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female
age
30-35,
*luegreeneyes
writes:So I met this girl about 3 or 4 months ago through a mutual friend of ours at a bar. We talked all that night and ended up kissing at the end of the night. Later the following week, I found out that she has a girlfriend. I was really confused and kinda mad, but didn't really think anything of it because she hadn't contacted me since that night. A couple weeks later she added me on facebook and started IMing me pretty frequently. She told me that she was coming home to have surgery and that I should text her. So I shot her a quick text and our daily conversations have been happening all day, every day. I go hang out with her quite often and we've slept over with each other twice. I've kissed her and she has told me that she likes kissing me and wants to make out with me. She divulges relationship info to me sometimes when she's having a hard time with her girlfriend and we talk about it. She's also introduced me to her mom and dad. I'm just kind of confused. Does it sound like I have a chance with her or am I reading too much into this?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (31 January 2012):
 You are the other woman simple as. If she really wanted to be with you then she would have done the right thing and ended her current relationship, do you honestly feel like you could trust this girl after all of this? I know if it was me then I would be saying to myself if she can do it to her current girlfriend then she could do it to me in the future. I am sorry but if you are looking for something serious with her then you need to sit her down and ask her what the story is, think higher of yourself you should never just be the other woman. Talk to her and ask her what she is doing. That conversation should have taking place after the first meeting. Good luck.
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