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a situation that has been really bothering me and I need some help because I dunno if I'm overreacting or am I right for being upset.. ok so I'm living in a house with my boyfriend and two other roomates. Its been going ok, but now my roomates cousin needs a plac... (123 words)

7 months of dating, boyfriend has no job, no income, doesn't seem to care

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i really would like some advice. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 7 months and the whole time he has had no income and hasn’t been studying or attempting anything really. I have two jobs, looking for another, live away from home and am a university student. I am ... (219 words)

Should I invite my crush to my friend's party? He has a GF!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, it's more like a small gathering at my apartment but I'm not so sure if I should invite my crush over. We work together; however, we never get to hang outside of work. I just wanna get to know him better. However, HE DOES HAVE A GF....So should I invite him? And If I do,... (70 words)

Boy troubles! Do I tell the boy at school to get lost? And is there hope for me with the 19 year boy in the army? I like the army guy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Mod Note: two adjacent questions from same poster have been combined. I'm a freshman in high school and I'm having major "relationship" problems with this senior boy. I don't even know what's going on between us. The other day I was walking in the hallway and he ran up behind m... (386 words)

How do arrange to meet new friends or a new guy and how can I avoid feeling so lonely after the breakup?

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9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi People! I am in the middle of ending my six month relationship after having a bad time with my boyfriend. And very in need of advice on how to meet new friends or a new guy or how to avoid feeling lonely after the breakup...thank you for your help.... (50 words)

I was never a bad Gf to him. So why has he betrayed me, left me for another? Devastated and I don't know what to do, help please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I never thought I would feel this way. My bf of a few years left me for someone else. I feel so betrayed and in so much pain. I've seen pictures and facebook post and they are so happy together. It devastates me because he didn't seem that happy when he was with me. my mind con... (205 words)

Now that I said I'll go back with him, he's stopped texting and calling!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was going out with a guy for 6 months. during those 6 months my boyfriend use to text and call me and how so many cute and sweet things to me. but just a couple of months down are relationship he started to ignore me when text/call him for like weeks but then when he ... (319 words)

I like him but he's leaving! Do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - I have this guy that I have known for like over three years. And he left for varsity, and the other night we saw each other like bumped into each other and kind of clicked. Anyway we exchanged number and 20 mins later he asked what I was doing the next day then asked casually ... (175 words)

How can I get a guy to fall in love with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4731 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - how can i get a guy to fall in love with me, even when he says he likes me and other girls?... (22 words)

Exes and Facebook etiquette!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - When should I return to facebook? My ex who has been deleted once then re-added (because I thought we were errrr ...friends??) has met someone else, and is in a relationship...facebook has noted this...lol!! I am kinda happy for him... but he was a lil weird with me, when we ... (197 words)

There's an 8 year age difference, is that OK?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi agony aunts, i need some advice on what to do with this older man I have been seeing. He is 25 yrs old (8 yr age gap, I'm 17) i have met him only a few times in the month and a half i have known him and other than that mostly keeping in touch via facebook, text etc. It a... (405 words)

Differences in views and clingy insecure boyfriend is driving me insane!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

9 January 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a long distence relationship for almost 5 months now. He is a very nice guy. We get along. He makes me laugh. But sometimes If he's just with me because he's desperate. We met an a convention in the summer. at the convention he had his hand around one girl. th... (338 words)